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Why does the magic spot keep moving ?

January 03 2013

I consider myself to have enough hands on experience and knowledge of the female erogenous zones to get it right most time. So you would think all you need to do is take your time, arouse your partner and stimulate both the body and mind... Right ?Nope' Wrong, There have been the occassion time when she tells you the magic spot you are stimulating has just moved... What ? just moved where ?Having a reasonably high success rate of WOW that was great... I always think I just about got it right, when all of a sudden a girl pipes up while stimulating her with... lower' lower.. no higher , no thats too high.. over to the side, no' thats too far... and then when you think she settles on a spot , she tells you' you had it right in the first place.. awwwww... FFS.. So what happens here.. why doesnt the magic spot want to stay still ... ? I get this image of a little man running around inside yelling '' this way, this way.. no.. the other way.. no' too high, now lower... catch me if you can find me ? grrrBefore someone tells me its me... I would believe you had my success rate was low , but its quite good... Im not knocking anyone BTW.. just like to know why the magic spot goes walkabout at times ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There's a specific spot? Just one?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    because my body has several. My favourite one is between my ears. Just sayin ...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    you are down there,attach a little light to the top of your head,say''open wide''and peer in...see there it is...a fail safe method for spotting the peripatetic spot.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13'you are down there,attach a little light to the top of your head,say''open wide''and peer in...see there it is...a fail safe method for spotting the peripatetic spot. After she'd open wide, I'd shout "Hello!" and listen to the echo. Ofcourse, then there was the time when someone else shouted back, "Get me the fuck outa' here!!!"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Periipatetic spot... ? Sounds more like i need a snorkel... Cmon guys, back me here, wtf is the peripatetic spot. ? Finding the G is hard enough without introducing another spot.. If you mean the clit... you could just call it that...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I've got no answers for you Jay_Me but you made me giggle :-) KK

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I should have said,the peripatetical spot

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The answer is simple....stop MOVING and you'll be right!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Graftenberg(thanks Freya), couldn't mark it with a flag, like Neil Armstrong did on the moon!!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    it is however north of the Mound of Venus .Galileo observerved that Venus went through many different phases,waxing and waning,this may indeed explain why the G does the same.In fact the original name that Dr,Graftenberg chose for his discovery was I believe the Peripatetical Graftenberg Spot .

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    What worked the last few times may not work every time otherwise it's like watching the same movie over and over again. Why are you worried that you can't find it straight away each time and not relaxing and having fun finding it? Sex should be fun and so should the journey getting there. The "I have a perfect strike rate for satisfying women so it can't be me and therefore must be the other person" attitude comes across with an air of arrogance, even though I'm sure you really didn't mean it that way. :-) Hope you do get some constructive and helpful answers though xx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Awww really.. this was posted with tounge in cheek... sorry you did not see it that way...KeepingKarma caught on and had a giggle... as did Freya.. If anything' it shows us men dont always get it right and are human after all ?Anyway; why do we always need to think of sex so seriously ? there is always a funny side... If it makes you feel better, Im a terrible lover with a awful strike rate...Jay x

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    is boring.Mix it up and go exploring, new discoveries are part of the joy maybe even all of it.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Just as amazing and knowing as you wander through a blizzard, no two are exactly alike...women are like that too.If she is whispering to you as she is becoming aroused, you have found the magic spot and know all you should need to know...she wants you and wants you to take her passionately.Of course if you find that annoying just drop by your dry cleaners and ask for bottle of spot remover, plan on staying home alone...that will give you time to get Spot's spots out of the carpet when you didn't move and let him out the door.Unleash....the beast!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I had no idea until I started playing with women. It's like a fruit bobbing around on the end of a long stem, trying to catch it with your mouth or keep the right place and pressure while still moving your fingers is a hell of a lot more difficult than I ever anticipated before trying it myself. That's why I now have a lot more respect for guys that can hit it more often than not. I salute you for trying in the first place. xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    But with a fair share of "Does Size Really Matter" and those just wanting confirmation that its not their fault (because we all know or never really is) sometimes it's hard to tell until I get to know someone a little by the pattern of their posts. :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The entire body is the spot. You start with the brain and be very attentive, then you will never need to be told. In the end there are a few and well defined G-spots for women. I was with a lady in her 40's and with my fingers stimulated the upper G-spot in the vagina just behind the pelvic bone. She stopped me and asked what I was doing as she had never felt that sensation before. I had to tell her and her man what I was doing. But for me it was a shock that she had in all these years, never experienced it at all.I would also like to say if you are going down on a woman do not chase the clit, let her move her hips, it very natural and almost subconscious, she is doing it to get you in the right spot and direct stimulation of the click at times can be way to much. So if she moves her hips and you move to chase the clit you are doing it all wrong. That OP is maybe why her instructions seemed so wrong. Listen to her body not to what you thing you should be doing.Its a shame that sex is so taboo, we where never taught that at school, lord forbid they teach us how to enjoy our bodies and that too others.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...Trader Vic's world famous restaurants online shop. Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'It's like a fruit bobbing around on the end of a long stem, trying to catch it with your mouth or keep the right place and pressure while still moving your fingers is a hell of a lot more difficult than I ever anticipated before trying it myself. They have the most impressive collection of cocktail skewers that you've ever seen!If all else fails, have a look at the scrimshaw ivory chopsticks...just use them, passionately.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Its a shame that sex is so taboo, we where never taught that at school, lord forbid they teach us how to enjoy our bodies and that too others. I'm thinking back to my teachers at school and (with possibly one or two exceptions) these are not the people I would want to learn sexual practise from. It would be like the missionaries teaching the natives how to fuck, ...sorry, procreate properly all over again.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    It just does. Even I find myself doing the "up a bit, down a bit, left a bit, go faster, THAT'S IT NOW DON'T MOVE IT ANYWHERE.....YES! YES!" I don't know why it happens.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    so all women are what?, the same? not by my reckoning.....or experience. everyones different...all women like or prefer different things to be touched in different ways, at different times....theres no 'generic' way to do anything here, that pleases everyone.............every new partner offers up a whole new learning experience...and that has to be a very good thing indeed......

