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giving out phone number
March 19 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to if it was someon I was definitly meeting then I had no problem with it - makes it much easier to coordinate meets and also makes people more real if I can hear their voice. This will no longer be happening. If someone can not organise to meet via RHP messages then Im not meeting them. This is because I have had a bad experience where someone from here (and if I ever found out who it was believe me they will wish I didnt know) has been giving out my number to their mates. We are not play toys to be passed around. We are not a free prostitution service. We are humans (expect for this low life who ever it is) and we have feelings. How do I know its someone from here? Because a piece of information which can only come through the written word was part of the messages I have received. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a spare phone just for guys that I meet on sites like this so giving out my number isn't a problem! I am however fussy on who gets the number...It takes a few messages before I give them my number and only if I'm interested in meeting them somewhere down the track or want phone sex! . I don't understand why guys give out their number with the first message they send though...They have no idea who they are sending it to really! Also guys who don't have pics and say they will "text" you some pics...pluuuuease...I didn't come down in the last shower! No pic on here...no interest! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like using RHP for getting to know someone & seeing if we Click . It's also a good Filter for me to weed out the Fakes . But after a while I get sick of typing so I suggest we speak . A Person's voice is another factor in learning more about someone. If we click through RHP , I've got no problem giving out my number. GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Funlovin', I think guys are loose with their numbers because they think they are impervious to harm, think that a bunny boiler (or fake woman) is "amusing", that any phone contact from a woman is a notch, or all of the above. I thought about a "sex phone", but that just seemed counter-intuitive to what I'm about. And hard work. I don't have a rule, or even a rule of thumb.... if I had to define it, I'd say once I'm comfortable being exposed (hopefully, unlike Focus, not to a god-awful experience) to that person. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
To meet first for a coffee and chat before we give out numbers, that way we get a feel for who the people are.
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RHP User
13 years ago
do you give out yur phone nuber to peopel you think are yummy in really life, even if you dont get a chance to talk to them, im thinking at bars where the music is loud or they are working behind the bar, etc
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I have a spare phone just for guys that I meet on sites like this so giving out my number isn't a problem! I am however fussy on who gets the number...It takes a few messages before I give them my number and only if I'm interested in meeting them somewhere down the track or want phone sex! . I'm much more comfortable with that. I used to have a cheap Chinese dual-SIM phone which could accept calls and messages from two SIMs/numbers at a time, so I could always have it with me. Unfortunately I sat on the screen and cracked it, which I tried not to take personally.If something goes wrong and I accidentally stick my finger (or any other body part) in a metaphoric 'beehive', it's much easier to burn off a booty line with a handful of contacts than it is to replace your main phone number and have to deal with every other contact in your life. Lost_Focus, that's horrible what's happened to you, and it unfortunately reinforces my paranoia.I'll give the number out if I'm going to meet someone, but that gets arranged via email beforehand (via a similar 'dedicated' email address.) Since I hate talking on the phone I really just use it to confirm meetings/let my date know if I'm running late, that sort of thing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' I'll give the number out if I'm going to meet someone, but that gets arranged via email beforehand (via a similar 'dedicated' email address.) Since I hate talking on the phone I really just use it to confirm meetings/let my date know if I'm running late, that sort of thing. I do the same, but will give out my actual digits in that case. If I feel comfortable enough with someone to be willing to meet them in the flesh, they can have my number. I do have a separate email address for RHP contacts though. If only so I know not to open certain messages at work and grin maniacally in front of my boss.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a separate email address that I set up when I joined RHP... as I don't want just anyone knowing my surname (too easy to track me down that way). And I don't give just anyone my phone number either. Have unfortunately been on the receiving end of a stalker from giving it out to the wrong person (and that was after a large number of emails so perhaps that was just unlucky). Lost focus your experience while extremely unfortunate (and I hope you find the bastard soon) is a chilling example of why I guard my number so well. And xfunlovingx seems those same guys must think we are all simple creatures..... hoping we will fall for the share your number for a few pics line!!! Really do they think we are that stupid!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
