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Womens Gspot

April 10 2019

This is actually quite embarrassing to ask.... but we (as in the wife and I) are having some trouble locating the womens g-spot or knowing of we are on the right spot. I'm asking as we can't seem to find the right spot :(. So she has never had a previous partner who has stimulated this area, and I have not had a previous partner where we experimented with this (call us naive) so its the blind leading the blind. Of course we have read enough "guides" online and watched enough "youtube videos" to know in theory that it on the inner front wall of the vagina approx 2 inches up, that we should be feeling for a slightly bumpy area, that she has to be very aroused before you can feel it and if properly stimulated she may feel the need to pee... We've played around with many places some which kind of could be the spot, felt bumpy/different, used g-spot vibrators - and sometimes she has orgasmed and said it different to a clitoral one but def no squirting... So I guess I'm asking if anyone can share any more specific advise on how to go about finding it above and beyond what we have already read? My first question is as you enter the vagina the first few inches when pushed feel as if its pushing against a hard surface (I guess the pubic bone) and after that finishes it becomes softer... That bit confuses me as many guides it says its in the first few inches but pushing against that feels like its just pushing against something hard... Anyway expect a bit of stick for even asking this but hey its not exactly the sort of thing you can ask your doctor....

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It’s just below her A spot :)

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    By the throng of men who will post they know everything about it and give endless orgasms for those willing to hook up..... But seriously, great for asking. I'll leave it for the owners of the g-spot to answer

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Lordy, I've got my popcorn in anticipation of the responses.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    G spot orgasm Does not automatically lead to squirting. Some women may have a magic spot that when pressed makes you orgasm but I don’t know as I’m not one of them ? Every woman is different and finds different things stimulating. There is no one size fits all thing going on. G spot is not in the same place for every woman so me telling you where it is in me is irrelevant. What I can tell you for me is that I have a sensitive spot that lies roughly behind the clit half way up my vagina that when stimulated the right way mainly with a curved vibrator or penis makes me have an orgasm often . When I touch it it feels like wrinkly and spongy ( that’s attractive 😂) I don’t know if it’s the g-spot but I can orgasm without clitoral stimulation when things are going well. I know there is multiple videos with dudes saying they can stimulate g spot for guaranteed orgasm but I call BS on that. There’s too many variables with women. Anyways that’s my thoughts, but it sounds like you are having fun trying so enjoy 😊 Hope you hit the sweet spot .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think it does existTry all the reachable locations and see what happens Try different angles and positions

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have no idea, I think it may be equally a mental thing. You may never find it but you will have a great time looking for it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The real question is who cares.... Sorry I couldn't resist. Can I share the popcorn FFF, this should be fun

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Dudee, you better find it real soon or else she is just going to end up being really good a faking orgams. I hope to God (while digging) you dont find fools gold. Ms Foxy

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    7 years ago

    No need to feel embarrassed, I wish more people were willing to come out and talk DETAILS! I don't have a lot of experience pleasuring other women but can tell you what little I know from myself. First up you might be expecting something more than reality. Not all women squirt easily in the true sense if you just press the magic button. I rarely do and if so it's generally not much. I have to be really really really turned on for that to happen and at least for me it's not indicative of the most mind blowing orgasm (those are when no touch is needed but a simple caress!) How turned on is she before you start? If you're feeling something hard only perhaps you're starting too soon? Assuming that's not the problem, here it gets fun. There is no g spot, it's all just clitoris. One big one that covers a large area and enlarges when aroused just like men (men, we just don't go flashing our dicks around like you 😉). What's traditionally called the clitoris is just the tip and it's no wonder it's not known to be the most satisfying spot for orgasm (though it can be). It's the most exposed and therefore more likely to be over stimulated. The g spot is just another route to the clitoris but with more area for stimulation and less exposed. If she says with g spot toys it's different then believe her that it's the right spot. But that's boring. Have fun with all the other possibilities! When you go down on her try inserting your thumb and tracing the inner lips once in press DOWN and massage that area while you kiss her. You can use your index finger to place pressure on the area between her vulva and arsehole, or turn your palm down and use your index and middle fingers in a sweeping motion. You could try focusing on the area above her clitoris too.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    7 years ago

    Orgasms get better with practise and they're certainly not done to you. As much as it depends on you she needs to be doing the hard work too. Perhaps suggest her to look at herself with a mirror and become familiar with herself and practised in making herself come. Making assumptions here, it just puzzles me how one can not know their own g spot (no judgment just don't connect with it)

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Haha Foily🤣🤣😱😱 Cuddle up next to me, you can grab some of my.....🍿🍿😘

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    Generally Vaginal orgasms (with penis inserted ) are generally atttibuted to the G-Spot. So if you orgasm as a result of penetrative sex , then more likely you have had a G-Spot orgasm already

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It’s higher than her F spot too

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    7 years ago

    There is an industry for internal modification involving collagen implants in the area of the g spot to create more pressure sensations on the base of the clitoris. Only some women will need this or will benefit from it. More correctly known as the G "area". In any case I've been with two women on an ongoing basis who have never orgasmed through penetrative sex only outer clitoral stimulation. There are G-spot toys and some are actually identical to the male P spot toys, as that is located in essentially the same type of area (although different orifice) for the toy to reach.

  • SEXUALLIASON

    SEXUALLIASON

    7 years ago

    Experiment together,this angle and that angle,slow,fast ,light touch or hard. The best way is the “come here “ one does when using their finger to communicate. Do that and you’ll end up finding it . That’s just from my experience and I must be doing ok bc it’s fkn awesome seeing your partner go off like that. If it feels good continue you’ll know when.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Best education u can get is to both sit down and watch Nina Hartley on how to lick pussy. That woman knows her way around women. Btw its not just about licking thank god.

  • LinaMae

    LinaMae

    7 years ago

    It does exist. I'm a woman and have squirted from having it stimulated. It is a spongy area in the vicinity mentioned by you that fills with fluid when the area is stimulated. More stimulation means more fluid build up. With more fluid build up, the gspot feels firmer and the vagina feels smaller. To squirt, 2 things are important: 1. At the right time, you take out the thing that is stimulating the gspot 2. She knows it's ok to let go, even to try to push out the fluid. Scientists state that it's not urine, if that helps to convince her that it's ok to squirt. Be prepared with towels all over your bed/couch/soft furnishings you are fucking on. . Fluid all over the bed might seem like the squirting wasn't worth it if she has to do a post coital linen change or sleep in a wet bed.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    The mysterious G spot... About his time last year , the lady in question requested i try something she seen online . That involved very fast and intense fingering aimed at the inside front wall then pausing then gently massaging the G location before repeating the same again.. After several bouts she had what she called a different type of orgasm , but she was unsure if it was clitoral or G.. So as far as i know , and i really have no idea ? We both like to think we hit the jackpot... ?