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Would you marry more than one wife or husband?
February 01 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah... If we were a very agreeable lot... I'd have more than one husband and more than one wife just because I could. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm married with two wifes sometimes three it's great and they all share the same body isn;t that fantastic! please dont like them read this....
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RHP User
16 years ago
love the idea of a big house and the idea of having options and someone will always be in the mood for a play and think how much easier it would be dealing with the kids scheduling as long as everyone gets along and is mature and NOT JEALOUS
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RHP User
16 years ago
The traditional stay at home 1950's kind. Someone who would have dinner on the table, kids all showered and ready for bed. Rub my feet, tell me how good I am and then potter off to do whatever chores needed doing. But ohhh no...fate provided me with pink bits so I had to do all of the above..And work!!....bloody *&*% *&*^
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RHP User
16 years ago
oh god NO...i have trouble handling 1 man...i dont want anymore and who wants another woman all over ur man nah not for this little chicky roxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
NOT are you nuts...lol, talk about asking for trouble !I saw that show on SBS what was it called...ummm BIG LOVE....scary stuff!Then again if anything ever happened to Kerrie, god forbid! I couldn't see myself getting married again either, or even shacking up with someone.Cheers Nev....the Hermit
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RHP User
16 years ago
The Arabs have all the oil, money and the wives ..Oh and the hairy backs ! Random thought..How many days in a week?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh jeez NO. Are you insane.Isn'tit a known fact that when you have a few women in the same houshold, the whole "Cycle" begins to coincide.Imagine 2 or 3 wives- ALL WITH PMT, AND A DOUBLE SERVING OF PMSOr worse still, imagine her with more than one of me
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RHP User
16 years ago
Having never been engaged let alone married it's hard to say. I have had a 5 year relationship though so that was probably close enough. I think as mentioned if everyone got along it could be good, but if not all hell would break loose and all of a sudden you find yourself outnumbered.Think I'll stick to trying to find a woman first, then a girlfriend then see what happens from there.
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RHP User
16 years ago
a post WITHOUT abuse?? Honestly where does this all come from?? Now back to the question at hand, No i would not have more than one husband. Hard enough living with one let alone another!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
If the answer to that one is No, then yes, I would have more than one husband. Being the gypsy that I am I could have one in every state. lol Well probably only Victoria and NSW, I don't get to Qld, SA or WA very often. And of course one in Tassie, after all you need a man in winter here. . . someone to chop the wood, light the fire and keep me warm in bed on those cold nights. It could be fun really. Wildly tempted
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RHP User
16 years ago
...but my hubby would prefer two wives, so how do we compromise :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very tempting to have a slave to share with you.
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jandv
16 years ago
Make sure they have the same first name LOL Could be bad if you moaned the wrong name during the act of love making.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good thinking customeranywayup..Now can i have 2 lesbain wives and one straighty.It could be fun ..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'roughfukr1' Imagine 2 or 3 wives- ALL WITH PMT, AND A DOUBLE SERVING OF PMS at least then you only have it once - out of sync you'd have it even longer. Acute pain that vanishes quickly is better than chronic pain ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you need to ask this question???????????? Why the fuck did you stand up in front of family/friends & commit to another person if you wanted a varying sex life????Call me old fashioned, but you get married for LIFE, you commit to another human being for LIFE. Why the heck would you even consider adding another person to your supposedly perfect marriage/world???Maybe you should have had counselling before you commited yourself to another person.Just my opinion, I've painted the bullseye on my forehead so shoot away.
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RHP User
16 years ago
diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks - what might be right for some, may not be right for others.What if you stood up and committed to multiple people? or it was done on the basis of some other arrangement/agreement that you both didn't feel needed to be said at the ceremony in front of your family?What if you all wanted to marry as a group, why not allow it?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Huh....You have some issues!.... Its too late tonight...i am too tired!Are you on some crusade?.... been hurt...and looking for someone's throat to rip out?Just can't muster the energy tonight, going now to curl up with the bride!Cheers Nev.......knows of a special place near Jamberoo..maybe you should check it out!