when someone is quirky, fun and weird enough to warrant a bit of interest - but only after a decent bit of conversation and we both know we want to catch up a bit further.As for waiting - I have some friends who have silly rules about having to wait XX hours/days or whatever but I find whatever works - maybe later that night to say goodbye, or the next day. If someone leaves us hanging it just gets annoying - surely you would rather hear back sooner than later.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am very wary ....been on here long enough to know whats real and whats not but still some surprise me.... funnily \enough alot of ppl i used to trust ??? But then .. who DO u u trust ?? At end of day its who u feel the best vibe for ... cmon ladies u know this ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Uhhh huhh!!! Big time!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Littlered.Thanks for your topic..:) I'm very selective whom I share my phone number with Generally it's an Individual I have a strong Connection with and we've been in regular contactfor a little while, either moved to MSN or have chatted on skype etc, If we haven't then I make sure I know all I need to about them and I'm wanting to see where it goes with a Personal meet.. I've mentioned to Guys who have sent me their numberrs in the 1st Contact MSG just how silly it is and how with just their phone num,ber in the right hands it can lead to ID Fraud so I suggest they get to know the Person quite well before they get that eager. They seem to appreciate my advice.. Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've given my number to a few women on here. Fortunately, they haven't passed it around. Is it safe to assume that women do not pass numbers to others for random meets/harassment? Then again, I am quite used to getting telemarketing calls even though I am on the Do Not Call Register. So, I guess I can handle them as a nuisance calls. I'm keeping my finger's crossed that this never happens.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We like to organise to meet via RHP first before handing over our digits. When we organise a day/time we'll give our number out just in case there's an emergency or lateness or lostness when travelling to meet. Maybe it's a generational thing but we don't see any need to chat on the phone as a further will-we-click-test. If they are willing to meet in person, we'll decide if we want to play at the meet. I must admit I get a little creeped out by people who give their number out at the first message. I dunno why, it just seems way too forward or assumptive on their part. Often we will give out our number after we've met and played with the people. That's why the RHP app is good, you stick it on your phone and you don't need to give out your number, just use the messaging system.
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Letsgetcrazy09
13 years ago
To Focus, that is shocking what has happened, and part of the reason for my "play" or "travel" phone. I have given out my usual number before and have been fortunate that all that have had it have never abused it. To them I must thank. I have always had a separate email address anyway so the second phone works to the same end, besides which my Overseas calls are half the price of bloody Telstra.....lol Keep smiling and play safe peoples Lets
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RHP User
13 years ago
I never ask for a number and rarely give one... and the giving only happens in person, if someone wants to meet with me then we arrange via email/RHP message and we meet at the time/place organised. If we click she gets my number and if she offers I get hers. Had a friend hand her number to a guy she met at the pub one night and she regretted is 5 mins after we left... was out of character for her and so was the following 4 days she pined over the phone waiting for his call. If I get a number, the lady gets a message or call within 24 hours... if only to say hi and see how things are going.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It seems that i must be one of the lucky ones. I have given my number to a few people, and i have never had any bad incidents. I usually wait for a few messages between us first, so we know that we are after something similar to each other. I like speaking to them on the phone so i know that hey are not fake.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Come in handy. Usually RHP mail comes seperate to other mail. Wish I had a second phone though, as occasionally some guys I no longer wish to see continually send texts. What is it with the younger generation who can't stop pushing buttons on their phones?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'littlered'do you give out yur phone nuber to peopel you think are yummy in really life, even if you dont get a chance to talk to them, im thinking at bars where the music is loud or they are working behind the bar, etc I don't give out my number until after I've spoken/messaged with someone for a while, and have agreed to a date. Doing the "I just met you, and this crazy..." thing and giving my number to a complete stranger, yummy or not, is too risky for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' Funlovin', I think guys are loose with their numbers because they think they are impervious to harm, think that a bunny boiler (or fake woman) is "amusing", that any phone contact from a woman is a notch, or all of the above. A man I once dated told me about a woman he broke up with (after three dates) when she became too clingy. She started calling him continously. He turned his phone off at one point, only to find later she had left 26 messages in an hour. I the end he reported her, blocked her AND changed his number.Not very amusing to him.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually find I get horrible anxiety from phone calls, (not just here but in any situation) so I never give out my number, I could probably handle text but thats no different to messaging... I dont really see a need to give out phone numbers unless you've met the person and can safely say you trust them... I respect other people giving their number to me though by not giving it out to everybody... thats just rude
