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Why would you lie about a condom!!!
June 23 2014
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Two weeks? I think a month for some Sti isn't it? Why do it? Because they rarely feel the wetty goodness of riding bareback and wish to. I've seen this happen time and time again. Ladies, you need a trusted friend with a nice thick cane to paddy whack any bareback approaching cock when you are in a gang bang kind of situation. I'm sure this also happens to women in private situations. As the saying goes, safe sex is entirely your own responsibility. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi BigMamma, I have to agree with Gazpacho. There are definitely men out there that will lie about the condom. Slip it off when you are not looking, etc. Or it's a constant battle to get them to wear it. I have come across men that don't even care that I was not on any other contraceptive.... so even pregnancy wasn't enough to deter them from these games. I find that a bit shocking. Maybe because it would be me holding the baby so to speak.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As I try to be careful, I don't want anything to come back into my household, it's just not worth it......... I normally check beforehand and I note I got complacent that night as everyone has played together before and all were in concurrence about the use of condoms.......... Good wake up call in the worst way.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
It appears it was a planned action/behavior, which is not OK! Obviously the man in question knew the rules but HE choose to break them and disrespected your personal boundaries and your health! Makes me question...If he did it to you, how many others has this happened to?? I understand your frustration, anger and pissed off reaction - I am sorry to hear what position you are now placed in. Your health is really important and for someone to breach that is a coward in my eyes. You did the right thing and stood up and said something - so good for you Mumma. :) The thing is tho people who do that sort of thing (removing condom or auctioning they have put it on), I don't think realize the consequences to their actions and it's effects/health it has on others, which is rather rather sad. {HUGS} FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
It isn't just bad manners but an abuse and a lack of respect for their sexual partners. They obviously have no consideration for you nor probably anyone else they have sexual contact with. What a dreadful thing to happen.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am lucky guys have always worn one when directed to with me I only had one refusal......my response was the same. Don't think anyone would want to mess with me. They would see the flip side of my easygoing nature. Sad to hear this is still going on. Report I say. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Total fucking weirdo....with only HIS agenda being his goal. Fucktard - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The host of the party was great, told them to leave immediately and that it was a serious no go!! Hubby nearly decked him and I'm proud that he controlled himself lol.... (Although I think I would have jumped him there and then for that animalistic behaviour)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bigmamma........... next time tell him. "Oh dear, you shouldn't have done that. Now you have HIV/AIDS. " That'll learn em.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka, you are seriously wicked lol..... How quick would his dick shrink then.... Better than a bucket of icy water...... OMG, I've so got a visual on that one!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thats so wrong!!! i dont understand that attitude at all. If its been clarified why try and deceive you. You are certainly going to find out one way or another. As for the time frame i work in pathology and you should have baseline bloods now if you haven't had them done in the last 2 months and then get tested again 6 weeks post incident. chlamydia and gonorrhea however should show up quicker than the big ones you would be worried about.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bit more peace of mind if I know I can test earlier rather than later
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RHP User
12 years ago
It was the lowest of all actsYou have always played safe not only for yourself but for the protection of your wonderful man and for some irresponsible jerk to put you in this position...its beyond wrong!
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RHP User
12 years ago
No worries. Head to the gp and get a referral for the local pathology should be sully and nic or something like that in NSW.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sad too hear about what happened. That sort of behaviour he has show is so self centred. You should have let hubby flattern him he deserved it. Chin up and smile although i konw it will not be easy.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Total fucking weirdo....with only HIS agenda being his goal. Fucktard - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr Poly would have joined Mr Mamma and "politely" escorted them off the premises .....yeah right!!!! Hope your well missy!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is never okay to do that! I can't believe that some people can be so irresponsible and care so little for everyones safety, including their own. Bigmamma I'm so sorry this happened to you. You really did not deserve that xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shows total disrespect to you and hubby...especially as you are an amazing lady Hope word gets around and he is banned from any future parties / events
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madotara69
12 years ago
For hubby Bigmamma Mado Tara xx
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turnedoncpl
12 years ago
Oh! Babe. Am so sorry to hear what this little turd did to you. Was so wrong on so many levels. What a way to end the evening. Lots of hugs babe xxxx
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twinshadow
12 years ago
@OP what you've described is actually considered sexual assault. very uncool.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bigmamma, you have every right to be pissed off. I had a friend tell me years ago a guy took the condom off while in doggie position and then laughed as he came and told her what he'd done. She went through months of worry and despair. Thankfully all was ok. I must admit I check the condom is still on at every position change. Playing, as you did, to check. As others have said it's disgusting those selfish idiots would do this to anyone else (and themselves). Wishing you the best with all your results. - Posted from rhpmobile
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Bigmamma........... next time tell him. "Oh dear, you shouldn't have done that. Now you have HIV/AIDS. " That'll learn em. I watched a doco about working girls once, Where a girl was raped bareback by a non paying fucktard, I think he said something like take that you fucking slut, and she said, welcome to aids you cunt ! , she didn't have it ..... that comment would have gave him something to think about for a while though !
