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breaking the ice for couples.

May 24 2011

this may or may not be a new question, but i guess that everyone who meets for the first time all has the moment of hesitation, as to who or how will the first move be made. the few moments of awkard silence, are tense, and certainly not what one wants to happen, but ineviatlbly it does come. i guess we are a little lucky as we have an indoor inflatable spa, so we can always suggest that, but i would be very interested knowing how other couples cope with the situation. lets presume, you met for drinks, agreed to go back to someones place and from there, after say another drink has been poured how do people overcome this shyness,. i have to admit i do get into a comfort zone and just chat and chat and just wait. hahaha so pathetic, so gentleman, always thinking of others first.

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RHP User

15 years ago

What is a indoor inflatable spa and where can I get one. God that would be funny in my small flat. Yes, I am sure it would be an ice breaker... but aren't you all naked when you get in the spa? Surely the ice has been broken when you are all standing around Stalkers... sorry I mean starkers. xx Meeka

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RHP User

15 years ago

We're really none pushy, go with the flow types so i guess usually we wait for the other couple to make the first move... are we bad bed buddies?

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jigjam

15 years ago

Been in the scene about a year now and loving it but i have to admit theses late nights are a killer, we are dairy farmers. it is sometimes almost midnight before anything raunchy gets started and to admit you dont want to rush it too much because thats half the fun and excitement. Your right on with the spa, gets everyone naked fast. I like to flirt with the female and hubby has a thing with playing with her hair. second dates are usually quicker to the action. I wouldnt mind some more tips myself.....

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jigjam

15 years ago

Not that i like tatooes but if they have any, ask to check them out but dont give them their shirt back. lol

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RHP User

15 years ago

your comment beach buddy, was exactly the problem. so if you have two couples with similar spirits, how does one make the first move without crossing a line.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I'm a bot like the beachbods.... let the host break the ice unless I sense that it's on the tip of their tongue but they're not quite sure how to go about it. the idea is to make everything easy isn't it? Nobody likes awkward moments, so when you find yourself in one... jump start out of it as quick as you can. I'm not sure that a spa pool does the trick.... I mean, that stuff gets rid of all your body oils and natural scents.. and you all end up smelling a bit odd... whereas ... natural.... is tasty! Don't get me wrong... I do like to jump in the spa... it's great for removing spanking welts off your bottom for instance... maybe it's great half time therapy. :p In any case, they're a great asset even if you never use it, it's there if you get the urge.HugsStalky

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RHP User

15 years ago

Ok we have had a few playdates so far and what has worked for us once the drinks have taken the initial butterflies away lol is a new twist on spin the bottle. Must admit this generally works better when all females involved are bi and it makes for more involvement all round. So basically you spin and the person it lands on you dare them to do something/anything to someone else in the room. Works a treat as we had a great time and really quickly the situation escalates and the bottle is no longer needed. Try it the next time see how you go cin and mik

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RHP User

15 years ago

Adult games are great for an ice breaker. There are some good ones out there like choose or lose and others that are very raunchy. People quickly forget about being shy after a couple of drinks and some laughs and a game involving body parts :-)

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'toohottonot'Adult games are great for an ice breaker. There are some good ones out there like choose or lose and others that are very raunchy. People quickly forget about being shy after a couple of drinks and some laughs and a game involving body parts :-) Absolutely even the old strip poker, swingers modified version: Girls against guys......Girls win both guys take something off with the assistance of both the girls . ........Next round swap partners same rules take something off and include touching ....... And the winners suggest what to do next!...lol Fun???? Ummmmmm time for another date wheres that date finder !!!!! PS ...Spas are OK for ensuring everthing is fresh but the water washes away the natural lubricants and they taste good!

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RHP User

15 years ago

We are very new to this as well and the posts above are very interesting... I guess truth or dare is the best suggestion so far.

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rupamohan

15 years ago

All we do is get close to own partner nd there after girls start touching each other..but I agree it is easier said then done when for some reason you are not already feeling sexy. The point is how to feel sexy enough..not so much how to cross over to other's partner.

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RHP User

14 years ago

easy when you have found another cpl who you both like, just start having a cuddle and caress with yr own partner and smile at yr new friends they'll soon pick up on that and start having fun with each other too then ......

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