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are a few ladies on here that have my number, most of them within only a couple of days worth of messaging. I trust my instincts. They aren't notches on my belt or any of the reasons you listed. I have had no problems. A girl I meet seven years ago in a pub still randomly messages me despite repeated requests to lose my number. I must have rocked her world :-D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' There are a few ladies on here that have my number, most of them within only a couple of days worth of messaging. I trust my instincts. They aren't notches on my belt or any of the reasons you listed. I have had no problems. A girl I meet seven years ago in a pub still randomly messages me despite repeated requests to lose my number. I must have rocked her world :-D Ms D, Funlover.... you mistake me... or I miscommunicate... I was referring to a comment above which referred to guys who send their numbers in the very first contact ("Hi, liked your profile, here is my number..."). And I do think guys are a bit more relaxed, in general, about fending off a maddie... probably until the encounter one!I, too, trust my instincts, and have been known to give my number very early on (usually due to some other 'safety indicator'), and get no buzz or notch-related thrill from it... again, not thinking of the *ahem* older gent such as you or I, but the young buck (as an easy target).I suspended my number for a number of _years_ at one point, while travelling, then reactivated it and got a message soon after on it from someone I wasn't hoping to hear from. So, I hear you... once it's out, its out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was still very selective as to who got my number. Never in the first message and only if I felt comfortable enough that we would meet. As for loud places publicly? No I dont. I need to be able to have had some kind of interaction with the person first before giving out my number. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
I responded to the Bunny Boiler being thought of as amusing part. I've heard a lot of jokes made by men about crazy women like in the Fatal Attraction movie, and they don't realise it's not all that funny when you actually (come a)cross one. Men can think they are invincible (maybe feeling like the stronger" sex and all), and therefore underestimate the potential problems.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I did give two times my phone number out , but thay did not ring me back or text me so i don`t give it out no more , maybe women like to just have fun ? i don`t now , in melboune ...........
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RHP User
13 years ago
I want to hear a voice before I meet him...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess I follow the rule not to give out.... broke that recently but felt right.. may never know...... interaction is important but sometimes it just a rush of blood !!Usually if you hear a voice you will know ..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a "mature gent" I should have asked for clarification before jumping to a conclusion. Quoting 'Mazabella'I want to hear a voice before I meet him...- Posted from rhpmobile I agree Mazabella. I like to hear a voice before meeting and their laugh too. Some laughs are hard to put up with for an extended period. Not a hard and fast rule as I have met an RHP lady without talking to her first. I was glad we did that, she has the sexiest accent.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont give my phone number out to anybody unless I know and trust them completely. Because of a past public profile' I still prefer to stay anonymous. This has worked against me at times' I completely understand if this upsets But real life is more important to me than giving my number to someone I dont really know. However' I will meet for a coffee or drink and see how things go, then if they are comfortable' I will call them from my private home phone' thats if they are keen enough to give their number up.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We also have a 2nd phone, and give our number to couples/guys that we like. We used to put it with adverts in mags etc, with a sexy voice mail msg, but had to stop. The mail box used to be full of guys pulling their cocks an then hang up.
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RHP User
13 years ago
With all the recommendations of getting a second phone, I did consider it for some time but considering I haven't met any new people for a while, I haven't bothered with it quite yet. I've always been careful with who I give it out to, insisting on seeing a number of face with body photographs, exchanging a few emails, etc.I find the number exchange with couples interesting. Sometimes I get the number of the woman, I'm assuming because she's afraid I'll become all stalkerish and hit on her man, and then sometimes I get the number of the man, who wants to be protective of his woman and is afraid I may not be who I say I am/turn scary and stalkerish. As adorably protective as it is, I've had incidents where the number i have of the couple is the man's, and then after my first experience with the couple, messages me independently for a one-on-one. I do think that when it's a couple seeking a girl, that it should be the girls exchanging numbers, or in the case of a couple looking for a straight man, the men exchange digits.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes I too have a second phone for all my hook ups. It protects me at work as I have a fairly important job and really don't want a RHP'r ringing me for a hook up in the middle of an important meeting. However, I have offered my phone number and quite often don't get a ring. I feel that there are a lot of fakes on here and having the second phone number helps me sort out the fakes pretty quickly, particularly the ladies.Swordy...
