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girls play while guys watch

July 27 2007

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Does anyone else find it amusing? interesting? curious? bloody annoying that there is no "guys play while girls watch"? Or if you have male/male it says MFM (men straight)? I don't know that I want my men to be just straight. There is a post about being truly bi and the consensus is that 90% of people are looking for a bi woman. I hear from guys all the time that watching and/or participating with two women having sex is the ultimate male fantasy. I have to wonder what others think the ultimate female fantasy is. One of mine is being penetrated by a lover while he is being penetrated by a lover. Interestingly I have asked a few guys whether they would participate in a 3some where they do interact with the other male. One said he'd talk to me about it later, another said no way, a couple have said yes and for one it was his ultimate fantasy. What was interesting is one guy who said he'd like to be taken anally said he would never kiss another guy. Are there other guys who think that way? You would let a man F**k you but not kiss you? Anyway my question is do you think we should ask RHP to have a guys play while girls watch tick box? CYA Wildly curious about men loving men

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I'm sitting back and waiting to see the responses on this one. This is one of my fantasies.... Strangely enough, one that doesn't look like being realised any time soon. Any of you guys want to make me happy??? Viking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I'm not gay by any means, i much prefer the girls. However when the moods right i can get off on getting anyone off. Girls watching, getting off on whats happening just makes it more relaxed and feels more comfortable afterward ;). Its all just fun, as long as nobody is judging anybody else :). My preferences don't mean i'm not open to experimenting... I've said this many times before but here goes again "As long as everybody leaves smiling it was a good party" ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    We have been on RHP for quite some time and would have been more than happy to accomodate any curious women or couples. We have indeed realised Wildnatures fantasy fairly recently, my friend penetrated my wife while I penetrated him. It was wildly orgasmic. We have been having 3 somes for some time but this paticular combination was a first. As for kissing another male.well I thought I would always say no to that, however I am mutating sexually and if the guy turned me on enough then now I would probably do it. Unfortunately I have now moved to the country, where these sorts of adventures are rare due to the indiscrete nature of small towns. If any female or couple is interested in a show then let us know and next time I am in Perth we will give you a show. Participation encouraged but not mandatory. regards.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Hi All Just had to post our thoughts and experiences on this subject. We have realised this particular delight on a number of occassions, and have always enjoyed the results. There's nothing better or satisfying than complying with a ladies desires, and the whole thing has only added to mrs shagbunnie becoming even more turned on. Any guys teetering on the brink of experimentation should give it a go, its well worth it......isnt it Woody......;-)) And you never know where it will lead!!!

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    18 years ago

    Well i must admit i am not a kissing kind guy, but pretty much anything else goes...not gay but in the context of groups well.... There are many girls who like watching guys, like mine for instance,...not as many as the guy watching girls thing but plenty none the less... We are a little confused as to why anyone would have difficulty finding players, we have about 6~7 really compatible friends and about another 2 dozen "always available" types.... Threesomes of either kind are great.... Anyone can contact us anytime if you are too shy to chat here... One other thought the absence of all choices for bimale might well stem from rhp's fear that they may offside some of the 10,000s of males on here that provide their income, who might be a little "put off" by this form of equality.... One other, other thought, historically bisex males were the norm in many classical empires... happy playing all, whatever pushes your buttons Paul

  • zoe69r

    zoe69r

    18 years ago

    hi Wildnature, very nice post , i myself have not had the pleasure of seeing my guy with anther yet but it will happen. you see he has ben in a 3sum r/ship before he met me for 3yrs and he absoultley loved it. i do no he has kissed guys passionatley as well and he liked that as well, lucky me ,i do now however that his fantasy is to be taken anally and orally by two guys at once while i watch, and i gotta say this excites me to no end , mmmmm and yes he wants to be taken anally while he penatrates me as well he has even told me he wants to suck a guy off in this poistion as well .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I've noted this too and I find it quite annoying that rhp profiles don't have the option to say you want the guys to play. I'm forced to put "MFM (guys straight)" on my profile when what I really want to see is a very BI guy with my other half in his mouth! ... or vice versa... or any of a number of other combinations, including the lovely fantasy posted by Wildnature up there. MMmmmm :):) I've also noted one other thing Wildnature points out... I've played with many bi guy combinations, and not once have I ever seen them kiss. Even with a guy who was supposedly "gay" that I've played with many times, never once a kiss. I've often wondered, but I haven't asked so as not to spoil the mood, lol. Its also the one thing I've never seen discussed in these kinds of topics. So do any guys dare answer? Why no kissing? Do guys just not like kissing, and they only do it with women to please them? Or is it that you don't want to think of a guy as a potential lover, just as a casual screw? Or something else? I'd love to know... nadi xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I thought it was obvious nadi_me..... it's the damned stubble!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Good point on the one hand, fetishists... but on the other, straight women have been putting up with stubble on their softer, more delicate faces for a long time! There must be a better excuse than that! Lol... nadi xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I remember the first time i was still a young sailor meeting with a couple i'd met out of Freeway magazine. I think hubby was happy enough with the situation but she was turning me on with her heavy breathing and genuine excitement while asking hubby if he liked my "big strong hand" stroking him. That kinda broke the ice lol. Been quite a few times since then i've enjoyed other guys in party situations, i can't say i enjoy him as much as a woman but if everyones comfortable its all just good honest fun. I've tried one on one but it just doesn't seem the same. Being the guy i am, kinda speak my mind, i've managed to surprise many and upset a few of the surprisingly staid guys who work in industry, especially those who have worked beside me a while and have no idea, "hell i won't kiss a guy but i'll give him head" *evil grin*. Hell, some of them need to open their minds up a little ;).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Im bi and find my sexuality very fluid –some times im more attracted to guys other times women it seems to change from day to day. I think sexuality is more about how you feel in your self rather than necessarily who you are having sex with. I think society often wants to put sexuality into boxes, strait, gay, male, female but im my experience its more complex, rich and fluid than this. When I with some one it does not make a huge difference for me if they are male, female or a couple, I love the sensual space, touching, cuddling, kissing, letting go and exploring

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    I replied to previous post before reading yours. Given my last post, provided it does get posted lol, well sometimes the censorship here..., i feel i should be one of those to answer that. For me you got it with your last statements. I state outright that i'm only looking for casual fun but that doesn't mean i can't or don't feel something towards a lady i'm pleasing or enjoying, even though i know neither of us have any intention of letting it lead anywhere. With a guy though i don't feel that connection, ummm, excitement or release yes, but not the connection. I guess kissing to me is part of the connection, not the excitement/release. So i guess thats why it feels comfortable with the ladies, when it is appreciated and not reserved for hubby or something ;), but not with the guys. On reflection i guess thats why some hookers don't want to kiss, would likely be an even stronger feeling for them i suspect. Hmm, learning myself here... That also explains why i can genuinly enjoy m/m in a party situation but a umm, a lot less lol, one on one. Also learning that i say umm a lot in not so comfortable forum conversations...*grin*. Aside to self "Damn peer group pressure, be a man..." lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Thanks everyone who responded to this thread. I especially appreciate the comments from the guys. LookingforAdventure, I really like the way you describe sexuality as fluid. At a recent performance "Women's Stories of Coming Out" one woman described sexual preference as a moveable feast. Woody I also appreciated your comments and they helped me to understand my friend's reluctance to kissing other males. It was also great to hear from other women that they too share this fantasy. It has been the one fantasy that I have been reluctant to share because of the comments some people make about homosexuality. So thanks again everyone, Yours in adventurous loving, Wild

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Like when a lot girls say they r bi, it depends on the mood! Who knows when 2 stop if its going good! Ask around we r out there!