attending first club

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Just be yourself. if you are a reasonably attractive couple you will be approached. It's a sad thing to say but the older and not so physically beautiful people struggle at the clubs - until people get to know them. Also, there will likely be a fairly obvious clique and Qld clubs are notorious for having little groups that while superficially seem friendly will take a while to let you in. They also mainly play behind closed doors whereas down south its all open and more orgy like, great fun. Sydney clubs are great - particularly when the action starts its all in and there arent many rejections. As for meeting people, just go up to couples and introduce yourselves, dont be pushy, and certainly dont be shy - people will pick up on both really well. A good host will also pick up that you are new and introduce you to regulars to make you feel at home. Lastly - don't go with any preconceived ideas or hopes - take it as it comes, it may be great it may be a disaster but percevere for a long time - it's worth it

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  1. some good some bad...depends on your outlook /the club and whos there. 2. try saying hi to everyone, not just those your into (remember others are shy/nervous/new too) we usually ask about their experiences and share some laughs ..see where it leads. 3. tricky one...like real life...some will just say "hey lets play/go to a room/ what are you looking for?" Personnally we usaully chat 1st , then compare notes, and if we are BOTH interested we ask if they are next time we see them... 4. again many are there to watch talk or just drink (zzzz) we usually flirt or play abit in open area as a warm up, and lets people know your not just there to look good...lol 5 flashing is fine...read 4...set your own stds... 6. flirting for us anyway is a great part of the scene...have fun, be bold, step outside your comfort zone, be who you might not be in normal life. flirting with others is just that, it doesnt have to mean we want sex with you. Dont be afraid to say "we are just looking for now" if you arnt ready/interested. and dont get disapointed if some arnt keen on you...we are all at different levels and all have differnt desires. ...so its not rejection...mearly their choice...and YOURS above all HAVE FUN sometimes you will click and have great sex...other times you may get a few ph numbers for next time. or maybe just watch a great play session. Then go home and talk about waht you have seen /learnt..over your own hot sex Bernie

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  thanks heaps guys, this has really really helped! im so excited and so is my partner. you guys have answered all my questions plus more!have no expectations and happy also if nothing happens as it may be easyer next time we attend.cheers!jodie

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