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Are you saying (Jensman) that we should not teach the young (over 16, of course) the basics of male and female anatomy in terms of stimulation and the neurological components. I did sex ed at school and there was never any mention of the clitorides, G-spots, etc... The only orgasm that was ever mentioned was the male ejaculation.You are showing how sex is taboo by the fact that you can not detach and learn in a clinical way. Rather let us find out by shear luck. Feel sorry for the many monogamous men and women that never experience the full joy of a mind blowing orgasm just because they where never taught that it was possible. Education is king, even if you do not like it. It makes the world a better place for all.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    We are just cool like that.....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Because... By our very gender we are entitled to change our minds without warning so why cant we change our "spot" at will?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    dear jay me.... not only does the spot move.... but the effect moves woman to woman , day to night, hour to hour. its what makes it new and exciting and fun everytime.Its also why i prefer 39 one night stands with the same man because every so often there is a repeating pattern.39 seems to be the right number........but on occassion it can blow out to 101.......loldear blindman.... exploration is the best teacher, relaxation and time and honesty ....none of which was ever present in the classroom.....and did i ever tell you about the time(s) i came.... before he touched me........

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    if im having to say " left up higher down over right nearly no over there"........id just as soon take up duck hunting or crockadile wrestling to get my thrills......aint never given instructions......if my bodys not responding ...with the unconscious hip thingy....lets go out and have dinner and a nice conversation and see if we can start that again.....or a polite kiss goodnight to send you on your wayyoull get me just as wet by the words you use as you will with your fingers........(ok. so well placed fingers will bring forth a flood) but words before and during will be very important stimulantslike wine...lifes too short to have bad sex

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    and did i ever tell you about the time(s) i came.... before he touched me........Do tell... lol... Jay

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'whoareu10'dear blindman.... exploration is the best teacher, relaxation and time and honesty ....none of which was ever present in the classroom..... Yes its so sad. Why is sex education about not getting pregnant and not about joy. The multi layered, emotional, complicated, interaction between intimate people. They attempted to teach that sex had one purpose and one only and the inference was that it was not to be done at all unless married and procreating, is mind numbing. Sex for joy, then go from there.All I can say is be attentive, we are beautiful and lucky to have the joy of sex. OP if she was like that, as much her fault as yours. Silly metaphor coming.I crewed a sailing boat that ran a ground, the miss communication between the skipper and the forward watch in difficult water's led to hours of hard work for all. The definition of what was "Murky to starboard" and "Its just muddy water" sent us all flying across deck. The skipper had plain sight of the watch and I saw that her body (the forward watch) was saying turn to port now, left hand gesturing in frantic motion, body leaning to port, her body pulling at the starboard railing. The watch was wrong in language, but the skipper was wrong to not see the body language. I saw it and I was just a teenager. Listen to the body, as we talk with our bodies much better then with language.Best of luck in the beds all of you.One day I will make a lady come by just the flick of a finger and a control that says, come now. Now that would be awesome .

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Like when your contact gets lost behind your eyeball and starts wandering throughout your body?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    How would you suggest I teach a class of 20 16yr old boys what you are asking blind man? Keep in mind that I'm blonde 5ft2 and can't run very fast.....- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ... almost as much as the discovery!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme'How would you suggest I teach a class of 20 16yr old boys what you are asking blind man? Keep in mind that I'm blonde 5ft2 and can't run very fast.....Educate me, Paintme.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Paintme.Well I would imagine that it would be a class of 20 16+ year old boys and girls. One would assume that they know the basics of biology by that age. There are dozens of books, documentaries, resources on the subject. I am not going to bother writing a curriculum.The problem is not what is taught in the class but the attitude to establishing the classes in a society that still sees sex as mostly taboo. We are a special sub culture here in RHP. We tend to have more liberal attitudes in terms of of sexual freedom than the majority. We are not fighting the kids we are fighting the morality of society.That was the point of my argument.Side note. Love body art so love your handle and would love to.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    so you say you have enough hands on experience to know how to please a woman but yet you dont know the fact that every wiman is different. there spots havent moved you just havent found it. at the end of the day the ear lobe, behind the ear, the g spot or clit will not satisfy every woman. you just have to find the right spot quick and work on it. not every woman likes anal swallowing or even penetation. every woman is different and enjoy the fact that she actually told you not leave you thinking shes been fully satisfied

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Like when your contact gets lost behind your eyeball and starts wandering throughout your body? I hate it when that happens!!