M54
does a guys body matter?
August 09 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I saw your last profile mate the one with the Tee shirt shot as you described. Something Strange is going on, you had very white pale skin in that pic, now looking like a sun tan in winter?...maybe just the lighting eh?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing like that - called fake tan, end of a 12 week fitness challenge - so had to take a few pics to show results. Wasn't putting fake tan on my face, I would never here the end of it from the guys on a building site
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RHP User
10 years ago
SA said xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personality. Type of body doesn't matter as I like someone who can hold a decent conversation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Could be a good experiment. You can let us know if your 2 different profile pics produced different reselts, or much the same. That will give you the answer. Nice pic by the way. See how it goes for you
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RHP User
10 years ago
it's not your pics..... I believe.....your profile doesn't stand out enough..... But then again....you're not trying to appeal to me 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fabulous profile pic. Enough said .....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Kudos.... You should be very proud of your achievements ..... Hope it serves you well 😉
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Not after marriage.......Grabs my attention more than the last one
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Your post question, does a guys body matter? My personal response is going to be a no. If you look great but are intellectually vacant, we will having absolutely nothing in common. Stimulating my eyes is easy, stimulating my mind, now you need to be packing some goods, so to speak. What appeals to me in a profile is I get to see something unique in your words, something that tells me I need to get to know him more. Whether you're wearing a shirt or not, would not make any difference to me. You look awesome in your photos, bare chested or dressed, congratulations on your hard work. Good luck in your search. Mary xx
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MissBishere
10 years ago
rotate your picture.... I get a sore neck. I would say no a guys body ultimately doesn't matter. Sure I love to look at them and appreciate all the hard work, I do have a thing for muscles but I also have a thing for army men and Scotsmen. When it comes to sharing my body it's not about how they look it's about how he treats me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm sure have a six pack some where , oh yeah in the fridge . Being a ranga as well I've relied on charm Witt and my personality with a lot of humour and intelligence thrown in. I find these very useful in the power of seduction - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Op, nice tan. Nice pic. You have come out well after the 12 week challenge... Hmmm. I am quite tactile so come closer so I can touch dem muscles, hand on your nipple ring and your every word...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Naughty kitty 😘xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me a guys abs and chest are pretty low down on the list of things I find attractive in a person. I can appreciate a slick body, without being sexually attracted to it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't stink, nothing worse than BO. Apart from that each to their own in regards to what makes them hot and horny.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Answering the question in the title of the post only, I have to say yes - a person's body does matter to me. In the same way that I'm not attracted to certain personality types/characteristics/traits, I'm not attracted to certain body types.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had many bites? Of course a guys body matters. RHP is probably 100 times worse than the real world in this respect.
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RHP User
10 years ago
About body shape.height,blah blah...There just has to be that elusive connection,what is it..I have no idea,but it starts with paying attention to me...I like to listen to,but sending me onto a coma after two hours of the me,me,me..zzzzzzz..xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
A man's body shape matters to me, and I actually prefer an average size over a six-pack. As for your pics, OP, I definitely prefer the one of you in the t-shirt. A smiling face is what gets me any day, and is much more important than physique.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love to see its a smorgasbord Of different opinion's, it's what makes the world go round. I guess guys are very much driven by looks, but nothing better than chatting to a woman with a great bottle of wine, and sliding your hand up her leg as you chat
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RHP User
10 years ago
No. A genuine smile and personality mean more to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great to see so many different opinions on what people like. As for me I love an athletic body, but also love the voluptuous nature of a woman's curves. And there are so many pics of woman and couples on here that tic all those boxes
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RHP User
10 years ago
..any advertising is good advertising... Right ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I even advertise when Im not selling Jay_me. Lol. Show what you are proud of I say.Be confident and sexy. If it makes you feel good OP,get it out there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I'm honest I'm not into big muscly guys and guys that spend too much time at the gym I'm more of a face and personality girl ..nice eyes, cute face, sexy smile and average/semi athletic body is good enough for me..don't even mind a chubby stomach on a guy. I'm actually turned off by big muscles and "macho men"
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Seachange73
10 years ago
We all advertise being on the forum. Some flaunt it more than others. Nothing wrong with that Op. Got my attention. Whether that translates to anymore than a passing interest inthe forum is the question. it is up to you to convert ALL these interests/leads to close the deal. However well done. I appreciate you are more articulate than most men I have encountered on this site, with a great smile and a hot body (hubba hubba) to boot. Good.luck to you in your search.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' I even advertise when Im not selling Jay_me. Lol. Show what you are proud of I say.Be confident and sexy. If it makes you feel good OP,get it out there. Nothing more sexy than someone who knows what they have and how to get the very best out of it... Self belief is a big part of being sexy... Yes ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
A fit muscular body is great, but overworked is not so great. It sorta says to me the guy has nothing better to do but work on himself. In my experience the better the body on a male the more they feel they need admiring / worshipping. Again, just my experience. I much prefer a natural looking fit muscular guy - generally more attentive to me rather than fake tans and mirrors ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
*** Coughs *** Hi 😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has changing your profile pic made a difference? Have you got any positive feedback for us?
