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gang bangs
October 06 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most women ... we would have to say would be more the fantasy than for the real gangbang. Most women who have it stated in their profile .. if they did go ahead may think of 3-5 guys .. and it would be just them + the guys and no one else. We have found that for the profiles that state gangbang in their profiles (on here and on so many other sites) ... we have msgd them .. and you either never hear back from them ... or if you do .. they will make some excuse as to why they cant attend. .... so for that we know it is fantasy only. Most would think of a gangbang .. in the same breathe as an orgy .. when actually they are totally different. So in the end ... it would be ... who are the reals ones up for it ... or who are the ones who only fantasize about it.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
So, any girl that isn't interested in you or doesn't respond isn't really after it? that's a really arrogant position to take,
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RHP User
16 years ago
how presumptious and judgemental of you to think that i propersition every woman on here who lists that as an interest.i have more than that in mind when i view a profile.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thought that was rather a big assumption to make too.I've read a couple of your posts lately partyinsatiable and the terms I heard you describe on one of your posts, where the women don't get to pick and choose the men they play with would not suit me as I believe it is my right to say no to any man I want at anytime including during the act. The only way I would consider it safe to play... Consequently I would not be one to respond positively if you had sent us an invitation, if I had my very real desire to participate in a gang bang displayed on our profile. CheersMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think the fantasy is one thing For many women, but not feeling safe enough during a gang bang is the burden that prevents it in reality. To immerse yourself in the moment you have to feel safe... and trust the participants, otherwise I think you can't really relax, let go and enjoy yourself. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Exactly Peachy. . Why have some one tell ya who ya doing, when ya have so many other ways to choose ya own. Isn't the whole thing about everyone have a pleasurable experience, amongst CONSENTING adults.
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes i agree the assumptions of partyinstiable are bordering on arragant. "most women......." how can they assume to know what most women want/think/desire/do?! Me, i can only speak for me. yes I very much enjoy gangbangs. I also enjoy other things mentioned in my profile but that does not mean i go with any/every TOMDICKHARRY. I do have my own likes and dislikes. I would not be interested in every GB, nor every party or person. And Burg69 to answer one of ur qst. sometimes I think it might be DETRACT not atract some males. Some men prefer NOT to share. So i just say what i like honestly and leave it at that. thanks. LL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Peachy & Miss Honey.... partyinsatiable DID clarify that statement and expand and give an explanation and absolutely clarified that at their parties the women can always say no or change their minds at any time. On their website the first rule is "No means NO. If you are refused sex by somebody, accept it and move on without complaint or argument " The reason I asked for the initial clarification was because this wan't clear to me. Partyinsatiable answered perfectly. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Gangbangs-are-boring-25025
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RHP User
16 years ago
.... from reading their website... it sounds like their parties are one of the safer, more controlled environments to endulge in this fantasy!! their website is well written, well explained and fascinating to read, even for someone without a gangbang fantasy (that's me lol) http://www.partyinsatiable.net/home.htm
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RHP User
16 years ago
Finks we have been told Ms Peachy! In BOLD letters too. Meh what is on a website and what a person says two different things, personally I wouldnt have the confidence in it, because it was said. Anyone could have written what was on the website, or even copied from somewhere. Partyinsatiable does not give me the impression that the females comfort in the situation etc is a high consideration going by what he has written. More the guys pleasure. Just because a female says no about not wanting to participate, does not necessarily mean that she is not interested, it means her schedule does not match yours. Females do have families, kids, jobs etc yanno and not just sitting there waiting for someone to invite them to a gang bang. It is a personal peeve of mine when ppl expect others to jump coz they are ready, and there is no consideration for what they have going on in their life. Disrespectful! In the words of Pink " I am not here for your entertainment!" Sorry Burg finks we got off your topic. In response to you. I don't think Jen