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RHP User
13 years ago
what abotu in real life, what about when you see an attractive person in the club/pub/footy/boardroom etc, what do you do then
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LittleBitWeird
13 years ago
Currently we have misters phone number on display on the site which we don't mind people using (unless they text in the wee hours of the morning or call at inappropriate times :/ ) I would never give my number out to a guy but for a female I'd make an exception provided we had hit it off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
to speak to someone on the phone before I meet them.I have occasionally been shocked at the difference in the written conversation to the verbal one....not in a good way either. I do get annoyed if I give someone my number and they are not then prepared to give me theirs.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well i have given Pizza Huts number out a few times You know me being cheesie n all.Takes a lot to get my number!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'kizza1973'Well i have given Pizza Huts number out a few times You know me being cheesie n all. Takes a lot to get my number! two large , one meat lovers and the other just plain ta but really a woman gets a man quicker to her door of rhp, than she will get the pizza my number is 55556666 suck
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some women go, "If you are real then give me your number and I'll talk with you". I did that once and I got a call from an angry ex the next day. How he got the number, I have no idea. So. now do I give out my number? It all depends on the person and situation. I usually give it out if we are meeting, in case I can't see the lady with the red rose standing with a yellow umbrella and a pink hat in front of the restaurant. Don't want to meet with the wrong lady with a red rose, pink hat and yellow umbrella waiting for someone else.Freya, I'll give you mine if you give me yours. Tuscan, you can always call me for pizza. I do deliveries too
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RHP User
13 years ago
I ask for a number and give mine. Makes it so much easier to co-ordinate catching up and trying to find the other person when you arrive at a busy venue. Maybe because i'm a guy, im less likely to get stalkerish txts or calls from a woman, whereas I can understand how some guys may keep texting a female after she has said "no thanks".
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RHP User
13 years ago
If the conversation seems to be leading in the right direction on Rhp we're quite happy to give our number or Skype. In some cases it's great for unearthing fakes...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
zu7bcv do you deliver
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just like RHP my mobile has a block button too.On a serious note...maybe I am to trusting?? I do give my number out if they ask only tho, only if my gut has a good feeling after exchanging messages. Most whom I have given to usually make contact as soon as I give.I prefer to only contact via mobile, move away outside from RHP to get to know someone.FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
spare phone, only way to go...
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RHP User
13 years ago
My number is plastered down the side of my work truck, I'm not judging anyone else for their privacy concerns, but it doesn't worry me. After a couple of positive messages I don't have a problem exchanging numbers, usually thats the last contact I recieve though....... Lots of sheep in wolfs clothes around here.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've only given out my number as the final step prior to meeting up .... So far so good , but I won't be giving it out after only a few messages . - Posted from rhpmobile
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playfulminx
13 years ago
...are only given once I'm fairly sure I'd like to meet that person. That's usually decided after a good bout of messages exchanges. I've never had a problem with my number being misused so far. Touch wood :|
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RHP User
13 years ago
We only ever give our number out if we're definitely planning to meet. Depending on the situation we usually prefer phone calls but texting is fine by us too for just general chitchat :) I'm always nervous about speaking on the phone for the first time though! It never gets easier for me haha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' zu7bcv do you deliver Rest assured I deliver and spend as much time as needed until the customer is satisfied. Unfortunately, I only deliver locally.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I might just get a second phone so I can record a sexy voicemail greeting... put on my best radio voice... Only trouble is the only script that pops into my mind right now is one of those cheesy phone sex ad's... "call me, call me now...". Which would be kinda redundant. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't mind giving out my number if I like the person, or there is something about them that really attracts me however I have a very trusting personality but I prefer texting because I always have my phone on me so it's easier than logging on to rhp all the time.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
