F62
Work, sex, family and life
July 16 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
1.Sex Nah just kidding 1. My children (they always come first) 2. Work unfortunately but see no.3 3. Sex - working on swapping the order of sex and work. I have done both at the same time but not advisable. 4. Family - other family, parents get high priority but I wouldn't cancel a meet at late notice unless they were sick or something But I have been supporting my son, and he helps me, we kind of have a co-dependent relationship, so chose to put my needs on the backburner for the last year. But we're really close and it has been a joy, my daughter too, no man will ever get priority over them
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RHP User
6 years ago
Life & family Work Sex They all tie in together of course and I’m not happy without any one of them but I’m yet to find the right balance...I like people, don’t care that much for money and find that when I work enough to live comfortably I end up terribly unhappy & contemplating whether or not it’s all worth it, My life goal is to achieve a balance where my bills are paid & my family is happy, sounds simple, hey? 😂 Sex is an extra curricular activity, it doesn’t hold the same kind of importance to me as life, family & work do but god I love to indulge whenever the opportunity arises...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Family first, although my life revolves around my son and family so those two are joint first. My close friends here in Perth are my Australian family. They have always been there for me and I appreciate them very much. Then work. I had a horrible year when I was unemployed and desperately trying to find work. Trying for hundreds of jobs and coming up against ageism was quite demoralising. I eventually got lucky, work full now with a great bunch of people and enjoy getting up in the morning and going to work. Sex is last for me right now as I dont have the same time to meet people and dont live on my own. But thats ok...in the last 3 tears I ticked off a lot of things on my list and had some great experiences. Im not sitting here writhing with frustration. Id describe my life now as content and excited for the future and what it may bring.
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RHP User
6 years ago
For me as a single each can take more focus than the other from time to time. Work is always the priority for me as I enjoy it and well what other options are there unless I win lotto. My kids older so they have there own lives but still are close and always there to help them. Sex comes and goes wishing that was more regular. Have active social life and more so now I've moved closer to city. I think overall I'm fairly lucky and have balance of the important things in life.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Family ie my daughter always comes first,then close friends .Now that I am retired I am able to pursue other interests,I love to learn new things and am studying anthropology and classical history through the University of the Third Age. I am a bit over sex..in fact I think that I am retired from that too:). If I met someone IRL that might be different but after eight years of Internet dating it was too much déjà vu. Thanks for the topic Peachy, Hugs Q xx
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justforthefun44
6 years ago
1 family. 2. Friends. 3. Sex. 4 work.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Life is full of misture and quick canges. At these stage, i believe Family always come first, then possibly work. Then sex, life, and possibly othere things not as mu h important. But would really like to sove live and sex up list.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Work, sport Admin, sex. Parents have gone and I always had an allergy to children, so none of them. I love my work, could have retired but don't want to so far. through my circumstances I have always had a great balance in my life. When one can do pretty much whatever they want mostly when they want, Life is good.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
They all go hand in hand. I'm happy and blessed, as I do have the right balance and freedom to choose what fits my needs at that time. Ms Foxy
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Sawadee
6 years ago
1. Family comes first by a country mile. 2. Work' because without my client, l wouldnt survive.. 3. Friends . Keeps me sane... 4. Sex, not nessasarily last , as 2 and 3 often come in to play.
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Katkat
6 years ago
1) My kids first of course they’re my priority 2) Work need to pay bills & mortgage 3) Friends & Family 4) Sex when I’m free
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RHP User
6 years ago
Children, avoid them as they are like puppies..adorable when young then they become teenagers. I hate getting calls for bail money in the middle of the night and lying to a parole officer. That's not about children...I was giving my ex-wife a look in so yeah, families even ex parte are probably next. Then food, money and more sex. Deal? ʗɱ
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
Life = family+work+sex Of course family comes first but sometimes work has to take priority to provide for family. A happy home sex life for us is integral to family but again sometimes other family matters take priority. We have learned to enjoy the whole breadth of intimacy from the quick morning cuddle to the more often than not quickie and revel when we get more than 20 minutes to remember what foreplay is. Work is an interesting one, after kids it has become even more important as my demands on what I need to provide for my family have increased so now am working harder than ever and spending less time with the kids than I thought I would. This sacrifice comes so my wife can be there full time which for us is very important and I just make sure the time I get is quality. Other fun and sex? Well there’s not a lot of time for it but we both savour the rare times we get to indulge!
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funtimescouple1
6 years ago
Sure family before swinging sex but many couples send out flirts and upon subsequent chatting say 'we might be available on such and such date subject to family commitments, we'll get back to you'. Most often you don't hear from them again or they come back and say'sorry we can't make it'. Some meet but are in a rush to get home. If you can't set a date aside and stick to it, then please don't waste other couples' time!
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RHP User
6 years ago
SSExplorer has hit the nail on the head.
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Good_Bad
6 years ago
how my time is probably spent lately=1. work2. friends3. romance/sex4. family but in my mind family always has a prioritywould like to think an ideal would be to live each day for others (family/friends/strangers) equally
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teamaj2
5 years ago
We are both not self employed so we are lucky in that respect . Once the work day is over , it’s over . In regards to family , we attempt to juggle that . Saturday night is our sacred time . Our number one priority is each other . Real life of ageing parents , children and the stress of trying to leave work behind until Monday is often a challenge . I would say we succeed 80% of the time in getting the balance right . A good , fun sex life is really important to us both . It helps we are like minded in our approach to life. The order of importance does shift depending on what’s happening in our lives . Ax
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