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as the song goes tell me whhhhhhy
September 09 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
If Im chatting to someone, and we realise that although we wont hit it off sexually, that we can chat as friends, I dont mind if they want to add me to their list, there is far too much negativity as it is, so talking freely to someone and then saying No, I dont want you on my friends list, it isnt me. What harm is there in having "friends" you havent met? I have met a lot of my "friends list", even just for a coffee or a drink, I think RHP is a great site for being social as well as hooking up. Its up to the individual, but Im a people person, I love meeting new people whether its in cyberland or in person. Ive been validated and have validated someone I havent met. Weve arranged to meet before and something cropped up, but I know of him outwith here, he is a great guy who does a lot of charity work in Perth and I am happy to call him a friend. We talk most days, and will certainly meet up at some point. I really dont see a problem with it. Why? I think guys like to have an extensive friends list, it makes them look good. If I get a message from someone with lots of friends, it doesnt bother me. Some people take this a bit seriously, RHP is an adult dating site but also a bit of fun. Im looking forward to catching up with a lot of the Perth people ( who I have already met) at the meet and greet this weekend. And, can I add, I havent met anyone yet who I didnt like? Perth people are so laid back and easy to get on with, I absolutely love living here
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RHP User
11 years ago
....I was curious about this too. I've decided to not add any "friends" (at this stage) as I'm not looking to form any real connections. I'm curious to follow this thread though... Might be convinced to change.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes Perth is a great place to live. I am sure with that positive out look you will Make lots if friends - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
They are like me and appreciate good well thought out or basically " phoar" type pics and this is an easy way to peruse them. I joke it's my private "art" gallery as a click of a button is easier then trawling through profile after profile. And essentially I'm lazy so this makes it easier for me to have a quick perve. In saying that my top six are that for a reason. I find the hoo haa about numbers of friends on here rather odd the " this isn't Facebook" line is rather funny. I agree it isn't bit who the hell adds randoms to their personal life any ways?? As for verifications , I've given to those I've met and one or two from the chatroom who I've known for a few years as we've been around for nearly 5 now. I still value all I've given as friends.
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RHP User
11 years ago
People collect friends they've never met....... as a badge to advertise. To infer that they are accepted by others and therefore should also be accepted by you. Given that some on her have friends numbering in the hundreds (one even numbers in the thousands).... collecting is some form of ego driven obsession for validation...... when in reality, there is no way they could possibly call these people even Facebook level friends.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
I thought adding friends was somehow tied into the private chat function that I'm not sure anyone actually uses...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have met and really like, or know well are on my friend list. I don't regard someone I have met maybe once or twice as a friend. Tuscan, on the other hand is my no. 1 wing woman. Hi mum!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have ever asked someone to add me to their list, however I do add people who ask me even if I don't know them. I don't know why most of them want to be my friend, most I have never even communicated with and probably never will. I am sure they have their reasons. I have over 100 friends now. I had one guy who asked to be my friend then he decided to email me and then I told him I was not interested. He then asked why I would accept his request if I didn't know him so I asked why he asked to be my friend when he didn't know me and he cracked the shits so I deleted him. No big deal. I don't have anyone in my hot list or short list.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My hot list is full of those untouchable beautiful bodies that I can perve at......... Friends list for me are only the people I feel I connect with....... 99% I've actually met/played/contacted, the other 1% are special in other ways! we either clicked! chatted for extended periods or I just plain and simply admire who they are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are premium plus originally was for the private chat function. That was preferred way to get to know peeps to see if we clicked.. Now I just use it to speak to select few I've come to know. Why do people get so elitist about what or how other people use their profile? In forum land. . To many friends= attention seeking. . Too many validations = whores . Thankfully this is just a small part / corner of RHP world .
