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a question of danger ;)

September 23 2011

This question presumes that you have some minor knowledge of bdsm its dangers and joys whether in theory or practice.Q: which of the following would you call a more common and more dangerous way to get laid? 1.Going out on a Friday night getting pissed and through those alcohol goggles finding a sexual partner for the night/weekend.Or 2) Going out on a Friday night having a relaxed meal in a public place with flirts and teasing, conversing honestly about all levels of sexual play you wish to engage in and what you are willing to explore with your friend, before choosing to go ahead or not?

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RHP User

14 years ago

Hw old is the person going out getting pissed and picking up random strangers? Where are you? Not so easy in my neck of the woods for someone in my age group. All the pubs amd clubs are geared for the younger ones. BTW what has knowledge of BDSM got to do with going out and picking up some random stranger for sex?

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RHP User

14 years ago

anyone old enough to legally go out and buy alcohol,SydneyBDSM knowledge helps because as a safety rule for any meeting is a, frank and honest, discussion about what you wish to explore hedonistically and can be negotiated down to minute details.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Isn't strictly for BDSM practicioners, i think you're overcomplicating the question.A. is the most common and of course more dangerous optionB. is another option, a more grown up optionbut your question neglects the fact thatC. there are other options.

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RHP User

14 years ago

fuck i hate that i can't edit my posts.

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RHP User

14 years ago

which of the following would you call a more common and more dangerous way to get laid?Number 2 is probably the more common ..... but both would probably be equally dangerous ... would depend on how much the other person drank .. and whether after drinking so much .. would you actually be able to participate or be taken advantage of .. Neither would be my preferred way of having a fun time ..

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RHP User

14 years ago

Neither option is desirable as a means of finding partners for BDSM type play. The second option is the less dangerous one if you wish to engage in straight sex.Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Isn't strictly for BDSM practicioners, i think you're overcomplicating the question.A. is the most common and of course more dangerous optionB. is another option, a more grown up optionbut your question neglects the fact thatC. there are other options. C is the wise choice.

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RHP User

14 years ago

going out and picking up a random isnt something either of us has done. nor is choosing one while wearing beer goggles....if you stay in control, disappointments are unlikely to happen. couldnt imagine ever waking up next to someone and thinking 'oh no, what have i done'......lol

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a question of danger ;)

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