RHP

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Why don't attached bisexual woman play ALONE with other bisexual woman...????

October 07 2013

Being a bisexual woman with a rampant appetite for other woman i feel i have to ask the question....I am part of a very happy, very balanced and lovely relationship with a wonderful guy who allows me to play with other woman by myself....he is allowed to join in if everyone agrees but its ultimately up to the girls...after all its about the girls.As much as i enjoy seeing him with other woman in a threesome im mainly not there for that! Im there for the girl on girl time. So im after every ones thoughts as to why these gorgeous babes wont or cant come play by themselves. After all don't you want to play with girls?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This it what I say in my profile: "In a one-on-one situation I’m predominantly attracted to men, but I’m very much into playing with women in a moresome." A one-on-one with a woman is just not enough to satisfy me, I'm afraid. I want a bite of everything.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    12 years ago

    Way more than one-on-one play... and I love sharing experiences with MrParadis.   He's offered that if I was curious to try one-on-one session with another woman he'd have no issue, for now I'm not interested, he's an integral part of my sex life, we're a unit. I love that... I certainly wouldn't be leaving him at home to join another couple for an FMF...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Gosh I must be lucky as I have been fortunate to meet other bi ladies who are attached and also in open relationships and have regular one on one play with them : ) All I can say is keep searching as those lovely ladies are out there. Ms NC2147- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some women are more bi curious than actually bi in couple relationships... we have being with couples where the female said she was bi but barely did anything girl on girl related. My wife use to get frustrated as well since she loves being with other women. Then there have being times when she has met with a truly bi woman and they have gone at it all night pretty much. Maybe make it a point to find women who are truly into women?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In the past I've played with other girls in relationships away from their partner and in every case the M has at some point attempted to join in either subtly, by instigation or made comments on what has happened between myself and said F so I just avoid this situation. Saying all this, I'm in a serious relationship with a guy who is fine with my sexuality and I'll love him to experience a ffm with me but I'd never seek it with a girl involved in a relationship.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'goldcoastcple69'Some women are more bi curious than actually bi in couple relationships... we have being with couples where the female said she was bi but barely did anything girl on girl related. My wife use to get frustrated as well since she loves being with other women. Then there have being times when she has met with a truly bi woman and they have gone at it all night pretty much. Maybe make it a point to find women who are truly into women? I'm truly into women, I am just not interested in playing alone or without my other half. Was that a 'yes' to your wife playing alone? Just curious...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Every couple, like singles are different. Therefore, their desires, willingness etc are also different. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    hey u know what they say.....sharing is caring...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    yes I know. I wasn't trying to say that some kind of deception was at hand or anything like that. Just saying that theres a difference between truly bi and bi curious.   And yes she does play alone with bi women. She had one 3some alone with a couple and the guy decided he wanted to ruin what could of being an amazing experience by being a dick. After that experience shes reluctant to meet with couples alone. At least till she gets to know them better. but she doesn't mind hooking up with the female alone or even the hubby watching and I don't mind if she does that either as long as im sure they are somewhat sane.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    12 years ago

    I would never play without my husband being with me, even with another woman. Just too risky as there are lots of weirdos out there . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    attached women may not want to play alone because they are, well, ATTACHED?!! Yes, some people have open relationships, but that's probably not the majority. A weird question OP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You said you're mainly in threesomes for the girl-on-girl time. There are lots of couples who aren't, such as us. Birdie is whatever you call bicurious once the curiousity has been really thoroughly explored. Girl time is fun and definitely "full-service" but it's not her only interest. Watching girl time isn't my only interest either. No offence at all but when you say "after all it's about the girls", we wouldn't find that dynamic very appealing. We want to give each other a complete experience, and her playing with a girl by herself isn't that, so she doesn't.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm married and bi and happy to do everything with a woman and even though I say I only want a female guys always want a threesome, I struggle finding a girl who will play on her own, I have a man and really don't need another one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Two gals having a bit of fun, but it's not the main focus for us. We ventured into swinging as a couple to enjoy playing with other couples together, not to have my man sitting on the couch watching two gals enjoying themselves..Don't get me wrong, I love being with a gal, but do enjoy what a man has to offer as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Because I think if you have a singles profile that should suggest you play alone, whether you are attached or not. If there's a playing guy in the picture, that couple should have a couple's profile. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A like button