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RHP User
16 years ago
HEY DID ANYONE SEE THAT EPISODE ( NO RED2TRY NOT YOUR ONE) OF THE SIMPSONS WHERE HE CLONED HIMSELF, AND MARG DIDNT KNOW? MAN IF THAT WERE POSSIBLE. WIFE SAYS '' HONEY CAN WE HAVE SEX TONIGHT'' ''SURE BABE BE UP IN A SECOND.''YOUR UP CLONE BOY...AND HEY MAKE ME LOOK GOOD...AND WHEN YOUR DONE RUN DOWN AND GET ME MORE BEER.......
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RHP User
16 years ago
IM SURE POLYGYMY ONLY WORKS WHEN THEY BEEN BRAINWASHED WITH RELIGIONN SEGREGATED FRM THE COMMUNITY N HAVE NO REAL CLUE...........SO I DONT THINK IT REALLY COUNTS.......OR N COUNTRIES WHERE WOMEN R TREATED AS 2ND CLASS CITIZENS...........SCREW THAT
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'redi2try' If you need to ask this question???????????? Why the fuck did you stand up in front of family/friends & commit to another person if you wanted a varying sex life????Call me old fashioned, but you get married for LIFE, you commit to another human being for LIFE. Why the heck would you even consider adding another person to your supposedly perfect marriage/world???Maybe you should have had counselling before you commited yourself to another person.Just my opinion, I've painted the bullseye on my forehead so shoot away.Agree with you 100%
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Daytimelover49' a post WITHOUT abuse?? Honestly where does this all come from?? ubd2009... your post sounds extremely childish... and definitely worthy of the 'report abuse' tab in my mind.Quoting 'ubd2009' Quoting 'stalky' Yeah... If we were a very agreeable lot... I'd have more than one husband and more than one wife just because I could. Hugs Stalky The only reason you would STALKY/GAZPO Is cause you are a DIPSTICK .
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hehehe, yep sure would!Why? For double the... insert appropriate benefit here...Hugs :-Deb
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RHP User
16 years ago
Perhaps, considering you feel so strongly on the topic, you could consider starting a thread of your own to air your opinions on marriage and fidelity and encourage others to share theirs. Quoting 'redi2try' If you need to ask this question???????????? Why the fuck did you stand up in front of family/friends & commit to another person if you wanted a varying sex life????Call me old fashioned, but you get married for LIFE, you commit to another human being for LIFE. Why the heck would you even consider adding another person to your supposedly perfect marriage/world???Maybe you should have had counselling before you commited yourself to another person.Just my opinion, I've painted the bullseye on my forehead so shoot away.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'redi2try' "If you need to ask this question???????????? Why the fuck did you stand up in front of family/friends & commit to another person if you wanted a varying sex life????............................Just my opinion, I've painted the bullseye on my forehead so shoot away." No you don't need a bullseye on your forehead!!! Strangely I could not disagree with you more. I do believe in monogomy , I just simply don't believe it works, by itself ! I am polyamorous in that I have another lover. BUT BUT BUT it's what should make the forums great. It's your opinion ! Go for it ! You seem a little spiteful in your posting , that won't win you friends. Your a big gal you know that. There appears to be more moderators in the forums (other members) than are moderating them! Sad you feel you can't say what you think or interact without being attacked thou. Would I marry another , NO. Would I take another lover yes ! I think the two are distinctly different. Let her ride guys , its an opinion. Not mine, maybe not yours, but hers. The only problem with opinion is when someone tries to change thier opinion into someone else's fact. May all your opinions be free .... to all sexy swingers. B
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'BUNNY_BOILER' IM SURE POLYGYMY ONLY WORKS WHEN THEY BEEN BRAINWASHED WITH RELIGIONN SEGREGATED FRM THE COMMUNITY N HAVE NO REAL CLUE...........SO I DONT THINK IT REALLY COUNTS.......OR N COUNTRIES WHERE WOMEN R TREATED AS 2ND CLASS CITIZENS...........SCREW THAT PERHAPS IT IS THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT YOU DESCRIBE, WITH THE SHACKLES OF RELIGION USUALLY ENCOURAGING A PAIRING RATHER THAN A HAREM.Who knows, maybe it is, maybe it isn't - in the animal kingdom which we came from/are part of - the "alpha male and a group of girls" situation seems fairly common, less so the "mate for life" model. If there was a wholesale switch does it confer an evolutionary advantage, more variations so more opportunities for improvements to pop up - or is it less advantageous because you have less 'fit' genes being continued. I suspect there is an optimum fit somewhere in the middle and it is cultural mores that hold us in the "pair" model of mating.PS why are so many (all?) of your posts in CAPS? it is really horrible to read
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RHP User
16 years ago