How have people not understood the idea of the OP? ... I've felt strange about giving my number out in the real world and have only done so twice - once to a woman on the tram (back when I lived in Melbs) and it worked out well :) Generally, now, I see heaps of cute, beautiful people around, but it seems inappropriate to even aproach people, let alone give my number to them hehe. That's a big reason why I'm digging this site so much (in the 6 months I've been here) - it's an easy way to meet people. Is that really sad? I mean, I have random conversations with strangers almost every day, but approaching someone to give them your number is different to me. Women have given me their number more times than I've given mine away. One woman who worked in a cloke room slipped a note into my jacket pocket once haha So, I know it is nice to receive a number and I feel like it should be something I'm more comfortable with, but it seems awkward. Writing this so honestly is making me think more about it though and I'm gonna do it more :) ... As for giving numbers on this site... Well, for starters, when I first set up my profile, I mistakenly set it to display my number and ittook me ages to figure out how to hide it! I have always exchanged numbers when I'm meeting someone in person. I figure it makes sense to do so, incase one of us needs to conact the other - could be due to lateness, not being able to find each other etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Funny story. I know of a guy that used to check left-behind-ATM-printout-slips and collect ones that had a hefty balance :) He wrote his number on the back of them to give to women he met lol funny stuff!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hotsweetgentle'Funny story. I know of a guy that used to check left-behind-ATM-printout-slips and collect ones that had a hefty balance :) He wrote his number on the back of them to give to women he met lol funny stuff!- Posted from rhpmobile Hehe, love his work :) I do get a bit random occaisionally......the other week I was in traffic and spotted a stunning woman in the vehicle next to me, realy classy looking...think Naomi Campbell..... driving a bloody lexus (im in my work van, with a big smiley face on the side, if you see me around) So I caught her attention, and indicated for her to call me.... she was so sweet...have you ever witnessed a colored woman blush, memorable :) She politely declined lol and I blew her a kiss and we were both smiling as we drove off.... Heres one for the oldies amongst us.... Do they still make that fragrance ?......"Impulse" lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I use a 'bat phone', as many others do, I am still guarded on who I give this number to, typically there has to be a connection via chat / messages from RHP, I have found different forms of media suit different people and their communication via one media does not reflect how they are in othersSome people prefer to chat on the phone, some face to face, some prefer the anonymity of chatting on RHP or texts to get comfortable with their new friends, At least with the bat phone, I can leave it turned off (if I get stalked) or leave it to one side so I do not get 'distracted'The additional phone concept also prevents me getting surprising pictures during meetings and trying to explain why I am smiling so much
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with you 'benson' there's nothing more frustrating than having to log onto rhp all the time to check your messages if you're expecting one from someone! Especially if they have your number. I don't just give it to anyone and luckily have only had one 'stalker ish' experience so I count myself lucky :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Four weeks ago I was meant to have drinks with someone rom RHP, so I gave him my number. He cancelled on the day due to work issues, and did not take the the iniative to re-schedule. There were two other texts from him saying hi one night, but that was it. Then, last night: I came home from a fantastic playdate, and mentioned this on one of the forums, at around one o'clock in the morning. At 3.30 I received a text, which I ignored. Then another. Ten minutes later my phone rang, but I didn't recognise the number and let it go to voicemail. When I woke up I read: Message 1: you awake Message 2: so you've already played? want more The voicemail asked if I want him to make my great Friday an even better one, and to call him. WTF? I don't mind a booty call (tough I've never had one), but at 3.30 in the morning from a guy I've never even spoken to? Next! (My date and I had a good laugh about it though.)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gosh how clinical did that sound? But if I like someone I will give my email then msn and then if I really like I will give out my number especially if we are organising to meet. A call before a "date" can add that extra spark. So far my judgement has been spot on :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes... it happened to me.I placed an ad on Gumtree a few weeks ago for something & I had a text from this guy the next morning at 8:30amI responded.He calls me, we chat for a few moments.Few minutes later he texts his photo through... WTF????Then a little later asking me if I want to meet for coffee. I say no, too busy as I have appointments etc thinking that would blow him off.Nope!! At the end of the day, another text "How did your appointments go?"I ignore.The next morning, How are you today? I am doing lots of cleaning, maybe you can give me a hand?I ignore. Thinking this is a mentally unstable person, best to block & ignore...Lunch time. A text, can you take me to the airport next Monday?I couldn't ignore! Me - Are you serious? Don't know you, don't text or call me again!He calls straight away.I ignore.Then another few texts a few days...My response is now "angry". Do not call or text me again, you're crossing the boundary of what is acceptable behaviour.10 days go by, & yesterday, another text, How are you?I respond, Are you mentally unstable? STOP texting me! This is classified as STALKING & I will go to the police if you do it again!Him... SorryFuuuuuuuuuuuuck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
