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August 07 2019
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Sawadee
6 years ago
No ? Friendships are there for a very good reason. Allowing a mate to fuck your Mrs is in my opinion crossing the line. IF ' you decide otherwise ' l think it would be just a matter of time before that friendship deteriorates.. We've delved into the hotwife senario a few times but only with guys outside our circle of friends. But thats us ? It might work for some if everyones on the same page but i think it would be very rare..
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Rule #1 No means No. They have stated they do not want to get involved in a three some. That means no to getting involved in anything else. Do not push for anything further. You are not their pimp. It is not your choice to make or decision if they need a good lay it not. Let them decide and choose themselves, not you. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wow people really do that? Answer is a BIG NO
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RHP User
6 years ago
Of course it depends on the friend and situation but the answer would be a yes for my wife to experience that...
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Ummmm NO
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Cucknshells
6 years ago
You crack me up. I think I must be getting too old. Not much surprises me anymore. It must be great to be amazed every day. To answer the question being in a cuckold relationship my partner doesn’t have an issue with me seeing someone on my own. However none of our old friends know about it so I am not sure what we would do in that situation. Generally i think we would be cautious as it could get messy and put pressure on the friendship. In saying that though I have had sex with friends I have made in the scene and there has never been any issues.i think it comes down to open and honest communication and making sure you are all on the same page. Shells.
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boxestotick
6 years ago
Why not? We have with a couple of recently divorced friends. Still friends even though they now have new partners and the sex has stopped. We’re all adults here. Just a question - will these really great friends still be really great friends in 10yrs time - even if you didn’t play?
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RHP User
6 years ago
No friends or work colleagues rule, it would be fine to play with a couple or single that we've met through swinging and then become friends with over time but not somebody who's been a close friend outside of the scene. In saying that when I was a single guy I was asked to be the third for a couple of couple friends. Both times it was very enjoyable and for one couple we repeated a few times, I was always respectful tho, there was no messaging the female half and flirting afterwards and I always let them both approach me.
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
Boxestotick..Yes I feel they would still be friends. .. as they have a connection...because they are friends they know their own partner would be treated with respect.. and it is a shared love that has built up over time.. and yes it would be just sex.. it was just a curious thought... to see how people feel about sharing sex with friends ..
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RHP User
6 years ago
Why not, you only live once. The only no go zone for me is my son's mates haha I think he trusts me now, kinda 😉
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RHP User
6 years ago
No. I've seen it before.First time was consensual, then it was done in secret. A full blown affair.That's not what the husband had agreed to, that's a breach in trust of the marriage and hard to forgive. IMO Further, it illustrated to me what this mutual friend would be willing to do and I couldn't trust him not to try the same with my wife. I trust my wife, but didn't like the idea of the potential for her to feel 'hit up' if I went away for work.I voiced my disapproval but didn't report the affair to the husband. I cut the mutual friend off. I've not seen that person for over a decade now. He lost a life long mate. Hope it was worth it. My wife and I also have the no friends, no work colleagues rule.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Male 1/2 posting? Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have had sex with a couple of friends over the years, and it has affected our friendship since. My answer to this would be no. I would have no problem with my partner having sex with somebody else, but one of our friends? No.
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
yes Super Foxy.. it is the male half posting.. is that relevent to the discussion about friends and sex...It is a topic we have discussed but decided not to go there.. we have a group of friends some are married some are single..we wonder whether bonking strangers or friends ..was the better option.. since we don't know whether that stranger has a history of abuse..
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Sawadee
6 years ago
..so this is a update since my original post. So what's different ? Nothing really , just stepped back and re assessed the different senario,s . The thing that struck me was that there are friends , and then there are friends . Not for a moment would I consider inviting a life long friend into our bedroom. Thier friendship is special and not worth the possible fallout .. But ' then there are the casual friends who we rarely see and dont have that same connection . I'm thinking of 2 different couples we occassionly see that could be possibilities if push came to shove ? Jury's out as far as thats concerned.. No one ever suggested anything ..
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RHP User
6 years ago
Do not fuck friends it only turns out with and end to the friendship
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have wondered what it would be like to have a mate join in or have sex with her. I have a mate is well hung and would love her to enjoy that pleasure.... but it would remain just a fantasy..... 2 reasons..... crossing that line you can't go back. And she wouldn't anyway
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Sawadee
6 years ago
I dont think your fantasy is all that uncommon.. Us men are visual creatures with great imaginations . We imagine she wants a well hung man as much as we like her to . We managed to make this a reality but not within our circle of close friends . As you say , cross that line and you can't go back .. Look further afield not your own backyard..
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RHP User
6 years ago
I had a friend who was also a work colleague ..we had a short but passionate affair...we were both single and had known each other for about three years. We continued being friends and colleagues ..(I was even his boss for about a year) for over ten years.During this time he married had children ,I had a child,lived in the USA but eventually lost touch. When I returned I found out that at the age of forty he died. I still think about him,he was such a great human being. So I think it depends on the nature of your friendship,from mpov,it's not always the end of a friendship if sex enters the equation . Hugs Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Why not, you only live once. The only no go zone for me is my son's mates haha I think he trusts me now, kinda 😉 I think I am one of your sons friends - - Shit, that counts me out
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Sawadee
6 years ago
True.. i had a similar experience. A workplace attraction that turned into a short lived affair. The girl in question was engaged at the time and close to the wedding date. I sensed she was developing deeper feelings so i had to pull back and say it how it was. She accepted that and we went on with a good working relationship. Because she was moving interstate immeadiately after her wedding ' she suggested we have a farewell dinner , i was OK with that . This was 1 week before her big day. Anyway , she wanted more than a dinner.. At the wedding , ( yes I was a guest ) she was the normal everyday happy bride enjoying her day and chatted like nothing ever happened. ? I only seen her once after that when she called into my office to say hello.. and that was it ? Havnt seen her since.. BTW.. that was about 20 years ago..
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RHP User
6 years ago
My son doesn't have any friends your age. Not sure why you would post a comment like that but please leave it at that
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