onya mate. gotta respect a bullseye painter no matter what for.bunnyboiler, i love boiled bunny. brings back memeries of my child hood.great handle.reminising(is that how ya spell it). Earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There was a show on polygamy some months ago on SBS (of course). It showed two groups of people in a relationship. The first group had one male and two females. The man was straight and the women bi. The man was married to the older of the women and they were looking to change the laws to allow lesbian marriages so that the two woman could be wed (the law on polygamy in their state only specified a man with multiple wives). The second group was a man with 8 wives all of which was straight. This group seemed to be the freak cult group and didn't seem to co-exist well. From this I think yes it would be OK to have two wives as long as they were both bi and loved each other as mcuh as they loved me. An all straight union of three or more people would be hard to deal with the interpersonal jelousy.
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RHP User
16 years ago
if you love more than one why not marry more than one.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If my wife would agree i do it tomorrow Best would be 3 wife's, always one in the mood ;-) They have to be great friends though otherwise there would only be jealousy Oh im dreaming already
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RHP User
16 years ago
on SBS right now, " BIG LOVE " if you want to watch a show that revolves around Poly relationships. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gotta love a girl who can speak her mind!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I married one, and he is my primary and my bf is my second we have a fairly strict hierarchy, I would possibly marry a second if it were allowed if it seemed like it was that sort of relationship. I lived with my now husband and now ex at the same time for almost a year - if that hadn't gone sour I'd have married them both.Religion etc aside i think people should be able to form committal contracts together as they please.
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RHP User
16 years ago
but I would love having another wife with my husband as long as it was a marriage relationship between all of us and not just between him and her. I could easily love another woman - I think it would be more difficult for my husband to love (emotional) another woman. :) By the way - welcome to my first post in these forums.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'goforit69' If my wife would agree i do it tomorrow Best would be 3 wife's, always one in the mood ;-) They have to be great friends though otherwise there would only be jealousy Oh im dreaming already A... you are such a dreamer,very much like me lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Short answeryes. Out-dated Victorian, legislative and religious beliefs are other negative reasons why so many of your responses see this as only a fix to have sex on one hand and a slave on the other. Makes me wonder how your partner is thought of already. Everyone has the capacity to love more than one person, and I believe that it is only upbringing and your mind that stops you from loving more than one person at a time. It took me a little while to get my head around the scenario of a polyamorous relationship, and I believe now that to have 2 husbands and a wife or 2 wives and a husband would be the ultimate in bonding, friendship and life. Having children growing up with 2 sets of parents would probably give them more stability than one sometimes. Mrs F
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am sorry this is long but I wanted to provide some constructive thought to this question. It is encouraging to see that on a site that promotes choice and sexual freedom that serious discussions can be had around subjects like this. It is a little disappointing that some people, while members of this site still make judgements of others. As the male half of our relationship I have spent 3 years in a previous polygamous relationship and there are many benefits, surprisingly the least would be sexual. There are also many challenges especially around good quality communication and I would strongly advise anyone contemplating such a relationship to think about how they communicate and cope when confronted by two people who disagree with you on the same subject. The joys of polygamous relationships is that you not only get to share your love and giving spirit with another person but you also get to see two people you love, love one another (and I do not mean sexually at this point). I know this may be strange for some people, especially considering we have been taught all our lives to be jealous of such occasions. To describe the feeling, it is a little like the warmth and joy you feel when you see your partner playing with your children, hugging them and all laughing together. You are happy about that because you are seeing people you love enjoying each other and being a family. In my opinion, it makes it much easier if you are all open hearted people who have a giving spirit and I do believe some people have just got so much love that one person is just not enough. It is just sad that because of our traditions these people often have to go outside of their family to share that love and then all the problems start. When you keep it all together, (sort of like swinging) you are all involved in the decisions and in enjoying the benefits as well as the challenges which brings you together even more. In history societies have accepted polygamous relationships for a range of reasons, usually to adjust to environmental, economic or demographic conditions. Modern