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Woman doesn't want man to go down on her for oral

October 19 2020

But she does. A woman who I was dating until just a few days ago for the last few months has continually complained I do not show enough interest in her vagina and especially in regard to oral, but except for one time when I've tried to indicate during lovemaking that I was going in that direction I've been asked to stop and then she says 'I do not feel clean there' and says she wants to have a shower but (a) doesn't go do that and (b) because that immediately turns me off I feel like I've been effectively told I'm not good enough for her and/or under-performing. Does this happen a lot where a woman will try to stop a man (and/or a woman) giving her oral mid-way through lovemaking claiming to 'not be clean'? If you're the person pleasuring her is this going to turn you off and make you very uninterested in continuing especially if she then indicates that she wants you (if you're a guy) to penetrate her because she wants your hard penis inside her?

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RHP User

5 years ago

This happens, a recent survey found the most common turn off for women was anxiety about their own bodies. Basically it’s not you it’s her. She’s worried you wont like it down there because consciously or unconsciously she’s not happy with it. Of course she wants you to go there, the question, is she comfy with her body ? All you can do to help is make her feel that she is perfect in your eyes.

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CowboyBunnytop

2 years ago

While being "rejected" in the moment of passion can be daunting, it is a mutual experience, and comfort levels need to be maintained. If I can suggest that both parties or all parties shower first, make it part of the foreplay. That way, the event empowers the mindset of cleanliness. Making it easier for everyone to play a little more uninhabited. I personally love spending time between a set of thighs kissing, nibbling seeking the little man in the pink boat. But only if the boat owner is comfortable. So showering 🚿 as foreplay maybe your key to getting what you desire. Hope this helps

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