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
An Attention Seeking Whore! Never used the private chat function, tried to once way back when but couldn't get it working on the device I was using at the time. I find the randoms who try to friend us are randomly friending everyone, and yeah it doesn't make sense unless they're running an event.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That it not my consensus by the way but seems to be a popular view on here judging by responses from another topic. Always wowsers ready to spoil the party. P.s yes. I've had issues with the private chat features too. Ever since they changed the chat room platform but that's another gripe altogether..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LaVelvetRouge' I have met and really like, or know well are on my friend list. I don't regard someone I have met maybe once or twice as a friend. Tuscan, on the other hand is my no. 1 wing woman. Hi mum! and hurry up woman the garden is crying out for attention, plus I have horded the magic worm tea from you know who!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Koko,a mystery says it best can be friends ,coffee ,chat,etc But sexual connection is why I presume most of us are on here(me anyway)! Chat to many ladies but doesn't mean it will lead to more,only special ones ,lol Find some on here very funny and insightful but enjoy from afar!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' We are premium plus originally was for the private chat function. That was preferred way to get to know peeps to see if we clicked.. Now I just use it to speak to select few I've come to know. Why do people get so elitist about what or how other people use their profile? In forum land. . To many friends= attention seeking. . Too many validations = whores . Thankfully this is just a small part / corner of RHP world . "There is no right or wrong its more curiosity on my part. Every one has the right do do whats best for them on this site." I hardly think having a different view on things is elitist, its just a different perspective.
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RHP User
11 years ago
wowsers? Quoting 'Saturn65' That it not my consensus by the way but seems to be a popular view on here judging by responses from another topic. Always wowsers ready to spoil the party. P.s yes. I've had issues with the private chat features too. Ever since they changed the chat room platform but that's another gripe altogether.. care to enlighten us? My only issue is that this is a site where people meet others offline. Its for me a trust thing, plus others will feel comfortable meeting someone who is a friend that you have meet. By adding a person who you never met it might make someone have perceptions that are not correct and this can affect offline interaction. Reason is that it could be a man pretending to be a woman or a couple etc. For me its not about online, its about offline and meeting people. So its horses for courses , what suits some does not suit others. So I guess its how you use this tool. I use it in a very precise way. I do not do the messages thing either, nor phone texts as I like to get to the nuts and bolts of reality land. I like to know who you are pretty quickly. That is just my motivation and how I operate. Other people have different uses for this, some never go offline so having a lot of cyber friends is fine for them. Its just not for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My comment wasn't directed at you as you stated your reasons. It's the comment more that DG made that gets this little chooks feathers ruffled. Apologies if you thought it was yours that did.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' My comment wasn't directed at you as you stated your reasons. It's the comment more that DG made that gets this little chooks feathers ruffled. Apologies if you thought it was yours that did. light bulb went on lol god it is hard sometimes to figure out who is saying what to whom. no wonder the world is in a mess, we cant even get it right on sexy old RHP lol it should be make love not war on this place. I think we should have a fuck fest for peace. Back in da day, you know a love in!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We posted at the same time so in regards to your last comments, in regards to trust issue , to me..I don't base meeting anyone on who their friends list are or who is on it, unless I've had communications with that person myself. Being a nosey Parker and in general I'll have a perve or a gander but I'd never assume they know their friends list or have a level of trust factor for them being on there list. Its what level of trust you are prepared to rely on in here. But as people use their lists for all sorts of reasons ( which was my initial point )Yet some have a need to bag it ( which was my second point) I feel it is wise to be wary in putting in too much trust into it. Again that's just my perception.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Peace love and mung beans babeeee x
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Aristippusx2
11 years ago
And what about friend requests from ppl that always have a blocked profile ?!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a status symbol, a badge of acceptance. Competitiveness would also come into it, look at Facebook FFS some people have more "friends" than a small country !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' Peace love and mung beans babeeee x or it will be clear the decks if someone smokes around me
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RHP User
11 years ago
Peoples views (if any) towards those that don't have 'friends' listed?
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Nothing wrong with that at all. Some people prefer it that way so they can't be 'spied' on. It doesn't mean they don't have friends here, just they don't like advertise who they're friends are.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Apologies for the atrocious use of the english language!
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RHP User
11 years ago
But multiple personalities, Sweetie which one do I add. :PIll go the vixen slut one to add.xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Happily so, I have found it's better not to name mine. Not everyone on here is mentally stable and I'd prefer not to be identified through my 'friends'.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have no friends...:-) Q xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am often appalled at the company some virtually keep...judgemental me :-) Qxx
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