society has become fixated on what mostly came from the Roman concept of marriage being 1-1 and anti anything that was supported by any other religion. In more recent times we have seen this in the condemnation of Jewish, Islamic and sections of Mormon religions that continue to practice polygamy. Because we have become so fixated on these traditions and have further entrenched them by making it illegal to have polygamous marriages, society has stopped adjusting to the circumstances we find ourselves in. In modern times the cost of living has become out of reach for most young couples who ever had the dream of owning their own home. How many people do you ask, how have they have been and their response is “we are just so busy we hardly have time for each other”? How many people wish they could spend more time being with their families, traveling together and even maybe having a second house in the little town you always like to go back to? Polygamy can address these issues of time and money, because you can have three or more incomes coming into the one house and they don’t all need to be full time. The combined savings are greater and you have an increased capacity to invest financially in property for retirement years. Three or more people sharing a house and all its demands also reduces the workload at home. Us all cooking a meal together was one of the most fun times we would have. Children receive more dedicated time and support from adults and experience a wider range of education, opinions and views. They also get to see what it takes to communicate well and come to respectful understandings of each other, even if you may not agree. Sexually, it can be challenging, it required me to have the ability to once again sit back and allow my first partner to be loved by someone else and I know to begin with it was a challenge for her to allow the same. Sometimes we were all together and other times not. Sometime we were all truly making love and other times it was just fun sex (no different to 1-1 relationships) For the men that think this is about having constant threesomes and fantasies being fulfilled I suggest you get over it. This is about relationship and the first thing you should be asking yourself is could you live with another guy with your wife having both of you? Most women are smart enough to know that would be hard work. You also need to know that for some women when they spend enough time together, their menstrual cycles line up with each other and that can get an interesting week for everyone concerned. I am too young to know what it would be like during menopause or when guys get older and grumpier. At the end of the day, just like any other relationship to make it work there had to be commitment from all sides with a long term focus. And for us just like 1-1 relationships it unfortunately didn’t last, but the love, compassion and the intensity was just the same as a traditional relationship. We each decided over a period of time we wanted different things in our lives, such as travel, family, purchases and so one by one we moved on. There was never a high level of conflict but rather a great deal of respect for each person’s decisions and I think this was mainly due to the communication we all shared. For us it was a great time and a wonderful experience, if the circumstances ever provided the opportunity again I would be happy to do it all over.CheersAmoreWA
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're kidding right? Twice as much laundry thrown on the floor, twice as much hair in the sink, twice as many "honey can you take out the rubbish". Twice as many orgasms does not make the desire for two husbands appealing to me. I'd rather have 1 husband and a boyfriend or two on the side who go back to their own home and do their own laundry. Mrs D
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks amoreWA, people are capable of loving more than one person at a time and you're absolutely right. It isn't about having threesomes on tap. I'd never considered the potential for financial benefits before but it certainly stands to reason that the burden shared means more time to share all the good stuff. Sweet! Thanks for enlightening me. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
ummmmmm...Can I have 3 hubbys? I do have needs yanno silly kisses sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
AMOREWA.Admit to it it was never going to last.Maybe it was fun,but all good/bad things come to an end
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RHP User
16 years ago
You may be right. However there is plenty of evindence world wide that these relationships do last and are very successful. My point was the relationship was just as "special" and challenging as any other 1-1 relationship. How many "normal" marriages last? How many people swing because they don't believe in the constraints of "normal" marriagesand believe swinging improves their relationship. What is increadible is swinging couples with such open views on their sexuallity can struggle to understand that alternative relationships are not naturally doomed because they are alternative to Western Society. How many non-swinging peole believe swinging is the begining of the end of a relationship. There are many long term couples out there that can testify that in the right circumstances that just isn't true. This is the same for polygamous relationships. Some people will get it or at least accept it possible and others do not have the capacity to even begin to understand it. I say each to their own. Which type of person are you?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am surprised that so many of you are blinded by conformity. It appears that so far Gazza is man enough to admit to other ideas being worthwhile, after reading amoreWA. It goes far beyond picking up dirty washing! Open up your minds to other possibilities in life, otherwise you show yourselves as being unable to think outside the box you live in and live life with a sheep mentality. Mrs F