or Peachy were referring to you, well I didnt read it that way. Girls may put it on their profile but some may not have participated in it yet, and it may be more of a to do list. Most need to be comfortable in their surroundings and who they are with. It may also mean that they would not think of doing it at a club or organised event, but may do it when say an opportunity arises say at a party where they are amongst friends and feel safe, and comfortable. It may be something that they are researching as well, like going to clubs and watching some to see if it is them or not or talk to the ones that do participate and hear their experiences. If they put it on their list today, and do it next month, next year, or never, that will be entirely their decision, perhaps one or two of the other things on their to do list is taking up more of their sexy time and they are content with that, doesnt mean that they are not interested in it still, just the timing etc is not right for them. My opinion and Missy is bloody well entitled to it!. xx Miss Honey xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wait.. Miss HOney... you mean to say that partyinsatiable is just another bloke?? Oh man, Ive lost all respect for her now. :p And I thought we were getting on so well... I thought I'd hit the wet spot! :) HUgs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
To Sophie_74. Thankyou .. its hard to clarify so many things when writing a post such as this. Some totally misinterpret the words one has written. But as you have pointed out .. our website spells out everything... so many parties dont have websites. JenGirl. We send out msgs to people that have gangbang in their profile. When they respond back .. and then it is email pingpong ... then they make up the excuse that date didnt suit and they would get back to us .. and you dont hear again.... hence FANTASY .. rather than real. If people are interested in a SAFE gangbang.... go to a venue.. rather than trying to organise one yourself .. unless you know the people who would participate in the GB. Our parties are safe.... everyone guys MUST wear a condom (unless it is your own partner who is also playing with you at that particular time). Our GB's are held in only ONE room ... which makes it even safer. XXMiss_HoneyXX: If a women at our parties says NO to a certain thing ... ie: anal on that night ... the guys respect what she says .. and they do not progress from there. What is written on our website ...is from the guy who started up the parties..... they are HIS own words ... he has been in the scene for a long time ... and you will find no other website with OUR words .... he has not copied nor pasted from any site... BUT others have done it from ours ... we wont name names.... they know who they are.... and we take that as flattery.. because they have tried to copy our concept of the party scene. Trust us ... we have ears and eyes everywhere for the amount of people who have been many times and if something occurs - done by a male and the women was not happy about it ... words are quitely said to the male concerned. all I said at the beginning ... is most women will have it as a fantasy ..rather than to really participate in a Gangbang ... and age also has a lot to do with it as well. Each to their own ... and no one is ever forced or made to attend our parties.... they come along and participate because they want to ... nothing more... nothing less.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't make me spank ya bot wiv da ruler Gaz. Ya spanner. And don't hug me I know where ya hands were this morning xx Miss Honey xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just to clarify I was talking to partyinsatiable and I totally agree with Peachy & Miss Honey
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RHP User
16 years ago
I apologize if what I wrote came of as critisizing you or Peachy, that wasn't my intention. At all. And I have no comments regarding anything else partyinsaitable write. I was only trying to clarify that the one statement that Peachy mentions was expanded on and that they responded to me that everything they do is among consenting adults. I initially had the same problems with their comments as you and that's why I asked them to expand. Of course it's your right to have an opinion. I wasn't attacking that... or you!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Awwwhh Sophie.. it doesnt seem like you are the kind of person to attack anyone unless in self defence. :p Speaking of which... do you wanna have that wrestle now? I nearly got the tag team sorted. :p... but apparently miss_honey doesnt wanna be on my team cause she thinks my fingers might still be a little bit sticky... hehe... lube seems to be everywhere toda lolz.. but I had a shower since then, I promise! Hugs Gazzy
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm really carefull after some bad meets, specially with couples which is so big a pain coz you'd think theyd be nicer & safer ..... Was recently asked if i was interested in a GB. They promised all care and attention would b taken. I've been tempted so said OK if it was at a nice hotel and other chix would also b there as promised but I wanted a pic of every guy coming and a contact phone number. Never heard back from them!
