M34
eating a woman out
May 13 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
well every women i go down on says to me that they love the way i eat pussy and i do it well ,i think its just a matter of knowing wen it s time to flick it hard n fast or slow circles around her clit . to get best resualts throw 2 fingers in at the same time women love to be fingered all the time .reply back to my coment pls
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think the first step would be, make the woman feel you realy want her. Then you have to watch her face and body expression. Each person likes it different, same as you males. You have your technic whith your dick we with our clit and vagina. And as you will find out practise makes a master. Read up on a womens anatomy and you will be one. The most and best orgasms I have are with men I can feel like women very much....you just can feel it. This is a good explanation too. 4. Men assume that if they’re ready for sex, she’s ready for sex. The male and female sexual systems are different: men get aroused much quicker; women take time. Just because he’s ready for sex doesn’t mean she is! This is the single, biggest mistake even experienced male lovers make. They underestimate how long women take to orgasm. The statistic most cited for oral sex (which is the fastest, most direct route) is 20 minutes. Most men can climax in about two minutes! And not just that, we need time to get warmed up for sex so we’re physically prepared for it. Foreplay isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity! : Guys cycle very quickly through the process of arousal. A guy experiences a sexual moment and presto! He’s ready for sex. There’s an instant connection between arousal and the desire for sex, and guys assume that women are experiencing the same thing. So to all the guys: Take your assumptions, add 15 minutes of foreplay.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think most important here is you have to enjoy what you're doing, and you need to be able to communicate to your partner that there's nothing you want right more at this very minute than to bury your face in her snatch. A lot of women, especially when younger, have a bit of an issue with cunnilingus, due to being self-consious about how it looks etc. Guys know women don't have bleach lasered posrn star cunts, but inexperienced women don't realise the difference in the appearance of the vulva.Not all women will be comfortable saying "to the left a bit more", "that there, what you're doing now, don't stop" so you need to be aware of non-verbal cues, especially as it seems nearly every woman is different in what they like (and every vagina is different in it's external physiology too).So, be aware of hip thrusting in your face, trying to get your tongue to one side or the other, or if she's trying to get your tongue inside her or on her clit. Slight pressure with her fingers on your head directing you is also something else you can watch out for. Also keep an ear on her moans... shallower breathing can indicate you're doing doing something very right, a big sigh might mean you were doing something right and then stopped (sad face). Personally I'm a fan of long, broad strokes up and down, and then as my excitement levels increase, sustained clit stimulation on thetop left hand side of clit.
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RHP User
14 years ago
As the heading says, just love what you're doing. Oral sex, both giving and receiving is an amazing part of a healthy sex life. Maybe you are overthinking things a little though by wanting to become a pro at it? I think if you focused at becoming a pro of making the woman you are with feel like an utter goddess, desired, wanted, appreciated etc the rest falls into place naturally. Enthusiasm goes a long way too! Don't be too tentative. Make sure she is in a comfortable position and you've made her feel nice and relaxed with heaps of kissing, cuddling, touching and teasing. It can be a fairly vulnerable position to be in for a woman, spread wide open like a buffet in front of someone lol! And maybe don't just get your head down there and forget about the rest of her! Its nice when the whole experience is connected, so while you're getting an amazing pussy licking the guy is also maybe fondling with your boobs or lazily exploring your body with his free hand. I say free hand by the way because mmm it is so nice to have not just mouth and tongue involved but fingers too. And who wouldn't love to hear about how divine they taste or how wet they are or how pretty their pussy is. So indulge in some sexy talk, give her feedback, listen to hers. If it gets uncomfortable she'll probably try and wriggle away or close her legs. Or maybe you've just found a very, very sensitive spot. My personal tips would be to make sure you don't accidentally hurt your woman so keep your fingernails nice and short and manicured, make sure you are freshly shaven or your facial hair is soft (otherwise the feeling is like gravel rash on your pussy and it is horrible) and keep her whole body in play by either choosing a position in which you are closer (ie not just between her thighs) or using your free hand to maintain contact. Give all of her pussy lots of love and attention, don't just focus on her clit, because that can get very, very sensitive. If she's obviously enjoying what you are doing and starting to move in rhythm with you for god's sake don't stop lol! As for speed, I'd start off really slow and sexy. Lots of long lazy licks, teasing, rolling your tongue around, dipping it in and out of her pussy, treat the whole thing as a sensual lesson in how to please that particular woman orally. Whoops, only meant to write one or two points, anyway, hope some of this helps! Mrs FL xxx PS - you know giving/getting great head is pretty much the same as giving/getting great pussy "eating". Just remember what you like when a woman starts orally pleasuring you, think about the turn-ons, is it the noises she makes, the enthusiasm, the wet sloppy sounds, the things she does with her hands as well? Good luck!