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
For me (Mr) ..one wife is fine, I've found the perfect one so don't need another. I get to play with plenty of other girls so the sexual variety is already there. I have my cake & eat it too!! LOLThe down side on having more than one wife is if you were the victim of a double or triple divorce...your life would well & truly be screwed!! LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes i would marry John, and have both my guys as my hubbies...i love them both so much Oh well, that would never happen, so we will keep it as it is..the three of us having a ball. What is marriage anyhow..just a bit of paper.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Amore, thanks for your views. Ubd2009, your reality check was pretty handy too. I tried to make a polygamous relationship work for nearly 2yrs, but eventually the pressure was too much and my wife asked me to leave. (That would be the lady who's still giving me cooking lessons lol)That happened because everything I did in that relationship, was 'right reason, wrong action'. To be blunt the 3-way relationship started with a lie to my wife.... I cheated on her until I decided to come clean. It ended with me lying to myself, so much so that it took my (ex) wife to point out that I was more in love with the GF, than I was with her.The relationship that Amore describes sounds like it was based on lots and lots of clear open communication. Trust and confidence added in. If you have those, well you'd probably have a chance at lasting longer than my attempt did.Western society, including Australia, seems to have little time or tolerance for anything that doesn't fit the norm. So that means many people would probably feel pressure to keep their relationship to their significant others underground... That's not really good or easy to do in the long term.All the things needed to make a 1-1 relationship work are needed... in quadruplicate, I think, to make a poly relationship work. But the right people, the trust, the communication, with a support net of understanding friends and acquaintances and (ideally) other family.. Why not?If I could have my time over, I'd have done many things differently - not least of which is avoid causing the pain that I did to my ex wife. Oh well, the best I can do is remember and not repeat past mistakesNeil
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
I am, but don't tell the other 5 or they will know all the late hours I have been keeping, all the conferences I have been going to, the overtime, the weekends away with 'the boys' have all been so that they couldn't find out about the others. OK, so I'm making this all up. Well it would be good, lots of work - perhaps less. If you were in such a relationship and material things mattered not, then it could be a lot less stress, but then that is life in general isn't it. Then you bring up the 'marriage' word, that christian upbringing, so you are probably not meant to. Mmmmm, perhaps change religion, but then again it will only bring in other 'constraints', after all isn't that what religion is all about, keeping the masses under control............ Shit think I may have just opened a real can of worms here.....hehehehe Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Peachypear69' Quoting 'Daytimelover49' a post WITHOUT abuse?? Honestly where does this all come from?? ubd2009... your post sounds extremely childish... and definitely worthy of the 'report abuse' tab in my mind.Quoting 'ubd2009' Quoting 'stalky' Yeah... If we were a very agreeable lot... I'd have more than one husband and more than one wife just because I could. Hugs Stalky The only reason you would STALKY/GAZPO Is cause you are a DIPSTICK . Well then go and report it,you little sook.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'couplesint' Yes i would marry John, and have both my guys as my hubbies...i love them both so much Oh well, that would never happen, so we will keep it as it is..the three of us having a ball. What is marriage anyhow..just a bit of paper. Are you serious????????Marriage just a piece of paper?????????But then it is only your opinion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am interested to hear if you actually have something constructive to say? Everyone on here comes from different experiences and has different values. I get the impression your values are reasonably conservative and looking at your profile it appears to confirm this given you don't full swing and that is fine, you and your partners choice. I hope though you are more accepting of people and their views when you meet them face to face. It is very easy to criticise people from behind an anonymous profile. If you have thoughts on what marriage/relationship means to you and why you wouldn't have anyone else then share them with everyone on here. People would be more interested to hear