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couple's profiles with no picture of him.........
July 07 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Totally agree with you on this. As a couple we would like to see pictures of the male as well and yes there has to be as physical attraction (as welll as mental). Cmon males of couples give us ladies some pics to look at! (and not old pics either please or your dick) Pusscat xx
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LeoQueen
15 years ago
Hi Sensual We know this problem well.....there are plenty of fakers who use pictures of their wifes, girlfriends (or possibly some random) without their knowledge too. Don't be afraid to call their bluff...we do. Ask for a clear recent face pic of HIM ... most of the fakers run for the hills when you ask to see their face. We even had one recently who specifically states in their (read his) profile that they have face pics in private gallery so we thought OK they might be genuine, only to find the "face pics" were one (very obscured) one of a woman and none of him. Our other tactic is to ask if, since they only have pics of the female, is the male not interested in playing?
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RHP User
15 years ago
ummm no comment cause our profile is like that.. but then who wants to look at my ugly mug lol .....
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are allways letting couples know, We like to see who we are meeting prior to meeting otherwise sorry we cant meet. We are not too interested in nude photos (but they are nice and would be gratefully recieved) but prefer face shots and general body indication. We trust the profile of others and expect others to read and trust ours. As far as attraction goes, mental or physical we dont normallly look for that, but we do have our standards some we may look at and both say no way. Or if the writing style is coarse we will say no way. But having to click and find that perfect couple, that we are instantly attracted to we think, we would be setting the goal posts way too high.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sexy_blonde007'ummm no comment cause our profile is like that.. but then who wants to look at my ugly mug lol ..... The Ladies wont go for a blind date and doubt their husbands would allow as well, suppose it depends if you want to meet or play computer games.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We will not meet if there is not a pic of both,, me (male) likes to make sure my better half is happy as am. Dont like your mug guys get over it,, this is a two way street.
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Innercircle
15 years ago
too many profiles are like that. Hence why we dont bother with them. Their loss!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
in the year or so since we started to play on here, we have learnt there are plenty of time wasters and dreamers. Now days we just ask up front for pictures of both of you before we thnk about a meet :) If they cant provide a pic or 2 of both people ,that arnt 10 years old..we move on and tell them to get back to us. Not rude just prefer not to waste our time...or theirs. For us its about all four playing..not just the girls or just the guys. So there needs to be some physical attraction between all 4. For me (Neo) it was a good chance to dress up and try some photo nights with Trinity, we help each other find our best look. Have some fun with it...dont just stand there with no clothes on and hands on hips...zzzz :>
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RHP User
15 years ago
The worst is asking for his pic and when he does send it thinking 'oh nooo, now I see why it is not there'It sucks having to reject someone without hurt feelings after that point.Whatever the male thinks of himself surely it would be better to be out there. A mental connection is important ofcourse but so is physical attraction. I need both not one or the other, yes I have rejected attractive men based on their personality.If your personality is your strong point then have your photo out there and let your personality shine through in your profiles written content, in the forums etc. Lol N&T re the nude with hands on hips....everyone has a good side and everyone has it in them to take a good pic! Creativity in this will also help no end to letting your personality shine.xx Salina
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
It seems there are so many things to say about photos that we see on here! Photos only of him, photos only of her, phots only of genitalia, crap blurry photos taken on phones, photos that are clearly showing people other than those in the profile, the list goes on ad nauseum. I agree totally with Neo and Trinity, its about all of us playing and we want to see pics of everyone. Preferably not thier genitals initally but if you don't want to post a public face photo that is ok as long as we see one in the PG. We too like to experiment with photography and have had a great time dressing or undressing and experimenting with different angles and looks. Play in itself really. What gets me though is why do people waste their time and emotional energy on looking at or complaining about photos and profiles that they don't like?? If the photo doesn't appeal to us we just say meh or WTF and move on. If people think what they put up is sexy then maybe that is what they are looking for in others profiles perhaps including those who only post photos of her.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
...funny we just posted this same response to another forum question that touched on this subject For us, one good recent facial photo is worth 100 headless nude shots....so in a nutshell... NO face photo = No meeting....NO exception!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with much above... on a similar note, i get so frustrated by couples who have a profile, provide pics, then each time you go to have a chat with them, it seems to be ALWAYS the guys chatting. Are the girls not that into it? Do they even know their man is chatting, on website, etc? I get to have fun flirting, but my man is getting a little frustrated logging on to talk to men all the time. GUYS, LET YOUR LADIES LOOSE ONLINE PLZ!!!!!!! :) Mrs 2ezee xxx
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Save your chatting for the phone instead of the anonymous hide-outs of chat rooms or msn...at least then you know the person on the other end is real!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i have this thread a fews time we have pics of both of us, we have face pics yes they are in pg for a reason, that reason being to many superficial people i have noticed at least double the people trying to contact us since putting them in PG, but same old story as soon as they see them GONE NEVER TO TALK TO US AGAIN i love all the BS comments bout personality and everything here, read it all heard it all, never seen it in action here in real life pics, judged, gone/left hanging with no reply or just never to hear from them again we try to make to make up some difference with our personality, since we are NOT the SUPERMODELS you are all LOOKing for. but we are a nice genuine couple that are after people our size or smaller (admit why do some worse) to have some great times with
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep annoys the living hell out of me. If you are a couple show your profile as a couple. I will not meet with anyone if I can't see a clear photo first. There needs to be some physical attraction. And face photos are a must does not need to be in public profile pg is fine.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
In response to Hot Horny Pair...we know what you're saying but it's human nature to be attracted or not attracted to looks! While all the other stuff about personalities etc is good & well intentioned, the bottom line is that it's what's on the outside that initially attracts one person to another. We are guilty of it...and may very well be missing out on meeting great people. We have actually met people in person at parties etc and have hit it off really well, but we know that if we would have first seen them in a profile photo we probably would not follow it up. But hey..it has also happened to us many times. We have met people at 'parties' or clubs and they say we saw you on RHP or in that magazine but we didn't write. When we ask why we are told that that we looked too 'out there' or 'wild' or even..get this..'scary' hahahaha. It's based on our looks..people see long haired rock guy & chick in leather posing with Harley & they straight away assume...druggo bikies or something..haha...couldn't be further from the truth...we're clean living, easy going gentle people. Some of these folk have now become great friends & playmates. We suppose the old saying "never judge a book by it's cover"... is really relevent in the swinging scene....but it won't change anytime soon.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i know exactly what you are saying you pics are great you are both in the HOT side of looks. so really what you have said does make sense for you guys, but to look at people of our size really is the biggest FAIL here i believe RHP need to add more options to the description section to get a better idea of people like a height and weight those to simple details really can give a great idea of the persons size
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have often spoke about this in the chat and cam rooms about profiles with one of the couple or most annoying of all no pics AT ALL. I reeeeeally can understand why they don't have pics,i mean are all adults ( well most ) are anyway, so why is it most poeple are affraid to put pics in there profiles. They don't have to be naked or paid model pics or anything just a normal everyday pics.
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RHP User
15 years ago
mmmmm, his hot lean torso, rippling arm muscles, his beautiful legs ... his firm buttocks ... his idea of being sexy and the way he dresses ... he's so shagadelic ... the colour of his eyes, skin, hair ... the lenght of his hair, so I can fantasize about just being able to pull it or simply running my hands through it ... his lips ... his smile ... {insert deep exhale here}being a straight female {but super flirtatious}, I enjoy eye candy while looking for other play mates too ;)
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