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RHP User
10 years ago
If we say guys bodies matter then we must of course say that it is equally so for the girls. Hot young, perfectly toned matters? Yes it does, if you are into perfection that is, What I like best is perfect on old, so much sexier than cheap easy perfect of young.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well to those wondering has a change in pic made a difference- certainly has. But in saying that a lot of window shopping I think happens( might not be everyone's cup of tea). And why is it the ones that you say wow I love the sound of that girl, couple, then see they are interstate or like me a guest. Might be time to upgrade membership, x
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RHP User
10 years ago
I gotta admit, some of the responses were encouraging to read. I've never been one to put my torso up on display because I am a little overweight (not morbidly obese, but I'm aware not everybody wants to see a belly!), and while it's something I'm working on improving it's always something I'm a bit self-conscious on. So some of the 'I don't mind a bit of a stomach' or 'eyes and faces are more important' are really encouraging to read :)
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'tradeguy' Well to those wondering has a change in pic made a difference- certainly has. But in saying that a lot of window shopping I think happens( might not be everyone's cup of tea). And why is it the ones that you say wow I love the sound of that girl, couple, then see they are interstate or like me a guest. Might be time to upgrade membership, x Yes. unfortunately, as per previous posts by others, there is a 10-1 ratio for men to women here on rhp (not sure how accurate this figure is as quoted by some). Stiff competition for you guys, regardless of how hot you look. so my recommendation is for you to get a membership so you can send a message with the women. be more proactive with your approach with women here you find interesting, as most women or couples are guests. Just the nature of the site. If you really want to meet, get upgraded. Do something about it rather than sending flirts as most of the women/couples do not even bother with flirts. This has been iterated a thousand times in sooo many forum posts before. A suggestion if you want real contacts from real people. Just shows you are keen on meeting them. Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi all, I believe a guys body shape does matter. I find there is a lot of people quite happy to pass judgement on how you look rather than getting to know you personally. Cheers snoff - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes they Matter to shallow people...Guys i Actually know tradeguy and he is an amazing genuine person And no his pics arent fake .Thats all 100% natural hard work.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
A good body is everything to me, muscle definition on men, particularly the pecs abs and arms mmm matters to me more now than it ever did, so much so i won't hook up without it. Add to that, guys over 40 get the sagginess with the skin on the chest and arms, women have the same problem, but fill the skin with muscle, happy days. For me i like the firm yet still soft and womanly, so i'm athletic but i avoid exercise that defines muscle too much, don't want big calfs for example, yuk. From my men i expect the opposite, go hard or go home haha love guys who live in the gym and look after themselves. Op why are you in Melbourne, you look amazing, yum - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Calves i meant, god i need coffee - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You will attract more interest with a good six pack pic but everyone asks for a face pic. and as for personality, that is a load of cods wallop ladies, you can not show your true personality on line so it is all about the pic... I must do that Max's 12 week challenge. I found I got lucky and had some fun times on this site due to chance and persistence.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do think both female and male should try and respect their minds and body's and if they want to attract others should learn to love and respect themselves first...then get down n dirty and enjoy each other...?Steve x
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RHP User
10 years ago
it does matter...shallow maybe but fuck it:)i agree that if you've got nothing between your ears it won't get you very far...but as far as the initial attention goes...yes a fit healthy body will draw my attention any day over an out of shape one...to me it shows some character traits as well...great bodies don't just fall out of a tree...it requires determination, focus and discipline ....congrats on your new body, you should be proud of what you have achieved!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pure attraction is of the minds. The eye-candy is the bonus. I'm not of perfect body shape, however, from what I'm told, my intelligence and respect for others upon here, and in person... "Is a breath of fresh air" Apparently many men on here have the body, but have no intelligence. (I think this works with some women as well). Fortunately, I've never had a problem in communicating with the opposite sex, a majority do tend to find me humourous, with a cheeky side. Many have over-looked the fact that I don't have a shaven six-pack, (little boy look) however, you can only wash your clothes so many times before you get bored of it... Personality over body anytime..!! Oh yeah, what's with the profiles without a face-pic..? Is your face that ugly that you have to try and compensate it with a six-pack..?