your thoughts rather than you giving one line put downs. We are all sure you have the capacity to do that and it would make a constructive contribution to the debate.Try giving it a go, I am anticipating just another one line negative comment, but hope you can surprise me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It really is worthwhile to take the time to read your posts. Great reading, well reasoned, good points made, and all with a minimum of angst.... Cheers... Mrs P' Quoting 'AmoreWA'ubd2009 I am interested to hear if you actually have something constructive to say? Everyone on here comes from different experiences and has different values. I get the impression your values are reasonably conservative and looking at your profile it appears to confirm this given you don't full swing and that is fine, you and your partners choice. I hope though you are more accepting of people and their views when you meet them face to face. It is very easy to criticise people from behind an anonymous profile. If you have thoughts on what marriage/relationship means to you and why you wouldn't have anyone else then share them with everyone on here. People would be more interested to hear your thoughts rather than you giving one line put downs. We are all sure you have the capacity to do that and it would make a constructive contribution to the debate.Try giving it a go, I am anticipating just another one line negative comment, but hope you can surprise me.
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
It appears that ubd2009 have several issues on the topic of polygomy and they are entitled to their opinion. Quoting ubd2009 "Are you serious????????Marriage just a piece of paper?????????But then it is only your opinion." So ubd2009 what are you doing on this site. If marriage is not a piece of paper and you hold your vows to the church you would have had a vow of 'forsaking all others'. If this is the case then why be here at all. But then this is only my opinion. Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
I MEAN THAT MARRIAGE DOESNT CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT SOMEONE. YOU STILL LOVE THEM JUST AS MUCH EVEN IF YOU WERE NOT MARRIED.
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RHP User
16 years ago
This thread is getting interesting now, go on rip it up each other, give me some entertainment. As for the subject at hand, no I could'nt do the poly thing. I think I'd be jealous seeing mrs pip in love with another man. Swinging on the other hand is fine cause it's only sex.
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RHP User
16 years ago
it doesn't change the way someone loves someone is all i meant. Well it shouldn't Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
i would love it if me n my man married n another marred couple lived toghther on a farm as one family
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL MY DREAM to have lots of husbands! Different relationships with different people! licking lyns! Passionate Paul! Horny henry! Sucking Sam! Wild Warren!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just a question though, so I can get the whole feelings part straight. What if the third party wants to stay in thepolygamous relationship but have a boyfriend/girlfriend outside the polygamous relationship? would the others allow it? or would you decide that its time to let the other go? or would you think about working on bringing the boyfriend/girlfriend into the relationship slowly? It might sound like a silly question but this type of relationship facsinates me just like everything does i guess. (curiousity is my middle name). Maybe its the type of relationship i need to actually stay in a relationship longer then 6 months.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Harleigh' Just a question though, so I can get the whole feelings part straight. What if the third party wants to stay in thepolygamous relationship but have a boyfriend/girlfriend outside the polygamous relationship? would the others allow it? or would you decide that its time to let the other go? or would you think about working on bringing the boyfriend/girlfriend into the relationship slowly? It might sound like a silly question but this type of relationship facsinates me just like everything does i guess. (curiousity is my middle name). Maybe its the type of relationship i need to actually stay in a relationship longer then 6 months. I would think it would be just like" normal" relationships, you need to work out if you are going to have an open relationship, play with others all together or be exclusive, just the three of you. Surprisingly when you are in a polygamous relationship and have real feelings for each other, what you have can become just as special and you want it to be exclusive. From those that we met when all together that were in similar relationships the interest of one party in someone else was usually the biggest threat and it takes time to have a sense of permanency and trust. This is also not really that different than "normal", but in my experience the early insecurity is magnified. Once again it comes down to trust, honesty and communication and don't all relatinships? The greatest pain for us was the grief we felt when the first person of the three left. It was the same pain as the loss of a "normal" relationship and while we had each other for support it also created tension at times with the readjustment of being two again.