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Number one, make sure you know where the clit is! LOL in all seriousness though, I think it's different for everyone so take note of her body language or ask her if the speed/pressure is good. Eye contact is always good, as is a bit of teasing. Also, if you slip the finger inside, angle it to stroke the front internal wall. That will drive some girls wild.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Alzie,your technique does it for me....klokar I think it is amazing that you want to pay so much attention, to pleasing your partner.Some men are only interested in going through the motions until it is their turn. Practice makes perfect.x Hugs H
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
Some don't. I don't. The problem for me is too many guys (and girls!) go for the clit too soon. I have yet to find somebody who can rub my clit with just the right pressure - too much and it just hurts, too little... well, nobody has rubbed it too little. They are all inclined to go too hard and way too soon.The real key here is, "know your lady". Ask her what she wants, ask her to guide you. Reassure her that you wont be offended if she asks you to do something differently (something I am always afraid of).HTHCheers,MS
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RHP User
14 years ago
All of the above, especially the pressure and the teasing aspect. But also important is the position she is in. Some ladies prefer to be on their back, or their side, standing or sitting on her guy's face. Each position offers a different kind of stimulation (for me at least) but I find it really hard to climax upright - though it feels awesome. Find out what position she is most comfortable in and 'listen' to her body. Make it clear you are happy to take instruction; good communication is the key to being a great lover.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr' I think most important here is you have to enjoy what you're doing, and you need to be able to communicate to your partner that there's nothing you want right more at this very minute than to bury your face in her snatch. A lot of women, especially when younger, have a bit of an issue with cunnilingus, due to being self-consious about how it looks etc. Guys know women don't have bleach lasered posrn star cunts, but inexperienced women don't realise the difference in the appearance of the vulva.Not all women will be comfortable saying "to the left a bit more", "that there, what you're doing now, don't stop" so you need to be aware of non-verbal cues, especially as it seems nearly every woman is different in what they like (and every vagina is different in it's external physiology too).So, be aware of hip thrusting in your face, trying to get your tongue to one side or the other, or if she's trying to get your tongue inside her or on her clit. Slight pressure with her fingers on your head directing you is also something else you can watch out for. Also keep an ear on her moans... shallower breathing can indicate you're doing doing something very right, a big sigh might mean you were doing something right and then stopped (sad face). Personally I'm a fan of long, broad strokes up and down, and then as my excitement levels increase, sustained clit stimulation on thetop left hand side of clit. i like this tip allot, thank you for the help
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ForeverLovers' As the heading says, just love what you're doing. Oral sex, both giving and receiving is an amazing part of a healthy sex life. Maybe you are overthinking things a little though by wanting to become a pro at it? I think if you focused at becoming a pro of making the woman you are with feel like an utter goddess, desired, wanted, appreciated etc the rest falls into place naturally. Enthusiasm goes a long way too! Don't be too tentative. Make sure she is in a comfortable position and you've made her feel nice and relaxed with heaps of kissing, cuddling, touching and teasing. It can be a fairly vulnerable position to be in for a woman, spread wide open like a buffet in front of someone lol! And maybe don't just get your head down there and forget about the rest of her! Its nice when the whole experience is connected, so while you're getting an amazing pussy licking the guy is also maybe fondling with your boobs or lazily exploring your body with his free hand. I say free hand by the way because mmm it is so nice to have not just mouth and tongue involved but fingers too. And who wouldn't love to hear about how divine they taste or how wet they are or how pretty their pussy is. So indulge in some sexy talk, give her feedback, listen to hers. If it