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well each to there own but ill add my little input lol I'm dead st8 but wld rather play with couples as there is so much less bull shit :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Couldn't agree more!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yeh um, exactly- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you don't play alone- and that includes with your partner present/watching- then you should have a couples' profile...?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    we always play together. we shared a few women together and got a total kick and plenty of pleasure out of it. males need to give the girls the time to play as they like and just enjoy the show, at some stage the girls call for some cock and then it turns into group sex. in a threesome we start out together and the girls are leading the play, as long as nobody is left out everybody is happy. threesomes are great since one lady is getting the attention from both sexes, not bad having the best of both worlds.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So you don't play alone, so why do you expect other attached women to leave their man at home to come play with you and your man? Why would they do that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As usual Meeka cuts through the fluff to core of things.Well said.Over the years we have been amazed at the hide of some people trying to use others for their own benefits.You often run into couples that think they can split off a female from a couple for their ownuse after they get frustrated by not being able to bag a 'unicorn' for themselves.Hypocrites..they won't play seperately and then complain others won't?? As the male half I am quite happy tosit out if the ladies want to play,I just don't agree that her partner gets to be there if i can't. As the complaining shows in this thread (and others) couples seeking girls only seem to be the most selfish in the lifestyle which in itselfshows they are not offering enough to interest anyone to join them.Rant over

  • MissDemeanah

    MissDemeanah

    12 years ago

    I am always getting flirts and messages from couples.. Not really my cup of tea, because the men want to join in at some stage or watch... I prefer 1on1 with women. I am yet to find a women who is part of a couple who will play on her own. I am not in a relationship so I have the freedom to play with girls, unfortunately I get more hits from men than women.. I'm not sure what it is.. I am yet to find a woman who is not attached who wants to play.. I'm not into one night stands, I would like something regular, and there has to be mutual attraction of course, but most times I find women who approach me are attached and its simple, I am not interested in another woman's man.. Smorgasbord sounds great, but for me being with a woman is like begin vegetarian I know exactly what I want and I won't compromise and add meat just to satisfy someone else when it is not part of the dessert I am seeking

  • MissDemeanah

    MissDemeanah

    12 years ago

    actually means being :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Doesn't need to be involved in Mrs C's play with other women. The question was as to why other bi girls in relationships would choose to forego the pleasure of girl on girl simply because their partner would love to join in- Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissDemeanah

    MissDemeanah

    12 years ago

    a lot of women in here are possibly doing it to please their male counterparts.. Its hard to find genuine bi women in here unfortunately.. I know, I have searched for 3 years.. In fact I have only had 2 flirts from single women in all that time, and both times I felt like I was talking to someone with a fake profile.. I get plenty of couples but I have a male lover, if I wanted that I would just search for the same thing.Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are plenty of genuine people in here but a lot of fake profiles too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes there are. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I let my wife b with another girl and it didnt bother me!! We even had a threesome with her once and we all enjoyed it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Being a bi sexual woman I have done this several times with mine and the other girls partners full support. I've never had a 'relationship' with a woman and never would as I'm very much into men. But it is very hot to be alone with a sexy woman and share the details with my man after :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would love to be with a woman one on one, but as you said most of the requests on here are from a couple and couple only, I was also looking for one on one with a lady Shaz xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would love to meet another married woman that is free to play with me (female) alone.Unfortunately it is way too hard to find!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would love to play with another bisexual woman. It's not advertised in our profile as it's not what we/I are predominantly looking for right now. It's been a few years for me but if the right kind of woman landed in my lap, I certainly wouldn't say no to a one on one :P - Posted from rhpmobile