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gift of the gab....

January 18 2014

Ive been reading the forums for awhile now and it suprises me the amount of women who are dissapointed by my gender. When after having contact, the guy has the gift of the gab and can talk the talk and manages to score a date and more often than not a liason and then nothing. Wombats i think is the term lol. I have been on rhp for awhile now and although not really active in trying to proposition the fairer sex and get my rocks off, the few i have contacted have either fallen on deaf ears or gone no where. Now i dont think its my looks or my build, im not doing too bad for my age but im thinking its because i dont have the gift of the gab. I dont pump up my own tyres and blow my trumpet. I could, ive got a very good report card but maybe im a little introverted. I think thats working again me. In a nutshell the squeeky wheel gets the grease. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You have a template profile and that is why you aren't getting anywhere! Pusscat xxx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Might also have something to do with the 'bird' the OP is giving us. 😳

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Safe sex "if required"..... Getting the idea ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Could use a new bird ;-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Apart from what Pussy cat and Paintme rightfully said, the fact you're a smoker may work against you. And personally "Safe sex: if required" is an immediate no for me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mamma and I posted at the same time!

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    these chat sites have opened up a new world for the introverted. I don't wear condoms with Tara, So it would be lying to say I did. If necessary then I would. But we are a couple. Tricky these profiles, tricky tricky tricky. Mado Tara xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You just expressed yourself quite adequately..... Stop using others to make excuses for yourself. Psychologists call this projection..... because in the mind if the person projecting, your ego can't allow anything to be your fault and therefore you push blame into others. You will never be everyone's cup of tea and the good ladies if RHP have given some reasons why you aren't theirs..... but remember, YOU said you weren't proactive..... whether in here it out in the real world..... if you snooze, you lose. The meek may be lovely people, but they will never inherit the earth. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Only if the maintenance team is up to scratch. You are the maintenance team. Your surprised by the amount of women dissapointed by your gender. Well get over that straight away. They don't have 10 different genders to compare us with. If you don't think much of yourself why would anyone else. And don't tie yourself up in the introvert debate, at present even those who are learned in such are thinking the introverts are actually extroverts and vice_versa. That's for another debate

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    you look quite young for a man who is nearly fifty,but the youthful impression then translates to immature with the giving the bird gesture..... you are a guest,you can't be proactive... your profile is a template...no gift of the gab here....just laziness IMO but now a few...well more than a few, women will have noticed you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' I don't wear condoms with Tara, So it would be lying to say I did. I think it's different when couple uses the "If required" than a single man. . I just said no to one, who then decided to open his PG full of pics of him in action, thinking it would change my mind. . He was having intercourse without a condom in all photos and one showed a DP, with the other guy not using protection either. Yeah, he convinced me alright.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Telling guys that it's an instant turn-off if they either don't use protection or only occasionally. I'd rather they answer that honestly so I know who to avoid! Othwrwide they just lie to get past that part of the vetting process. I'd pass on this profile. IMO, you look nearly 50 - which is great, no info in the profile, the finger photo just screams immaturity and disrespect. Nothing to do with gift of the gab - we ladies have great BS metres. Your profile is just not appealing.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'I'd rather they answer that honestly so I know who to avoid! Othwrwide they just lie to get past that part of the vetting process. I get regular requests from guys asking me how to improve their profile, and I only give basic answers for this very reason. The last thing I want is to meet someone who is nothing like their profile suggests. But about the safe sex: I always bring it up on a first date, regardless of what a profile says.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'I'd rather they answer that honestly so I know who to avoid! Othwrwide they just lie to get past that part of the vetting process. I get regular requests from guys asking me how to improve their profile, and I only give basic answers for this very reason. The last thing I want is to meet someone who is nothing like their profile suggests. But about the safe sex: I always bring it up on a first date, regardless of what a profile says.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Natural selection plays a part even in RHP ;-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Very true.

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  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Sue_Storm' Apart from what Pussy cat and Paintme rightfully said, the fact you're a smoker may work against you. And personally "Safe sex: if required" is an immediate no for me. Amen. I get turned off with the bird pics (NOT SEXY, What were your thinking/) and non-smiling pics of men. Just need to tell men that smiling pics are better than mug shots. It just makes us trust you more not staring into your mug shots and assures us to a degree that we are not about to be packed into the boot of your car and kept locked up in chains in your basement. And template profiles, BIIGGG turn-off. makes you wonder that if they can't make an effort to make themselves a bit more attractive on the profile, maybe they wont make an effort in the bedroom? Guys remember, its all about making a connection and maintaining it. Same effort applies to the women. Two-way thing.... Just more fun that way.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Its all about attitude i think.Be yourself ,try to laugh at yourself and others and enjoy.Not everything has to be about sex.I think this is where a lot of guys go wrong.The "im on a sex site mentality" can do you more harm than good! Some of the best dates i have been on here is just having dinner or coffee with a lady and hearing her life story.Sharing things other than sex ,can be very enjoyable.Learning from women's experience can only help you,and a good wing woman is an asset here! Where my Wing Women at? I have never talked my self up here , if anything i talk myself down and let others make up their mind on me.Live,laugh and enjoy Because your worth it

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Calais has not made a single change to his profile with all the advice he was given, so he must have decided his approach is working for him after all.

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I have your back mate, always.....because you've earnt friendship and trust and DON'T have the "this is a sex site" mentality. You also know you could have me BUT I'm not the "nice girl" you're looking for and I do believe there are a few ladies in the queue ahead of me. (Gentle smile). OP I haven't read your profile (no need since everyone else has commented on it already) but template profiles are a no go zone for me, so's flipping the bird as a picture and for someone who articulated this topic so succinctly as DG observed......it's a shame more thought wasn't put into your self-promotion. I don't believe gift of the gab comes into it either......you can't bullshit a bullshitter sweetpea and most women here become very adept at sorting the shit from the clay. SAFE SEX IS A MUST!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You crack me up...And i won that arm wrestle fair and squareAnd.... there is no line ! Can you believe that! There should be a ticket counter, like at bakers delight Serving 21.... 21 its your turn... Hahaha ya funny lass!

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    You go alright ay.....and you did cheat, you yelled out "LOOK!! Something shiny" but that didn't work. Then you said "Oi look at the guy checking you out." which die to dome unwelcome intense attention I responded to ya dick because I got the Stalker Prize that night!!! And when I turned to look you skammed my arm down 😳 what's not cheating about that? Huh

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your a woman ..... Men have to cheat when dealing with women!Its the only way ,we can stand a chance Look over there >>>>>>>>>>> <<<<<<<<<<<Kiz runs over here

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Being a creative story teller though is entirely not different...😘. Luvs ya xx

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