Why is it so hard

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  It’s hard because you’re strangers on the internet, in a place with a relatively small population, seeking something which a tiny subset of the population does. Keep chatting, build some trust, let people operate in their own timeframes and don’t push too hard for face to face meets too soon. Your profile is good though. It shouldn’t take too long to build some trust.

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  TheMinx

  2 years ago

  Go to events or clubs there will be lots of like minded people there to chat with have a drink with and connect with.

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  NeoAndTrin

  2 years ago

  Use the datefinder part. We met a couple first time we used it just recently.

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  FeistyFatty

  2 years ago

  Its not hard to find people to play with. The intricate part is for that person/s to have equal attraction to the both of you. Therein lies one of the many nuances of swinging. Attending events can be more forgiving as it allows your personality to be visualised more than just your physical appearance. Online platforms aren't for everyone. Best of luck x

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  Andrea_Sydney

  2 years ago

  I would try a meet and greet. Maybe in Melbourne, and see if you meet anyone you feel like swopping numbers with. You find meet & greets advertised in the parties & events section.

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  shadesofbrown

  2 years ago

  Hey mate! Search MINGLEevents and try one of their social events(No dress-downs) and I'm sure you two would have an amazing time. All the best 💖

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  You're probably better off than a single male, that said these apps work best when you live inside a big city i.e. Sydney and Melbourne. If you're rural than you need to consider being able to travel for dates.

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  boobsandbusted

  2 years ago

  I’d say participating in a thread you start or responding to a chat you start in private, might be a great start 🙄 Mr b

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Good luck 3 years here still looking

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