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dumping a girl

November 13 2009

Whats the best/efficient/politically correct way of letting a girl know you are not intrested anymore?

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It don't matter what you say it's always wrong, lolBut seriously mate I don't know either, so girls, help us out,RHG

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Face-to-face in a relatively private location, so she can scream and cuss at you to her heart's content if necessary. There's no other way - if you're going to dump someone, you have to face the music.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Wot? You put it on her facebook. Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Scratch your balls as if you've got crabs, pick your nose at the most inappropriate times and consistently fart on every conceivable occasion, whilst not listening to her and talking about another girl who is a better screw, that you just happen to visit frequently. Thats the most efficient... The most politically correct is to pop bromide pills and fail to get aroused.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    More often than not, the break up in a relationship is as hard on the person ending the relationship as it is on the person being broken up with... but fortunately there's lots of tips on the internet... lmfao... Text message is the go..... Kindly choose one of these I lifted via google.... " I'm feeling tied-up with you. " " I think we have three choices: 1) stay together, 2) take a break, or 3) break up entirely, and I want 2 or 3." " I'm going to ask you nicely....LOOSE MY PHONE NUMBER! " " The sex is great, but I just don't love you." " I suppose I love you, but I'm not "in love" with you. I could never love you like I loved my ex-wife." " I love my mother more than I love you. Get your stuff and get out." " I am breaking up with you now before you get too attached to me....so I am doing you a sort of favor, aren't I? " " Don't bother coming over tomorrow night because I don't wanna see you anymore." " I need some time to find myself. " " Do you think my old girlfriend still likes me? " " Because I am not in love, I don't think I can make love to you anymore." " My new boyfriend told me that it just wasn't working out between you and me. "   hugs Gaz

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    three simple words my friend "i am gay"   thank you homer simpson, some reference to david hasselhoff or a phone screen saver of some guys penis, should be convincing enough

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Just be honest, it's going to hurt her no matter what and if it was me, would prefer a face to face, not text/facebook/email - that's just rude.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Saying you will call...then don't.   If she has been honest with you and shown you respect. Have  some respect and deceny to her..FFFSSSSSS....   Face to face is the only way..If that is not possible due to work or distance. Then call.!!!    Now I don't know about other women..But what is the crap about you guys getting your head screamed off by a girl..   I never have done that and never will..I just listen and accept..... if it is not ment to be...I have a lil cry talk to my friends for a lil support and then go kick the punching bag..lol...or ride my bicycle.....Or do what I am doing today..Go mad with housecleaning and then getting dressed up and take my son out to dinner..He makes an awesome date..   Yerr.. It hurts..But if the feeling is not mutual...Then you just got to accept it..   sighhh...sweetpetite41<< Thinks thank gwaddd..I got my Taekwondo to let off steam..hahhahaha..   Do the right thing everyone.   love to all oxoxoxoxoxo

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    you cheeky little shit :-) turn your mobile on so i can test  my new weapon... btw, i tho u liked Tam...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'gohkm' Face-to-face in a relatively private location, so she can scream and cuss at you to her heart's content if necessary. There's no other way - if you're going to dump someone, you have to face the music.  Well said gohkm!littlepanda, if you were the one being dumped, by a chick you really liked - how would you like her to do it?  That might be a place to start ...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    No......that shows you have no balls to even tell that person face to face. Disrespectful.....no excuses.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It's the only way to do it, fair for all parties involved.  Anything else is cowardly.If something's too difficult to tell them in person, then perhaps write a letter, as that's more formal than an email/sms, but then I'd always follow it up with a meeting and apology.You've got to think about the other persons feelings, not just your own.  They could well be in love with you, and they deserve to be told the truth on a personal level.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    the best policy, imagine the shoe was on the other foot! just think what you would want to happen and if she has fallen for you hard let her have time to deal with the heart break cheers mrs funcouplefun

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Full Frontal - Fabio's Love Tips #7the best tips for breaking up with a girl.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    1. (unrealistic)-  as brief as possible, but not too nasty followed by her organizing 2 of her slutty friends to come over and fuck me ; now that would be nice..:-) 2.  (preferable) - if i really liked her- by telling me and then smashing me with a basball bat so physical pain would help me forget for a while 3. Trish. Its not you , its me.. :-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i was really intrested, but Tam gave me $20 to keep clear and you know how it is- a deal is a deal... :-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hold her by both hands...and be honest...ya could say that ya have a wonderful time and experience with her...but ya feel that the time has come for ya both to continue your onward journey of exploration ...with other people.just a thought

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Dear Resident, The time we spent together, however long it was, meant the world to me. I would love to see you again but unfortunately I cannot. You see, I am a ghost. I can only materialize once every decade, on the anniversary of my death. I chose to spend my one day among the living with you, sweet resident. Perhaps we will meet again, in another decade--provided you keep your figure. Until then, all my love from the beyond, Barney.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    wow...so much thought and effort put into these posts...when she probably doesn't actually care as much as you thought she would....yeah... hey....thanks anyway dude..... NEXT!!!! :P LOL

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Soph, I pity the guy looking to dump you (as if that would happen anyway)   Trish...Tam only paid us $10..obviously we're not as much of a threat as panda.   PS - Trish, can you list these 69 positions..i'm intrigued   Trev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    if you piss them off enough, they'll dump you. problem solved!   throw away half of every pair of shoes they own. cut the crotch out of all their underwear... let down their car tyres.   or do what Gaz suggested and just update your facebook status. nothing cuts the cord like seeing "Littlepanda is no longer listed as 'in a relationship'. "   any of that should work. hope ive been helpful ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    True I guess, I automatically assumed that the scenario involved the girl having feelings for you, rather than it just being a casual thing.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hollowpomp...well that is a hollow pompas arse post..   harley85..on ya bike ya outter here......Gaz don't encourage the boys...lmao!!!!!   .ohh..and.......ROFLMAO at lovely sophie..Babe I have to agree with cause  we were under the assumption that the girl cares about the guy..LOL...   Funny as..   kisses sweetpetite41...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Its a quote from a tv show that I find really funny. the role is played by dougie houser as well.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    But Hollowpomp....he is the most beautiful man in all the cosmos thou.he could can do anything to perfection...in his own mind....lmao

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i guess its 'play it nice' if talking longterm how about short fling- gloves off? gee, that could be nasty...lol ; better to be the arshole then i suppose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I knew you were joking..lol..   I don't watch TV  hardly..So ya have to forgive me if I don't know that quote..lol.   Does this mean I get a pently and have to watch that show?  lol..   silly kisses   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'heymumma' But Hollowpomp....he is the most beautiful man in all the cosmos thou.he could can do anything to perfection...in his own mind....lmao everything BUT complete a rollercoaster ride without incident