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RHP User
12 years ago
STI's are immediate testing, and HIV is 3 months
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
Keep an eye on the guys to see they wear a condom, and to see they change it between girls. Although the parties we go to everyone seems pretty good about it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think that comment deserves hate at all. If they are inconsiderate enough to do that they deserve a scare in my opinion.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy46' I watched a doco about working girls once, Where a girl was raped bareback by a non paying fucktard, I think he said something like take that you fucking slut, and she said, welcome to aids you cunt ! , she didn't have it ..... that comment would have gave him something to think about for a while though ! You meet all kinds of people in a casual sex situation. The pleasure of reversing the anxt is really not worth the effort. It can escalate the issue into some very serious violent consequences. People really need to look out for each other in these situations. There have been numerous occasions where I've stopped a guy cold in his tracks for trying to ride someone bareback after they've expressly requested a condom. A couple of weeks ago someone get in amongst the bodies to whisper in my ear that my own condom had been removed, and being pinned down there like that, even if I had not been so delirious, I wouldn't have been able to do anything about it... so the dude put a condom back on me. People have to start looking out for each other. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was reading up on that and all the sites recommend waiting 2 weeks ? Where did the information for immediate STI testing come from?.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some STI's show up immediately most likely. Some times you can get the symptoms showing over night so you know something isn't right.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Omg nooo sorry that's all I have grrr
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RHP User
12 years ago
HIV testing to be 100% sure is 3 months. Most doctors do baseline bloods as soon as exposed then recommend testing for HIV/ HEP B and C at 6 weeks as thats the earliest that you will get a positive reading but always tell you to do a follow up test at 3 months. If we get blood/fluid exposure at work we test that day, then 6 weeks and then 3 months to make sure. Symptoms for gonorrhea can show up in as little as 48 hours later, chlamydia is around a week and syphilis as early as 10 days.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Try not to worry too much... you're probably OK. I know that's not much consolation but truth is most times these things come back with a clear result. Of course its the not knowing that stinks.. But the averages are on your side... Good luck.. Cheers Jay PS... The prick should have known better... Some guys are gutter...
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RHP User
12 years ago
The lesson here,is always trust the missionary, and never the doggie with a stranger...some men are just unconscionable curs..xAuntie
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Hacky.......... that isn't true. Chlamydia symptoms can start almost immediately. Everyone would be different, and it is also very different for women and men. and of course lots of people don't have any symptoms at all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is very true it is different for everyone and for men and women. I meant on average and in men sorry :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr vanilla here has never been around any type of event like that to understand it all, but that's suuuuch a low fucking thing to do. It saddens me when guys do such shitty things like that. I know they're just individuals, but it just makes every woman need to be more wary of "the male" and means when you meet us nice respectful guys you have no way of initially knowing whether we can be trusted or not. Yes I self claim to be a nice guy, but after shit like this, how'd you ever be able to just take my word for it? I don't think you really can. As much as I believe in equality, I still believe that males were meant to be protector of the female, and that women should be able to just have that underlying trust that their best is being looked out for by all men. This type of behaviour just undoes everything that guys should be looked up to for, and it's just sad... BigMamma, pray that everything comes up clear for you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
if you haven't had at least one STI, you aren't doing it right. I do believe that chlymida is on the increase in Sydney though, and probably all the major cities. Not sure about the other STI's. Get tested people and lets stamp this thing out!
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RHP User
12 years ago
That was a very telling few comments. LMAO! Oops
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RHP User
12 years ago
haha i've never had one does that mean im doing it wrong?
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
And that what happens when there are too many people in a group situation. One can quickly lose control. We avoid such scenarious. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just looking out for others..... Thanks gorgeous :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie' And that what happens when there are too many people in a group situation. One can quickly lose control. We avoid such scenarious. - Posted from rhpmobile Bollocks Jason_Leslie. It happens in one on one situations as well. When you are bum up and head down for instance. You have to be vigilant in any circumstance.
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RHP User
12 years ago
All the best with the results BigMamma.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Darn, gotta love the RHP community :).....
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