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RHP User
16 years ago
you're sweet... but now I'm worried that Miss Honey doesn't want me on her team anymore either... and that makes me sad.. because everyone on here knows I like the funny smart girls, much better than the nasty, awful gang banging boys lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I haven't read anything past Sophie's post where she included the link to the post I was referring to in my first post... and I copied and pasted the bit I was referring to at the bottom... I have no issue with the way partyinsatiable run their parties but it is not for me as I said cos I don't agree with their terms which is the point I was making as to why I wouldn't respond positively to their message if they had sent one to us one. It was simply in answer to their assumption that girls that didn't respond positively weren't serious. That may not be the case and I am the example I put forward. Quoting partyinsatiable from @ http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Gangbangs-are-boring-25025: The women who attend our parties know exactly what they are about ... other wise they just dont attend. Its that simple . It is a smorgasboard for the guys .... for the women who are attending our parties .. the guys can play with as many as they want to ... yes we say No if there is something a women does not want to do on the night of the party ...CheersMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Missy was right, I wasn't referring to you... my apologies!... Now in direct answer to your question...I think a gangbang can be quite a daunting prospect as well as being very exciting lol. We don't have it on our profile cos it isn't high on our list of priorities... we feel we have plenty to explore at the moment just adding another to our play lolol not to say we wouldn't take the opportunity if arose .I'm sure some have it on their profile to attract attention considering there are those that have PROFILES JUST to attract attention considering they have no intention of ever really playing with anyone. Then there are the completely fake profiles of course where nothing is the truth.I don't think it is likely any 'lady' that is just using it as a marketing ploy is gonna admit it here tho, but someone by all means prove me wrong! I'd love to hear it cos I'm sure at least one of you will read this... Other than that I'm sure there are many girls that are sincere about their desire to participate in a gangbang. Considering you say in your profile that you are experienced in gangbangs, I'm sure you realise the safety issue is important to us gals.The spur of the moment at a party possibility suggested by Miss Honey sounds more likely to me (than a planned event where I get plenty of chance to work up nerves lol) where I imagine the atmosphere, people and desire combining to provide the perfect environment for such sport Good luck with your searchI most sincerely hope it works out in the best possible way for you...Cheers n hugsMrs Peachy
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am to agree with Gaz....Feeling safe is the key! Society stigma that you might feel like a whore for wanting a gangbang plays a part on a womans thoughts...Knowing you will truely be safe..If you do it, will you relax to enjoy it... Just my thoughts.. kisses sweetpetite41 xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
ihave to agree wih the safety/ intimidation issue raised by some of you being a man at these things ive neva felt vunerable but now i think of it i can see how it might put a woman who is contemplating being the center of attention off. as for the stigma that sweetpetite talked about thats the difference between `US` and `THEM` sort of issue. Ive been in relationships where watching my partner enjoy the attentions of several men as well as I has never been a problem for either of us, but she had to think differently than i because in her profession knowledge of her acting out her desires would have resulted in serious consequences regarding her future carreer. I see it as almost like racism those that havent come to terms with their sexuality seem to try hard to demeen those of us who have evolved psycologicly past the point of `sex is love` and enjoy the things these narrowminded people abhor in public yet masturbate about it in private and feel ashamed and guilty of after lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
then they make up the excuse that date didnt suit and they would get back to us .. and you dont hear again.... hence FANTASY .. rather than real.Perhaps they're just being polite?, personally it would the the age range that would put me off.Pesonally I have done it with guys I know but meeting one guy off the internet is daunting for me let alone a group of them, especially since a lot of the messages I get from groups seem to be intetionally vauge.
