M67 F67
guys be honest
March 23 2006
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RHP User
20 years ago
Ive been trying out the scene and am totally dismayed by the lack of sincerity and honesty by all concerned, with respect to size (girth) and persuasion. I ’m slim like slim people and adventurous too but some people just don’t get it.
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RHP User
20 years ago
I never have understood using dishonesty to steal sex. There are a lot of strange people into for some very wacky reasons im sure. We both enjoy swinging with partners who want the real us and find that most important. I am a straight male and dont mind if we swing with a couple where the male is bi or bi curious but he has to understand i am straight and have no problems with him being bi unless he doesnt respect my choice. I hope this experience doesnt put you off too much and hope your next one makes up for it.
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RHP User
20 years ago
Fully agree. Really, when you say ’Hey, I’m straight!’ It does not mean either ’I’m open to you trying to ’turn’ me at the first opportunity’ or ’I have sex with women most of the time because I can’t convince men to do it.’ It may sound harsh...hey, it does sound harsh! Our lesson for the day? Be honest.
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RHP User
20 years ago
24.. we also think the same as you... your profile says it exactly right... well done and there should be more honest folks out there like yourselves... We often find that some ppl contact us first and say they are interested in us at first.. then they just do not reply after seeing our pics.. (mrs is larger.. and our profile pics do show this..) It seems they just want to see pics and not really enjoy what we all (both them and us) have to offer in friendship and fun... Oh well.. such is life and thier loss ehh... all the more for those who do enjoy a good fun time..
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RHP User
20 years ago
Honesty certainly wont get you a quantity of dates but it will get the quality.It seems a large part of the scene is about being with good looking people even if they have a bad or no personality. It reminds me of school when the sleazy and devious guys always got the girls.It explains why there are so many male dickheads in the scene when their tactics seem to work.Some people reward these tactics and then complain about it. We are the opposite and try and focus more on who are decent people. The internet is also a place for freaks and timewasters to hide. I have contacted at least 50 couples on here and have met only one couple who are compatible and keen to meet. Im beginning to think that when we become full members we will finally meet the guests who hopefully will be more on our wavelength. As we know RHP looks after the paying members while 90% of the site are guests so the paid up members get bombarded by guests and tend to muck around while the guests are real keen. Who we meet up with sends a message to the whole scene and what works and what doesnt so we all play a part. I no longer feel sorry for people who make bad decisions that end in bad experiences.
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RHP User
20 years ago
Sorry about the double post but after doing another search my pet hate has arisen.thats people advertising in the wrong section.People wanting just a woman advertising in the couples section. They obviously dont care about any harm they may cause to others relationships.Also straight woman advertising in the couples section. seeing as im ranting this morning LOL people who dont put any description why do they bother?? what kind of responses can they really expect???
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RHP User
20 years ago
I reckon they’re the people who are curious and just want to check it out before committing to that 2min worth of thought to put up a description.
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RHP User
20 years ago
First and foremost we are pukka, i.e. real. We are not capricious we do want to fool around and we do play. We are not putting up a smoke screen and telling you that we are something that we are not, after all our purpose for being on here is to ultimately meet people. Our names used in this profile are pseudonyms; we only give out our real names after we have had a girl to girl phone call or if we meet in the flesh, so to speak. This is because we have found our sexpectations are not the same as the usual ‘commercial swingers’ crowd, we have found, as have our friends, that they tend to be out there looking and hoping to find substitute partners. If that is what you are after, because you are bored, or whatever, then fine, but count us out. We love a good sextravaganza, sex together, sex collectively and simultaneously with others on a bed, or anywhere else for that matter and we equally love watching each other with a great looking, sexy and stimulating girl, guy or couple. We will not be sexploited though, the Cunt and Cuntess deSinville we have met and already sent packing! We’d like to say were gym bunnies, so we’re gym bunnies, but then some people will believe anything. At this point we could also say that we are into movies, gambling, food, people watching, extreme sports, wine, good company, tennis, friends, cafes, swimming, reading, camping, music, coffee, dancing, piano playing, partying, cooking, writing, watching TV, clubbing, painting, photography, horses, sunrises, cars, reading, shopping, porn, Formula One, studying, puzzles, craftwork, dogs, toys, New Age stuff, cats, gardening, travel, sunsets, walking, astrology, bedroom freaks, business, breathing, computers, phones, clocks, pens, paperclips, rubber