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tradeguy' Well to those wondering has a change in pic made a difference- certainly has. But in saying that a lot of window shopping I think happens( might not be everyone's cup of tea). And why is it the ones that you say wow I love the sound of that girl, couple, then see they are interstate or like me a guest. Might be time to upgrade membership, x Quoting 'tradeguy' Well to those wondering has a change in pic made a difference- certainly has. But in saying that a lot of window shopping I think happens( might not be everyone's cup of tea). And why is it the ones that you say wow I love the sound of that girl, couple, then see they are interstate or like me a guest. Might be time to upgrade membership, x if I were in Melbourne, I wouldn't be window shopping, I'd be racing straight into the store. It'd be like an after Christmas sale lol god I'm sounding creepy, not hitting on you here, just having a laugh
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RHP User
10 years ago
I sure hope body doesn't matter too much as I'm just your average joe. And I can't find that old ab cruncher I found at a garage sale. lol. Happy hunting guys and girls:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweet_cherry69
10 years ago
Well if I lived closer to you in QLD or VIC would certainly catch up! Hubba bubba ! Having said that I might not have a stunning body like Elle McPherson but my wit, humour and confidence and the intelligence between my ears has always been my biggest asset to attract men and women alike 🍒 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love a guy who takes pride in their appearance - this includes their body! For me, I already have a talented, wicked, fit husband... I want to add to what I already have - so the guy has to be pretty darn special both in body and mind to end up in the bedroom with me :-) But we are all in different situations and are attracted to different things - so each to their own :-) I think you look smoking in that picture and when I see it I straight away want to drag my nails down your abs hehehe But each to their own :-) Mrs J xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr donnamick applauds that you have done what you set out to do. To some of the posts, nothing better to do than work out, not all people who go to gyms and work out do it for vanity sake. They simply enjoy working out, feeling good and the healthy and a fit body is a bonus. Some walk, run and others go to gym. Mrs dm is doing a 12,week challenge, it's about being healthy and fit, if she becomes a bit smaller that's great, because she would like that. To me she is perfect any way that makes her happy, hopefully I'm part of that equation. So, NO body shape isn't the be all and end all, personality is more important. My two cents worth, or is that five cents worth now. Cheers Mr donnamick - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
So true. Cods wallop is such a funny expression, that bought a smile. I have to add to my comment and say that the face is important too. No matter how good the body is, i have to be attracted to the face as well. I have my face pictures up now for better or worse, an overall view of the person as well as an insight into the person and what they're looking for, which can change as we evolve, is important i think - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good to see some positive and negative feedback on what everyone likes. Good luck to donnamick on the 12 week challenge, so much fun and hard work to be had, but the end result is all worth it. I_touch_myself2 your pics of both your body and face look yummy. Might have to see if I can get a job transfer to get closer to you hehe
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'donnamick' Mr donnamick applauds that you have done what you set out to do. To some of the posts, nothing better to do than work out, not all people who go to gyms and work out do it for vanity sake. They simply enjoy working out, feeling good and the healthy and a fit body is a bonus. Some walk, run and others go to gym. Mrs dm is doing a 12,week challenge, it's about being healthy and fit, if she becomes a bit smaller that's great, because she would like that. To me she is perfect any way that makes her happy, hopefully I'm part of that equation. So, NO body shape isn't the be all and end all, personality is more important. My two cents worth, or is that five cents worth now. Cheers Mr donnamick - Posted from rhpmobile Mr donnamick, I'm hoping to find a guy just like you, who loves me as I am and has my back, not meaning I'd want him to beat up anyone who treats me bad haha, but someone who will laugh with me, not at me, if you know what I mean, you do know what I mean. That's what the two of you have, a rare and very special thing. You're both very lucky to have found that
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tradeguy' Good to see some positive and negative feedback on what everyone. Good luck to donnamick on the 12 week challenge, so much fun and hard work to be had, but the end result is all worth it. I_touch_myself2 your pics of both your body and face look yummy. Might have to see if I can get a job transfer to get closer to you hehe Okay