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RHP User
16 years ago
sweet petite you are very cute
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RHP User
16 years ago
im real jengirl
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RHP User
16 years ago
cant you girls stick to the question? people have opinions...thats what forums are for we all like to say what we think...we DONT expect to be critisized for each word.. we dont expect everyone to agree with what we write...but thats fine too. Yes i think gand bangs are more a fantasy for girls...we've seem a few..and the girls seem to love it.. But many girls we know and have chatted too, have trouble getting past the "slutty feeling" to get to the relaxed enjoying feeling.. Depends on your outlook i guess
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RHP User
16 years ago
Neo Blaze... thankyou for what you said.... it seems that if you write anything regarding any topic .... you get blasted for having your own personal opinion & then it goes off on a tangent. We never make the females who attend our parties feel sluttish what so ever.... they attend our gangbang parties because they want to ... end of story .... if they are not interested in a gangbang ... honestly why have it written in their profile to begin with. JenGirl.... its the age of the women who attend our parties that know EXACTLY what they wish to do. Of all the women who attend... 98% would be with their partners/husbands also there.... and yes our parties are for people who are 35-55 ONLY... because that is the age of the people who run it. - and we msg or respond to people who are ONLY within our age range.....that state that this is what they are seeking. For me ... I am a female writing this (and all the other posts) ..... one of the organisers..... NOT the guy who started up the parties ... but he is now my partner.... we started up these parties with 3 other people (nearly 4 years ago)..... and have been very successful ... as there was really nothing in this age group around for this type of party - similar was B.O.B.W.'s. Its an individuals choice to attend or not..... its also an individuals right to say what they think on a topic without bagging out someone else. Our parties are TOTALLY safe, sexually and personally .... ALWAYS... no means no .... and if you dont want to participate in a gangbang .. then you just dont go to a party like ours or any other one that is happening .... its that plain and simple.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Neoblaze, agree with what you have said up to point. I held my own parties on a monthly basis for the best part of 4 years. The numbers of guys that turned up varied from 8 to 19 on one occasion. I advertised through here and one other place. They were held in a private house, not mine, and there was always 2 men i knew there. I DID NOT invite everyone who asked, not based on their looks but more on their attitude. Despite doing all these parties i still do not like the attitude of some guys who make you feel sluttish and so i tried to ensure such guys did not get an invite. i corresponded with each and eveyone and i could usually tell from what they wrote. What i do take issue with on this forum PARTYINSATIABLE is that in my opinion, females should still have the right to choose with whom they play. Even now I could not go to someone elses gangbang. I have tried on many occasions and i have just come away feeling bad about myself because of the attitude of some guys. It is not that they are rough or anything like that, it is just their attitude. I know you are not going to change your house rules or anything, I am just stating my opinion as a seasoned gangbanger
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RHP User
16 years ago
So if you hold a party and you have say 5 females and 25 guys, is every female expected to play with all the guys?? and what happens if after say an hour you have had enough, are you allowed to stop playing?? We aren't all machines here to be abused!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
To Desserts: If a women wants to play all night she can .... if she wants to play for just an hour she can. Its up to her... and its the same for the guys as well. If the guys want to play with all the women they can ... so in answer to your question ... would she play with all the guys .... most of the time it would be a YES... BUT please remember .. that this is how OUR party is ... a lot of other parties are not like ours. But please remember that OUR parties yes are so different from most parties around.... We dont screen nor judge people for body shape, size, race etc. But they must read our website to understand what our parties are all about. If people wanted to pick and chose for whom they wish to play with ... you would actually rule out about 75% of the people attending our parties....or they wouldnt be allowed to actually attend - due to some restrictions put upon body size etc... Yes each parties are different ... some parties are females and couples only ... some are females, couples and limited single guys ..... etc..... yes we have a ratio of 5:1 - its the way our parties have always been. Our last party we had 8 women, 40 guys ..... all shapes and sizes of both Men and women attending..... Before anyone comes along .. they know exactly what our parties are all about - because of our website.. and if they dont agree or like what they read.... then they just dont attend - its that simple.... we dont make anyone attend... but our main rule is .. if you attend you play ... Other parties are different to ours.... there are a lot to chose from ... its a personal choice.