OE, most phones can block phone numbers and unless he keeps on changing numbers you will not hear from him again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' Then a little later asking me if I want to meet for coffee. I say no, too busy as I have appointments etc thinking that would blow him off. A lot of guys will read this as "I wish, as I'm interested, but I'm just too busy today". I think some of us tend to be a little to careful sometimes and give excuses rather than saying "No, I'm not interested". But: Lunch time. A text, can you take me to the airport next Monday? Now, that's just freaky!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I generally give my number out very quickly as I prefer to chat on the phone a bit before meeting. I dont have a huge number of friends and family in my life and dont work so I guess that makes it a lot easier for me to just swap out my number if I'm bothered. I do only give out my mobile number though....I guess for me it's a fairly neutral way of contacting someone as it's just a phone number...it's not like they have my address or anything. Isn't that what phone numbers are for...besides I can always utilise the law if the number is abused like the story above. After all there are legal repercussions to this sort of behaviour and no one wants to be in trouble with the police....they CAN and will track down the source of the harassment even if it is coming from third or fourth parties...eventually it will lead back to the source and he can be warned/prosecuted....there are always going to be arseholes in the world...it's all just a crapshoot anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A quick reminder that if you ever listed your phone number on Facebook, even just in your account details, people can find you and potentially find out more about you than you want. To avoid this, go to Privacy settings and tools, and click on Who can see me. Make sure it does not say Everyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I meant Who can look me up?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a prepaid that I use for meeting strangers off the Internet. I am a very private person and I don't like to risk a drunk and horny incoming call when I'm spending time with my kids or when everyone's asleep and I can say it has actually happened. Unfortunately until my kids have gotten used to the split and then the idea of dad having lady friends I keep my sex life quite removed from their life. 12 & 13yo's don't need to be exposed to those changes as well as puberty all at once.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends if hit it off with the other person or couple, normally don't give it out, but just depends :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
and my answer is i'd give you my number littlered :Pbut yes if you like someone give your number over whats the worst that can happen ? they don't call you ?actually i suppose the worst that can happen is they give your number to a mate and say "here mess with this person for a while"but the morale of the story is if you don't try you don't get.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' A quick reminder that if you ever listed your phone number on Facebook, even just in your account details, people can find you and potentially find out more about you than you want. To avoid this, go to Privacy settings and tools, and click on Who can see me. Make sure it does not say Everyone. I have a male friend on Facebook (met through here) and one of his "female friends/lover/girlfriend whatever!!" found me.Next minute I received an abusive message calling me a dirty whore and to stay away as they are in a relationship etc.I also received a call, stating she knew my vehicle rego number which she had seen parked at his house.And from there I regularly receive hang ups!I dare say this person got into this males phone and stalked his facebook etc etc??I have sinced BLOCKED this person everywhere and changed my settings to "just me" on Facebook.I don't know the number as it shows "unknown".So people be careful, be wise of numbers everywhere - and put a security entry lock on your mobiles as well!!To go through all this just by having a "friendship" with someone is not nice and unsettling.Choose giving out your number wisely.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have the exact map co-ordinates of where you took the picture listed in the properties ... So if you took it in your bedroom, send it to someone, they can find you. Always crop or edit the picture in some way so that the co-ordinates are saved over.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'littlered'what abotu in real life, what about when you see an attractive person in the club/pub/footy/boardroom etc, what do you do then Get a cheap spare phone, we have one just for meets and it works very well....:-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I first joined the site I was too trusting and gave out my real phone number. I got 66 text messages in one day (while I was at work) from one guy and when I didn't reply to any of them because the tone of the first few concerned me, the next day I received another 52. My phone at the time didn't have the ability to block a number so I contacted Telstra and they were able to block it for me. I don't hand out my number to anyone any more.
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