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Why is it?
August 06 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because you are always left wondering.....
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sweetgem
12 years ago
They are the hardest things to do! I don't mean to sound negative, but most people these days are either can't be bothered or gutless to face their situation. I've learned that if people, whom I interact with, want to be like that, so let them be because I don't have time for disrespect, ignorance, selfishness and stupidity! Don't let bad manners get to you Cheekyarses, it's not worth it in the end!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
before you know it unfortunately, I know where your coming from there
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find myself agreeing with pretty much everything Sweetgem said. If its a hard goodbye then some pretty strong emotions are usually involved and if a person just walks away without the goodbye then they are probably not someone I needed to spend too much time with anyway. But it still hurts.....and it can still take a bit of getting over sometimes.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Cheeky's some people just can't say goodbye, so don't which sux but maybe they couldn't? Others are just like Sweetgem said....and then some just can't face thier own feelinhs when it comes to saying goodbye. I'm hopeless.....I usually put on a brave front then cry when I'm by myself....but I'm a romantic and a sentimental softy fool. If it's someone you love goodbye's are never easy especially if they are going to a place you can't visit....like heaven. If you do get the chance, smile; kiss thier cheek, hold 'em close one last time and say "I'll be seein' ya." Not sure what's prompted the topic but sending virtual hugs your way. Indy on Safari xx
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Sometimes you know the goodbye will be forever. It will be the last time you see that person. Goodbye seems too final, when you wish it wasn't going to be. Sometimes words are best left unsaid. There always doesn't have to be a reason why.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My last engagement end with a bullshit fight and no talk afterwards. She stayed with a friend the night of the argument and I've only seen her once since when we discussed money and property. I have my reasons for the split but I'm still not sure of hers. Oh well...... Her lose, more for the RHP girls.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Choose not to say anything at all, as sometimes words can't quantify what the heart is saying. Some may call it disrespect, but it certainly depends on the nature of the goodbye. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your OP doesn't say or explain much. Anything else you could add?
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RHP User
12 years ago
This thread had touched a nerve. Not saying goodbye can leave someone in a lot of pain. Saying goodbye might be a hard thing to do, but it can also be a real gift of kindness. I appreciate closure, and explanations, and kindness.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Spoken or unspoken Even when you know it is coming one day and you know the reason “Good bye may seem forever. Farewell is like the end, but in my heart is the memory and there you will always be.”- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
12 years ago
It's meeeee On Safari just a new name and bit of a profile rewrite!! Jeez....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because there's no full stop. When something comes to an end usually there's something very final about it. A fight or mutual decision or some other reason. I you don't get to say your last piece it just feels unfinished and it hurts! Sending hugs xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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BrightBubbly
12 years ago
It is because you are never going to be fulfilled by it anyway.No amount of explanation is going to be enough...There will always be things left unsaid...There will always be more questions...Nothing they can say will take away the pain...The answers they give are never going to make sense...Sometimes it is better to walk away and not know that to be told and still not understand !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some things are not meant to be despite both knowing we yearn to be. Goodbye and that embrace is with love and hope to see again. Way too hard to let go that way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I call it the drift... You just slowly stop chatting, texting etc.. Just Drift apart.......... All it can take is not to hear from someone, or a cancelled date and you just move on.. I think most here who have been married, or in a long termer are far more guarded. Even more so when you have children.. It’s a constant battle for me personally over the love of my freedom and loneliness. At present freedom wins..... I think that is why I am on this site.. Its a given that it is a casual thing.. Well that my perception of it. As many said above... Saying goodbye hurts and is difficult.. thats why the drift comes into play.... And it is both a male and female phenomenon...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' Your OP doesn't say or explain much. Anything else you could add? The cheekies are being cheeky!!Need more information Cheekysssssssss.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the hardest goodbyes are the ones you don't get to say or find out too late they have been said.
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RHP User
12 years ago
someone actually says it,it is often hard to know that it is ''goodbye'' ..forever.... But sometimes words are not necessary to convey ''goodbye'',it's the actions that speak volumes. And the saddest goodbyes of all are the unexpected ones,when someone you love dies suddenly and there is no chance to say a final goodbye..or anything else.
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