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escapee65
16 years ago
Only if the ceremony was performed by a Judge.Then I would be getting 2 wife sentences.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would love to have a wife and I am sure my hubby would like two. Whilst the cats away, the mice will play!
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RHP User
16 years ago
WE JUST GOT TO FORGET ALL THE RULES AND INHIBITIONS. I WAS UPTIGHT AND WHEN MY EX-WIFE WANTED TO EXPERIMENT, I WAS NOT HAPPY AND GOT VERY JEALOUS WHEN SHE FINALLY WAS COMFORTABLE WITH HER NEW FOUND SEXINESS. YOU COULD ALMOST SEE HER MICKY DRIPPING (& SMELL) WHEN WE WERE OUT. SHE WAS A RANDY FUCK MACHINE AND INSTEAD OF LETTING HER GET IT OUT OF HER SYSTEM AND HAVE HER MEN WHEN SHE WANTED IT I CREATED SCENE AFTER SCENE. HOWEVER THAT DID NOT STOP HER AND I THINK IT ONLY MADE HER MORE DETERMINED TO FUCK AS MANY MEN AS POSSIBLE. SHE HAS NOW LEFT ME AND IF I HAD LET HER HAVE AS MANY HUSBANDS AS WE WISHED AND SUPPORTED HER THROUGH HER HORNY PERIOD, I AM SURE WE WOULD STILL BE TOGETHER. I WISH I HAD AGREED TO LET HER FUCK AS MANY MEN AS SHE WANTED - I WILL STILL TAKE HER BACK WITH HER MICKY DRIPPING.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'jensta' LOL MY DREAM to have lots of husbands! Different relationships with different people! licking lyns! Passionate Paul! Horny henry! Sucking Sam! Wild Warren!
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOVE IT
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK so those that have actually taken the time to consider this issue, it all comes down to one question. If the couple have thought this through and decided they are actually interested in a relationship with all the bells and whistles and not just a sexual relationship. Who of you out there, either single woman, guy or couple would actually be prepared to develop a meaningful relationship with a couple? For us we are genuinely interested in this opportunity with another woman, but would like your feedback from either women, men or couples on here or by private message. Cheers AmoreWA
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RHP User
16 years ago
if there isnt heartfelt commitment behind it.How many peeps get married coz she got knocked up??How many stay married "for the kids" but don't love each other any more??How many marry for money..status..security??For some....marriage IS just a piece of paper.You don't need that piece of paper to prove you have committed yourself to someone.But in relation to the original post...I'd like to get married at least ONCE!!Or at least be in a committed relationship!But the communal family situation has its own appeal to me.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
but together 13 years, the last five being hell.have to agree with miss bj here that to hang onfor the kids ect is a big mistake.at the mo i over it. don't need the bustedheart thing again although i know thatcould change in an instant.scary realy.Earl (fuck, i being serious for a change)ahahahahahahahahahahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
Paying off a house 1/3 faster!? Threesomes? Two women to cook and clean and wash the Royal Penis? Always having someone there to pick up the kids? Threesomes? Count me in! Oh yeah and all the lovey dovey stuff. I have an idea! after sex they can stroke each other's backs and I can go to sleep. Signed, Anonymous
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think that if two consenting adults have agreed to a certain lifestyle then I dont see a problem with it... its only because society and christainity says that it is wrong... that they majority think that it is.... People should do whatever it is that makes them comfortable in there own life and relationship....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would not go into a relationship with a couple. Cause I am not bi..lol But would love a MFM relationship...woohoo! But most men are insecure to do that. Well except Bryan and John...yay..lucky Lessa! huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
LMFAO....that was classic!!As an aside....mmm...the mens' 4 man bobsleigh teams...omg...YUMMEH!!Can I have all the boys on the British team please??BJxxx
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bondage_reality
16 years ago
At first I though woohooo yes pleasebut then after further thought the question aroseDo you have to have a mother in law for each wife????OUCH!!!!
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