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Words you have 'mis-used'..

November 07 2012

Lol, I was just writing something and used the word.. ofay, one which my ex mother in law used to use quite frequently to describe something with which.. she was not that familiar.. you know .. like .. 'I'm not ofay with his works..' .. that kind of thing. I adopted it and have used it for years.. in the same context. I wanted to use it today and wondered as to the spelling of it.. I have always spelt it o_f_a_y but .. wondered if it had a double ff. With the spelling.. came the meaning and holy mackerel, completely out of the ball park. What it actually means is:'an offensive term for a white person.. used by black people' (Oxford Dictionaries). Arrrgh.. I wonder how many people I have unintentionally offended it by getting it wrong. Have you ever mis-used a word only to find out later it's correct meaning and kind of wished you had checked before opening (or writing) your big mouth .. lol.

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I think your ex mother-in-law meant au fait, French for being up to standard or up to date, especially re knowledge of something :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I think I should definitely be using the word.. 'ignoramus' lol, especially on this occasion .. kicking myself now for not taking french lol xx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Is the spelling you want Crackup. Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Beat me to it Debs...bitch...hehehehehe Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Lol, Mrs P.. I'm the dumb arse here.. ofay au fait.. cafe au lait.. arrrgh.. my head is about to explode.. all this wordiness.. but, I kind of did learn something too... I'll be on the look out for any dark skinned person calling me ofay.. I will know it's not cos I know something about the subject lol.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I was expectecting a better retort than that Deb.going easy on me.lol I have heard of and used ofay myself on more than one ocassion though.Seems us Aussies have screwed with the pronunciation/spelling as usual.Cheers Felonious....slipped to 3rd place...be off the podium any time now!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Decadence - deterioration, esp of morality or culture; decay; degenerationYet a recent advertisement for Palmolive - mango shower wash uses it as something special and loving ..is it that we enjoy washing in decaying mango juice , ?????????????????

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'celebree' Decadence - deterioration, esp of morality or culture; decay; degenerationYet a recent advertisement for Palmolive - mango shower wash uses it as something special and loving ..is it that we enjoy washing in decaying mango juice , ????????????????? God help me if it's fermented Celebree.. I'm a two pot screamer at best.. how shameful, getting trashed on the body wash.. lol.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Awwww.. thank you Mrs Peachy.. I am afraid I am a bit of a dumb arse lol (as duly evidenced) but.. I'm glad you like my threads. Give that man Felonious stick.. he's very cheeky .. .

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'brave__heart' I think your ex mother-in-law meant au fait, French for being up to standard or up to date, especially re knowledge of something :) Fitting when in context but somewhat biologically miss used... yanno ... technically

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    So, so well suited for the situation, dontcha think :P

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Love.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    How about the word "Friend"   also open to interpretation

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    In a five star place, chowing down with some posh friends the woman comes around with the sweets cart   all proper and posh and says to my husband   would you like some Flange? In stead of Flan   He roared with laughter, and was holding his sides. The wife of the other couple, kept saying, What’s so funny? He had tears in his eyes, and so did his mate.   I just said, give me the sticky date pudding will ya? I am not the kind of girl to eat flange, and then that was when hubby , shot beer through his nose with laughter.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    if I have committed that faux pas Crackie 'cos nobody has ever been brave enough to tell me. but I love words,I think they were almost my first love.My family didn't have many books but we had an illustrated dictionary which was very old and much loved.I used to read it all the time because I loved the beautiful illustrations. Words are like small gems,each new one is a gift,and it's not just the meaning of words that I love,it's how they sound.Sometimes the simplest words can be imbued with the sexiest meaning if said in the right way ,by the right person.   You can stroke people with words...F.Scott Fitzgerald.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I find the word ofay really interesting, I had heard the terms honky and cracker used to refer to white people. In looking it up (ofay) in the Urban dictionary it has apparently lost its popularity, in favour of 'white devil' - So we can't use the N word, (which I wouldn't anyway) but these are acceptable?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    turns out I was right... Just not in the right way pmsl.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Fantastic. Terrific. Awful. Based on their root words and original meanings, they are now contextually innaccurate. However, definitions evolve, so whilst they have come far from their origins, their current usages are also technically correct (by sheer erosion, lol). Facetious is often used incorrectly, as well. Including by me :P

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    now have a place to come to poke fun at US, it called the internet.....   Mike

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Desire, was my fave character in Aunty Jack, and it was years before I found out what "flange" was... besides an engineering term....   Mike

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Love. Also the words "Fine!" and "Nothing!"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You know, ...like FUCK.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' if I have committed that faux pas Crackie 'cos nobody has ever been brave enough to tell me. but I love words,I think they were almost my first love.My family didn't have many books but we had an illustrated dictionary which was very old and much loved.I used to read it all the time because I loved the beautiful illustrations. Words are like small gems,each new one is a gift,and it's not just the meaning of words that I love,it's how they sound.Sometimes the simplest words can be imbued with the sexiest meaning if said in the right way ,by the right person.   You can stroke people with words...F.Scott Fitzgerald. TR Fitzanything

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Many years ago when I was at a specalist he asked me if I had Psoriasis and I said no, I don't drink that much!   Psoriasis is a common skin condition that causes skin redness and irritation and Cirrhosis is the end result of chronic liver damage caused by chronic liver diseases!   Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    LMAO,Freya Pokemon

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Cant help using the word DAG. I think we all know what it means LOL but been saying it since I was a kid and didnt know the meaning, and still continue to use it when friends are just .... weird? "Ya Dag!"   I also remember many years ago, early teens, the word 'cute'... I cant recal exactly why but something was said about checking the meaning of the word. Well to my surprise I was not going to be calling the boyfriend cute any more - Back then the meaning was 'ugly but interesting' ... and with times changing, so has the meaning of that word, we checked it a few years back and it now holds more akin to how we mean it than what its original meaning was.   Awww how cute! LOL

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Let me give you something really funny. A little off topic but i'll put it in anyway.   When i was young i used to think a midwife was a medium sized wife lmao.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Yeah, something like that Deb. lol Your a good sport!Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I nearly had beer pouring out of my nose after reading you post!!! You are quite the story teller... Loved it!!!

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    I was wrong... I was right all along... Whoda thunk it... Apparently wrapped is the right spelling... according to the dictionary at least... I stand corrected... And I'm wrapped about it! Peachy

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    My post that makes my last post make sense is missing... I remember posting on this thread that I was spelling wrapped wrong for years, then decided it must mean rapt... But noticed while I was googling today that wrapped is for real. Peachy, 60s babe

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    "I digress" and "With all due respect". They have all new meanings one you run them through RHP forums. Who knew? Peachy

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Guess I'm not bitchy enough... Peachy

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    I have nothing to do with Brave_Heart, and it's okay if you ask that because I have nothing to hide! As I realised later yesterday, my posts are gone from this thread. I posted above to say so. Peachy (Mrs P, because calling myself Peachy, at the time, would have left hubby stuck with Pear :-D) (Deb/s because that's my name)

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    I was confused when I looked back after my first post... but I did have a chunk of posts deleted way back when one of the many times I thought about leaving lol... Obviously that didn't work out. You know, it's been a while since that thought of leaving has been constantly beating at my brain. What a relief. Peachy