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RHP User
10 years ago
To both my partner and I personally, yes it definitely does matter. We pride ourselves in both our bodies and appearance and try to make the effort to look good for each other as well as ourselves. (and others should they participate) so why shouldn't we expect the same of those that we may consider engaging in any sexual activities with? Everybody has different taste, that is what makes us all unique so at the end of the day as long as you are happy with your body then it shouldn't matter to anybody else what type of body a guy (or girl) has. However, do be mindful that others do care and don't take offense if they express this care or do not show interest in you. For the record though your body in your profile pic is hot so here's hoping you have that "i don't give a toss" attitude on what others think about your body at present
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PhotoFanatical' To both my partner and I personally, yes it definitely does matter. We pride ourselves in both our bodies and appearance and try to make the effort to look good for each other as well as ourselves. (and others should they participate) so why shouldn't we expect the same of those that we may consider engaging in any sexual activities with? Everybody has different taste, that is what makes us all unique so at the end of the day as long as you are happy with your body then it shouldn't matter to anybody else what type of body a guy (or girl) has. However, do be mindful that others do care and don't take offense if they express this care or do not show interest in you. For the record though your body in your profile pic is hot so here's hoping you have that "i don't give a toss" attitude on what others think about your body at present You've succeeded, at the risk of hijacking this thread, sorry op, I know I've posted way too much here, but you look incredible. I do agree though it's how you feel that's the important point, I know people with awesome bodies, that still don't embrace their inner sexy, I never used to either, now I just run with what I have, not perfect, at my age, things head south lol but still plenty to work with and I feel so good, I now forgive the imperfections
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nice body and nice personality has to go together... Plus ability to hold a conversation - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What a man does with his body is so much more exciting that just what he looks like. I've never been one to drool over it.. Strippers meh!!! But how a man holds himself and me is what is more attractive. In my opinion!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Many users would've seen two sporting euphemisms about body attractiveness in the forum before: "punching above your/my weight" and "out of your/my league." That's usually to do with men who are generally only considered of average or below average physical attractiveness trying to contact women or couples who are much slimmer, younger, fitter, etc. Those men don't often get the results they desire, because like attracts like. Generally speaking, people are attracted to partners who are approximately "as attractive" as they are. That's one of the reasons entertainment and elite athletes hook up with each other so often. Brad and Angelina, Posh and David Beckham, and so on. So if I were to follow the OP's sterling example, and transform my pudgy, pale, furry torso into the sort of body underwear models have... yes, I think I'd have more chance being considered attractive to people who are of similar good looks. (It could take longer than 12 weeks, just quietly, hahaha.) Speaking as an average trend, that is. It's not going to be true of absolutely everyone. I was also encouraged to hear some users say that they don't mind a much less muscular body on men. Because "punching above your/my weight" implies some sort of evenness among contestants, having a very classically attractive male body can alienate many women who don't think they're of a similar attractiveness themselves. E.g. "Well if that's Ken, I'm not Barbie, so I'm going to keep looking for someone I can feel comfortable with...".
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't know what everyone is going on about. Of course it matters. If you are physically hot (which you most definitely are) and you have a great smile then that's the first hurdle out of the way. Then it most definitely helps to have a personality! Personally if a profile just has the minimum, says nothing at all about who you are and won't give a face pic then it's out. Just being honest
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RHP User
10 years ago
It doesn't matter.. It's about how you make me feel when you touch me.. If your touch sets me on fire and makes me crave more of you then you can be ripped or carrying a little bit extra. I'm no supermodel myself and I actually figure the ripped looking guys wouldn't want me because they could have their choice of any hot slim girl they want.. (Just my way opinion and thought) - Posted from rhpmobile
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newyboy70
10 years ago
For my wife YES, that's the whole point for us. To have something you don't already.
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