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Women's opinion on inexperienced guys
September 03 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Liking or disliking it for me, however just a personal preference not to go there.Some women are great and patient teachers.......I'm not one of them lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Pffft...even those who attest to being 'experienced' in my opinion, are not on the right page. Listening to your lover is where it all starts. If you are so full of your own importance at how great a lover you are...there is very little chance you will be listening to person you are with...ok, so your last girlfriend loved it up the arse, with her nose pointing south.. doesn't mean I will, or the next one.. or the next one after that. Being 'inexperienced' is a great chance to learn and be 'open'.. which, I think, in a lover, is the most important thing of all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What she said - ill just ditto dgt!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with Crackup where experience doesn't mean you know what you're doing. The key is to listening, experimenting and having fun with it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Amen
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RHP User
13 years ago
Often means quite young and some of us do have age limits. . . .
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RHP User
13 years ago
from experience....many women find this appealing...its part of the allure of having a much younger partner...they are unspoiled and wanting to learn...from the other side tho...its as DGT etc said...patience is required...not all have that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
agree with wican wench and small tits DGT in the interim though i cant get my mind off THAT pink bikini there Mrs Bris. oh and one more mere comment..... don't you just love exploiting boundaries. Oops i mean exploring xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Inspirit....nawwww you membered (I know its remembered but 'member' sounds naughtier)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I did member indeed DGT..spanking of which there aren't many members up here in the Pilbara... but then again a paper bag and a bottle of wild turkey might be the go lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
on the flip side of the coin I love nothing more than showing/teaching an inexperienced woman the art of sensual, sexy, sex.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd rather be with someone who knows how to try different things to see what works, it takes experience to be able to judge a partners body language and vocalisation and adapt your technique to fit. It makes pushing boundaries easier too. I have no problem with talking about what I like, but being in the drivers seat doesn't really appeal to me. Also with experience comes confidence and thats a huge turn on for me...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Awesome feedback thanks all
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RHP User
13 years ago
we had are guy that look great.in the sack we used him.now he is experienced in underground sex.not sure if he will be back tho...grab my husband he is oh so experienced.like wow out experienced got to be the scotish/maori blood in him.natural hott..oh lucky.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Be it male or female, it's a catch 22 situation. Some people WANT the experienced lover, but it's also hard to achieve that experience without a willing participant. So OP, and I'm also guessing that that's another part of your question, is how you go about GETTING the experience? To answer that, I have no idea!! Porn or hookers maybe, I just dunno. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Haha Hard, just not really into the whole prostitution thing, seems kind of ... cheap.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think take one for the team... Teach them your years of knowledge and create a better sex life for all those that come after you.... We need to learn somehow... I'm keen to show and find young men are quite keen for older women these days for their experience ..But at the same token, I don't think it is all about age, some older ones have had women who don't teach or talk them through it and still dont have a clue... Rather young and keen , than older and set in their ways...
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RHP User
13 years ago
No matter how experienced you are,its all about chemistry. I guy with not much or no experience can be just as hot as a practised lover. The guy that actually wants to learn is always a good thing, not a guy that wants to just count the women he has fucked for ten minutes and think that’s going to add to his score. If you listen and are prepared to be guided, and if you are prepared to stick around for a second or third round then you may learn how to please a woman. Most do not , they blow and make up some lame excuse to get out the door. They will however want to meet up again for another blow and go,this is why women wise up to the young uns who just want to please themselves. They may piss in your pocket to get where they want to go and for some that may work. Any fool can get their dick wet. Learning to satisfy a woman before yourself is a whole other story. If your that kind of man, you will grow into a middle aged man non the wiser.
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RHP User
13 years ago
No matter how experienced you are,its all about chemistry. I guy with not much or no experience can be just as hot as a practised lover. The guy that actually wants to learn is always a good thing, not a guy that wants to just count the women he has fucked for ten minutes and think that’s going to add to his score. If you listen and are prepared to be guided, and if you are prepared to stick around for a second or third round then you may learn how to please a woman. Most do not , they blow and make up some lame excuse to get out the door. They will however want to meet up again for another blow and go,this is why women wise up to the young uns who just want to please themselves. They may piss in your pocket to get where they want to go and for some that may work. Any fool can get their dick wet. Learning to satisfy a woman before yourself is a whole other story. If your that kind of man, you will grow into a middle aged man non the wiser.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I prefer a guy who knows how to read the signs of what a girl wants. I don't come with an instruction manual and therefore, for this reason, prefer guys with more experience. However, there are exceptions to that rule. I have been with guys with plenty of experience and well... how can I politely say, were crap. I believe if you have enough imagination and you try to pick up on the signs a women is giving or subtly ask, then generally you will both have fun and it's win win for everyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
that is they're only done if there's an element of love, either for the person or activity, otherwise there's no logical inclination :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
of the whole Mrs Robinson thing, and watching a guy just blown away by my sexual prowess. Looking into his eyes as he is just about to cum, and have him begging for more. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you for real??? Sorry if I sound condescending or misogynistic about this, but that's one fucked up attitude to have. But the expectation that guys (or girls for that matter) be mind readers or pick up on minute subtleties is just plain childish. A woman can flick her hair, batter her lids or flirt and have no intentions of taking it further, as I've recently discovered. So upon a first meeting he may simply ignore such "subtle" indicators and then blows his chance with you?? Come on get real, what's wrong with simply putting it out there?? "I would like to spend more time with you, and build on this as I find myself quite attracted to you." would be a great start for any girl/guy to at least have the courtesy and respect of the potential partner, to let them know where they stand.
