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Women in control

March 22 2015

I really believe women were born to be in control and not to be monogamous but I also believe men should be devoted to one girl dispite she been with multiple guys... (To make it clear I'm talking purely sexual way, as when a girl is in love she doesn't need other men unless sentimentally) What do you think about it? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think you're waaaaaaaaayyyy off the mark.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    May have the need for several men. You can love one, yet still be intate with many. No matter what your gender. Some people can't be monogamous. Some when they fall only want one lover. Depends on a lot of factors. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I totally disagree. I'm more of an equal rights kinda gal. ;-)

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    Programmed in different ways. But I feel endless gratitude that I am with a man who supports me through my sexual explorations...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    After 33 years of being " monogamous" , I am now married as well as have a boyfriend that I met on RHP. My boyfriend is "exclusive" to only me but my husband is not due to him having another partner that is "exclusive" to only him. I am "exclusive" to both men. From my limited experience on RHP, I have found that most "single" men do prefer to be in one relationship at a time. Usually it is the "married" men that have multiple extramarital "playmates". As far as all 4 of us are concerned, our individual situations work best for us. Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Guess you're beautifullly suited to a Hot Wife in a Cuckold relationship. I hope you find it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Gender or sex has no relavence for any stereotype in our view. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    thanks hennajay :) even though many times girls think I allow it so I can do it as well which is not the case... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    This isn't the way that many others feel, believe or can even begin to understand though. There are many types of relationships out there, if this is what you want, go for it and good luck, just understand that not everyone is wired this way and some will see it as selfish behaviour on the wifes side and creepy, woosy and on the males.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    but it actually takes a lot of self confidence to know your girl is always gonna come back no matter who she fucks ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    11 years ago

    "I really believe women..." loses me pretty much right away. Honestly gender stereotypes might even be right much of the time, but there is so much variety within the genders that any specific generalization is going to fall flat. As far as your comment though, I am not sure that is supported by the evidence. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's what it is all about............. she comes back and in the meantime cucky has been waiting, anticipating, fantasizing....... My husband is a cuck, it is the way he is wired, he'd been fantasizing for years about me having sex with other people and humiliating/dominating him. He does like me to take the lead/control, but this is only in our sexual life. In the rest of it, we have a very loving, balanced, supportive and respectful relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    To be in an LTR and be a hot wife would be my ultimate dream come true. Not sure about the cuck side of it though... don't know if I would be comfortable with the 'humiliation' aspect. Would have to try it, I guess. Much love Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am definitely not into the humiliation part I´m to proud for that I guess the proper word is "sharing" the hot wife but been faithful to her as she can cheat but I can´t....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There are actually guys out there who get great enjoyment of having a partner who is not monogamous, while they have no interest in other women sexually. Not that hard to understand is it? Men are very visual & aural beings.....watching the woman you love in the throes of passion with another or hearing about her wild encounters as you make love to her, is a very erotic & intense experience....... There are many ways couples enjoy this lifestyle.some luv the tease & denial aspect,others include humiliation & domination.... but that is up to the couple as to what they enjoy not a prerequisite

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    If we take out the instinctive nature and the the reason men are wrong because of the pill or the job or the other new thing at 50 000 years where we speak and living in communities, tribes. For what has changed in as little over 200 years. I base on include as over all, Can I borrow or lend, never existed because ownership never existed, well here and the ancestors. I naturally care to Tara my life, I love the woman and motherly nature, and take my place as caretaker, which is what the old men did for 50 000 years, sad sometimes to see fast paced ownership life can choose to not even acknowledge, whatever is going on there is a lot of things out of balance with nature our ultimate for control Women? men should care for and have that as simple it can be. All the carry on about men wandering just looking for a fuck and can't send a message of design or the myriad of other faults expressed, it's instinctive nature and there still is some of the nature of the ancestors passed down and cared too, less for care still increasing. A young new law here now and many things with these gender wars feel wrong. Nearly forgot, instinctive nature of the woman when aroused stays in that state much longer than men, and that is designed for when the time comes to seek fertility, she is ready to take on not just one mans seed, as many can in the time to better ensure it. Naturally. If that changes by chioce, not fair to blame men for behaving on instincts. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Having a shocker didn't read into your OP I wouldn't have put some of that other stuff unrelated to your relationship. Just found some Pink Floyd i'd been missing on another thread, And a whole post jus ahhh, sorry mate. I like the way you see women, gotta love them.

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    11 years ago

    Women should be in control. . I would prefer to be sub to a woman in a relationship.. i like to play cleopatra and would be overly impressed if a woman was to make a move on me or create a fantasy out of the blue.. i want yo be a womans sex slave/servant but not in the bondage s&m type way.. just have her in charge. Or maybe im just more honest and they are but men play to be in charge because we are really sooks - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No, not that hard to understand & I totally get it. Maybe I wasn't clear... I'd love to be in a relationship where I'm the non-monogamous one, knowing that my partner is getting enjoyment from it, but my point was that I wasn't sure if I would like the domination/humiliation aspect of what I understand to be a true 'cuckold' experience. I'm not sure, because I haven't tried it, that's all. It wasn't meant as a slight or denigration to those who enjoy it, so I hope you didn't think I was having a go :/ Blown away by your description of a man watching his woman... and a bit lost for words, other than to say that I'd love to be able to give that experience to a man I loved :) Much love, Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks and no worries haha I liked your post anyways pretty interesting :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I most definitely thought you were having a go & I think the very least you could do is to let me take you for a coffee or quiet drink so you can apologize in person In all seriousness I didnt for one nano second think you were having a go.......I shouldn't have put "Not that hard to understand is it ?" in there. " I'd love to be able to give that experience to a man I loved :) " The guy who wins your heart will indeed be a very lucky man, because living the hotwife/cuck lifestyle is one of the most personal & rewarding ways of life that a couple can live.Oh to be 5 years younger

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Make it a glass of wine & I'll not only apologise, I may even grovel a little lol Much love, Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A bottle it is then Cant remember the last time I was called Mr lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I believe woman belong in the kitchen lol, only joking ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Agree with Meander on this one. For me it absolutely has to be equal rights - in terms of a serious relationship. A FWB well I'm open to most things, besides generally speaking those relationships are reasonably without limits anywayz.