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crying with climax

January 10 2015

I am sure I have mentioned this previously on other posts, but thought I might ask opinions from other ladies why they think this happens. Last night, after seeing my FWB for the first time since before Xmas, I literally sobbed when I climaxed. The tears were flowing, and whilst this has happened numerous times before, it was never like last evening. I do have deep feelings for this man, but having said that this has happened to me many times with men I don,t have feelings for. I cant even claim this happened when I was a married woman, and my sex life was great then. Any answers people?

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RHP User

11 years ago

I have had a woman cry as she climaxes also.. She said it was good tears as she was overwhelmed with desires and lust for me and as she orgasmed she was just flooded with so much want and joy.... I had never seen or heard of this happening before. At the time I didn't know what to think, but now feel prevledged she reacted that way to me. How common is it? and would love to get an insight to what other women say about it - Posted from rhpmobile

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MissBishere

11 years ago

have never experienced this, I really have no idea except to throw out the old cliché...hormones maybe... are you normally an emotional person and a crier at other times?

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RHP User

11 years ago

Orgasms aren't just physical releases, but emotional ones too. I don't usually cry during high-stress situations, but afterwards when I'm safe and sound (and spent). Sometimes out of grief, other times pure relief. I think it's all related, and maybe that orgasm made it able for you to have the cry you'd be holding back for a while?

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RHP User

11 years ago

Woman does this regularly. She doesn't have a history of sexual satisfaction and seemingly I'm one of a select few who has the touch (for her... :) While its touching to be able to move someone's world in such a profound manner it's extremely frustrating at times as she can be so overwhelmed that she can't continue... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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RHP User

11 years ago

It's happened to me. My love for my partner was very deep, his tenderness for me was exquisite, the whole thing was wonderfully overwhelming. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

I have been party to it a number of times..... particularly when a woman has experienced her first vaginal orgasm. It appears that, as Meander has said,... its an emotional as well as physical release.....the floodgates of vulnerability being expressed. Make her feel warm, welcome, accepted.... and tell her how much you appreciate her sharing with you. Because as Burning has also said.... she may feel extremely vulnerable having such and overwhelming emotional response and having lost control in front of you in this way. DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

It's overwhelming!! It has very rarely happened before. I'm not sure why either but DG is right, it leaves me feeling very vulnerable... I've put it down to an oxytocin rush...

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RHP User

11 years ago

Call it,la petite mort.the post coital state after orgasm,the little death..It"s the short period of melancholy caused by the release of oxytocin in the brain after orgasm xx Freya

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Lovinit28andKC72

11 years ago

I've done it a few times, very extreme orgasms, with a man I'm extremely open and comfortable with...💋

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BrightBubbly

11 years ago

Quoting 'Lovinit28' I've done it a few times, very extreme orgasms, with a man I'm extremely open and comfortable with...💋 It has happened a few times, especially if I have had a particularly stressful time. The orgasm triggers a sort of release. Similar to Mea, it is an emotional as well as a physical release. The best advice I can give a guy is to hold her as she is crying, let her know it is ok to let the emotions go, be tender and gentle with her.

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RHP User

11 years ago

My man did hold me tight and made nice comments. It's not just with him though, has happened with a few guys. As some of you said, must the oxytocin. But it's such a good cry. Oh, and by the way it's usually only the first orgasm it happens with, the rest, well anything goes after that.

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RHP User

11 years ago

with some you are just connected and free to, be the after glow and comfort does it to me. Do I feel uncomfortable, never, because I had men cry too.....its a very beautiful human emotion. I think it shows you could let go and that's what it is all about, let it go be in the moment and just feel.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Has happened with me (not to me), I feel extremely privileged and moved, it's a beautiful thing. Also causes some confusion because post orgasm I giggle like a child.

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