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I probably misunderstood what is being said partyinsatiable... but I wouldn't want to take any part in a gangbang where a woman wasn't empowered to say whether she wanted a particular individual to fuck her or not. Even if it was in a gangbang party situation... I mean I know the "no means no rule" but even though women can say no, I would have thought that they have to be in an environment where they are confident that saying no will be accepted and suported without ridicule or argument. Well on that basis, actually I would take part in such a gang bang... I'd stand there and do whatever I could physically do to defend her right to choose. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Partyinsatiable, appreciate your reply and i realised why the rule was made, i.e so that no one misses out on playing, and i also realise you are hardly going to change your rules on what I or anyone else says here, however in my opinion I do think that a woman should be able to say for various reasons, which have nothing to do with the guy's appearance. E.G what if half way through playing the guy is a bit rough, surely she should be able to say no, or what if she gets sore and tired!! You are aiming your parties at the slightly older age group and as fit as i would like to try and keep myself, at the end of the day I for example do have a bad back, and yes, the old arthritic joints have appeared and i know from speaking to my gf's, all of whom do quite a reasonable amount of exercise, we are all starting to suffer the same problems. And you may say that rough guys do not attend, but my idea of rough is probably different from most others. I know we have gotten well and truly off the original idea of this post, however I think that these ideas need to be addressed. It seems as though the females should be happy as long as they have someone's c... up them when that is really hardly the point I would have thought Just my thoughts anyway.XX
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RHP User
16 years ago
Above post should have read "able to say no for various reasons etc"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gaz yup ya musta been being a bloke with the other comment ya made and now ya see it *rolls eyes*. Neo we are on the topic if you read the thread. I think the main point of the issue here is the girls feeling safe, comfortable, and secure in that sort of environment and why some are hesitant to try it, because they do not have the confidence in either the organsiser or the attendees, and therefore as I suggested to Burg, it is more likely that if they do go down that route it would probably be amongst friends. PI's comments constantly seem to contradict something he has already said here or in other posts and his website. Perhaps he does not proof read what he writes, and some have picked him up on it. And this is the PROOF, to the whole discussion. Now if we can pick up on some inconsistencies in a thread, how would it be if this was at an event. No woman wants to attend and find out that oh we didnt mean it that way. Yeah ya can say no, but... I expect most would be that nervous to the point of almost feeling sick the first time..how humiliating and awkard would a female feel if this was to happen attending such an event. Or on the other hand how do you know these people are real, could be a complete lunatic someone is corresponding with on the other end. This is why someone may get the red flag and send back a no thanks. This is not saying this will happen at your event PI, I am using you as an example of how a female may feel just through corresponding with an organiser/profile and how she may change her mind if she does not feel comfortable by what was said. Perhaps that is why some have given you an excuse, if you believe it was not for the reason they gave. Perhaps they did not get the warm fuzzy feeling bout it all. I am sure your events are safe and you screen all including the ladies and that you have the necessary things in place to ensure the safety of all or your a complete dill! In relation to ANY sexual activity, it is the initial correspondence/conversation that will give any sane person any clues to a avoid a situations that may put their safety at risk or make them feel ashamed or disgusted with oneself. More rant: ALL organised types of sexual meets whether gang bangs, clubs etc, have a duty of care to ALL attendees and to enforce the 'no means no' rule or suffer the consequences of the law for ALL involved. Humiliation or abuse suffered because some one has said no even if only mental still is an offence under the criminal act and may carry indecent assualt or act of indecency penalties varying in different states, and this can include witnesses that do not stop the offence from occurring. Physical submission is not consent under WA criminal code, in other words failure to resist does not constitute consent, in other words if someone feels intimidated after entering a room full of guys and felt they had to go through with it. Something there for the men to think about that attend these meets too. Although some cases can be harder to prove in a court, it is the affect that it will have on the lives of all involved no matter what the verdict at the end is. So PI don't get annoyed next time some girl rejects coming along, she might have done yaselves both a favour, obviously there is some commmunication issues that need to be looked at to ensure that everyone gets what you mean. As a hypothetical if this was a court case, prosecution would have twisted your words around a lot more then what has happened in here. P.s Before the sudden decline in attendence at clubs, gangies etc start to fall and everyone thinks their sex lives have just gone vanilla. Relax! There is a lots more to it. Just pointing out how communication is very important! PLAY SAFE! xxMiss Honeyxx <<
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most of these parties are over 35yrs..Is there any party exsist for younger people toparticipate?Just curious...
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