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luckygal29
13 years ago
You seriously just told someone who gave their opinion on what was asked, that they have one fucked up attitude and are childish. You must be a hit with the ladies.
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RHP User
13 years ago
about young and hung?If they are willing to learn and not just blow and go,why not.Inexperience does not necessarily mean they are crap lovers,whether young or old.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have had two inexperienced guys in my time.The first, OMG, i was dating the guy and i must have been his first. Ide had plenty of practice before him. But the faces he pulled and the way he tried to get it in. I was doing my very best not to crack up laughing. Sex was terrible. The next was when i was about 32 after ide split from a long term relationship. I just wanted sex all the time. Well a 21 year old wanted to have some fun. Now with such good looks, such an ego that went with those looks, i expected a professional almost. To my amazement he had no idea how to even put a condom on. Again i was trying not to laugh about it but it was so damn hard not too. I mean this guy pulled the condom out of the pack, unrolled it, then once it was fully unrolled he tried to put two fingers in the condom and pull it on his cock as if he was putting on a pair of socks. Too much American Pie i think and not enough google research or actually once in his life reading the descriptions on the condom packet of how to roll it on. Definately I DO NOT ever want another inexperienced guy ever. Not even if he is well hung.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To clarify, to have the attitude and expectation that a guy or girl to pick up on minute subtleties was fucked up and childish. Everyone, and it doesn't matter which sex it is, are NOT mind readers, and we all agree on that. However, a guy, irrespective of age or experience can IGNORE the subtle hints, the game of seduction, through experiences whereby those subtleties have been acted on, only to find that his potential partner never had any intentions of going further shouldn't be judged and just written off in the sense, and my interpretation, of jazznurse's reply. I may have misinterpreted the point of her reply and my humble apologies if that's what has happened. However, is there something wrong with the lady acting on her intention, IF her subtleties are NOT recognised or IGNORED?? Should that guy then be just written off and thrown to sexual scrap heap because of HIS previous experiences?? Or lack thereof??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow! Very amusing. I hope I don't sound too "condescending" (I think that's how you put it), To spell it out plainly Hardtruckin2011… I did mean while you’re fucking. I’m talking way past the pick up stage and FYI, after all the flirting, we’re pretty direct in letting people know we’re interested.Thank you for your comments Mischeviouslad and Luckygal29. You both clearly get it. Clearly they don't think I am "fucked up" or "childish".My husband and I have been together for 19 years and have been swinging for about 10 years. We have had many wonderful and mutually enjoyable experiences with couples and single ladies. Many of which have become good friends. Therefore, in saying that, we must have been and are doing something right. Sure it may not be perfect the first time, but if you're left with a smile on your face and want to go back for more, I'd say it was successful.So, curious2try86, my opinion is, if a guy is fun, respectful, genuinely wants to please and be pleased, then chances are they are going to get lucky and have plenty of 'experience' soon enough. Oh... and Hardruckin2001... I have read your numerous comments regarding this forum and note that you said, and I quote..."I have no idea how to get experience... maybe try hookers...". mmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well there you go, I was to the assumption from your statement that you "prefer a guy who can read the signs of what a girl wants" that you were referring to first meets. And for that misinterpretation I must humbly eat my proverbial hat. My comments with respect to the hookers was in relation to the sublime suggestion from the op that he himself is a man lacking in experience, and was also curious to know how exactly to gain that experience. It was merely a suggestion that could be considered as the sex industry workers are a way that people can and do use for the purposes of enacting fantasies, so why not use them also to gain the sexual experience of which you speak. This would also be a solution to the statement made by mischievous relating to guys that ask every 5 seconds "is that ok?" or "am I doing this right?". It would also alleviate DGT's statement of herself not being a "patient teacher" don't you think?
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