gets uncomfortable she'll probably try and wriggle away or close her legs. Or maybe you've just found a very, very sensitive spot. My personal tips would be to make sure you don't accidentally hurt your woman so keep your fingernails nice and short and manicured, make sure you are freshly shaven or your facial hair is soft (otherwise the feeling is like gravel rash on your pussy and it is horrible) and keep her whole body in play by either choosing a position in which you are closer (ie not just between her thighs) or using your free hand to maintain contact. Give all of her pussy lots of love and attention, don't just focus on her clit, because that can get very, very sensitive. If she's obviously enjoying what you are doing and starting to move in rhythm with you for god's sake don't stop lol! As for speed, I'd start off really slow and sexy. Lots of long lazy licks, teasing, rolling your tongue around, dipping it in and out of her pussy, treat the whole thing as a sensual lesson in how to please that particular woman orally. Whoops, only meant to write one or two points, anyway, hope some of this helps! Mrs FL xxx PS - you know giving/getting great head is pretty much the same as giving/getting great pussy "eating". Just remember what you like when a woman starts orally pleasuring you, think about the turn-ons, is it the noises she makes, the enthusiasm, the wet sloppy sounds, the things she does with her hands as well? Good luck! oh no, dont let me stop you, the more tips the better, im mostly just dove into it licking like a mad dog, worked for a bit but thats just what i saw on porn, not a great indicator of real life fucking lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Simply be the fact that you love being there!!! No technique will overcome that fundamental fact!!!Each of us is different so I suggest with all partners, practice, practice, practice!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' whats dehooding?
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RHP User
14 years ago
dehooding
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RHP User
14 years ago
the tongue dehooding the clit. Whoa nibble never goes astray either... hey Tamrock lol Quoting 'klokar' Quoting 'inspirit' whats dehooding?
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RHP User
14 years ago
hot tip #1 all women are different.....what works with one, may not work with the next 5 you meet........... #2 you'll never be a pro because.......all women are different.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Okay, so that term in itself really iritates me. I think alot of guys really have the wrong idea and take to the clit as if they were eating a hamburger. And as the OP said " I just mostly dove into it licking it like a mad dog" ...unfortunately you are definitely not alone and alot of guys tend to do this and i think it comes back to the term 'eating" whereas it should be called "licking" or "teasing". I'm with MS_Geek in that I have found it very hard to find a guy that will start slow enough to get me going... mostly they dive in for the kill which desensitises me straight away... even if I push my hips down ( ie for them to go lighter) they don't seem to notice. I would say some of the best advice here is to just ask... and don't ask right in the heat of the moment...try and ask your potential partner/playmate beforehand what they like so that you have some idea....communication is key.... and I say don't go for the clit hard until shes pushing her hips into your face!!! Circular motions around the clitoris ( starting so SO SO softly and slowly) then building up with pace and intensity then finally BANG on the clitoris is what works for me.. but as others have said what works for one will not be what works for all. Another good idea is to watch how your partner/playmate masturbates and then ditto that with your tongue. Best of luck :) xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is the best teacher. Go fleur :D Also agree with fleur and MS on technique; quite frankly, no guy has ever made me orgasm with tongue alone, and if I ever find He Who Does, I will keep him, I swear!!!! Gentle... tease... build up... Autokill if you dive straight for the clit. If I bit your foreskin before you were hard, would you be impressed?!? (masochists need not answer). *ahem* suffice to say, I agree with all previous posts, and add this: if all else fails, pay attention to how she goes down on *you*. If she's a hard'n'fast gal, best bet is to reciprocate. If she's a teaser; likewise :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
Vagabonde, Will loan you my guy then, he can do that. ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
we've met guys who proclaimed themselves experts at this, but later, the response was something like 'wtf was that?' everyone is different, everyone feels and likes different things. you have to read body language and responses and ask questions every time, or its just not gonna work...making the assumption that you know what she likes...or doesnt like, wont win you any medals, it'll just open you up to failure.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Taake your time and take direction. Some girls will happily tell you where to go and what to do but with others, you will need to be concious of their reactions to different techniques.
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