bands, paper, envelopes, stamps, money, but we won’t, because it is boring and sounds like we have just looked around our room for inspiration. Some of the above applies, not all though, to one or the other of us. Now this may come as a surprise to one or two of you reading this, but some people are not who they say they are, or who they think they are and we don’t tolerate mendacity. These would be profiles that put up photos of girls who are porn stars, do you think nobody will recognise the pictures; people like us that spend all day long looking at porn will spot them straight away. And guys pretending to be girls and couples, what sort of chimera are you on? Our élan for sex does not mean that we will be lowering our standards to yours. If you are not sure what you are, then check what is between your legs. If you don’t know what that means, don’t bother replying, because your success rate will be the same as King Canute II, when he tried to command the obedience of the sea to make the waves go back and turn the tied and so prove that a King was more powerful than the natural elements. He couldn’t prove the point and neither will you. Now this is a bit odd, but a few things that we have found out since we have been prowling these seedy underworld internet sites are: 1. People who go on and on about wanting honesty in their profile are quite often the ones who are telling the biggest pack of fibs. 2. The ones who say that they want to be experimental and that they have no boundaries are the ones that are most likely to run away the first time that oral, anal and tit fucking are mentioned. 3. The size of guys dicks, do you know how to use a ruler boys. You take the measurement from on top not from in your mind.
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RHP User
20 years ago
Then why after all your effort and time put into quite an articulate entry here, that you cannot send a polite reply to a an email sent to you by a couple who took the time to send you a nice reply? We couldnt’ agree more with this topic and most of us know that talke is cheap!! But we would like to consider ourselves as a considerate and genuine couple unlike alot who visit this sight and others like it, compared to alot of others. For this reason have a low tolerance of both guest and paying members who can take the time to send a polite reply, the only exceptoin to the cause are single woman who are unindated with emails from the both the good and bad on this sight!! If you are not sure of my point here squirter, let me know and I will spell it out for you!
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RHP User
20 years ago
The problem is we are all human.......one persons idea of experimental can be entirely different to anothers Alot of the above posts ask for non-judgemental people.....are you not judgeing others who may not have the self confidence or life experience that you obviously have?
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RHP User
20 years ago
Well ‘sincere’ this is not a forum to make a personal attack on any particular member, but as you have posted, and it was accepted, we thought we would reply on this discussion board too. As you say, “talk is cheap” and so are assumptions. Yours, in this case, is that couples do not have the same problems as single girls. In fact some do. Some couples can be inundated on a day-to-day basis with flirts and messages. Nobody that sends an unsolicited communication to another member should assume to expect a reply especially when the sending individual or couple is out of the receiving people’s age range or some other category. Let us also be honest when we make a posting on the forum. Just because you make contact does not mean you should expect that the recipient will reply, that is just plain presumptuous and rude! Having said that a quick message should wherever possible be sent, but sometimes, ones time frame and lets be honest, mood on the day, may make this something that does not happen.
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RHP User
20 years ago
Within 4 days of joining RHP I took the time to have a photo taken of Kylie and Myself with the verification number given to us, it wasn’t that hard to do. I’ve just checked everyones profile quickly and no one other than us is actually verified, not even paying members. So with inspiration of Mastercard. 1. AAA batteries for Digital Camera - $4.99 2. 4 Pack Biros with notepad - $5.50 3. Internet connection - Doesn’t really matter you’re paying for it anyway ........ Becoming verified so that people know its truely you in your pics and not some random photo set you’ve grabbed fro online. PRICELESS!!! So go do it everyone!
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RHP User
20 years ago
phew... glad we are verified... enjoy...
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RHP User
20 years ago
i think the key is information ....Mrs ZOOT and I have put as much info and pics as we can on our profile so people can get at least a small feel of who you will be dealing with . I know i would prefer to read though an essay ( not looking at any one squirtergirl ...lol) than a 2 lined about us section that says " fun loving coulpe looking for good times " ...... i mean what does that tell you about anyone ???
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RHP User
20 years ago
Interesting to read what has come out of the original post. I like many would expect a clear statement of sexual status. and why I felt compelled to post here . If a profile states the male is experimental then we would simply not reply as we ask specifically for the guy to be straight. ( females are not our issue here) We don’t have a problem with this classification, we just don’t follow those people up because they obviously are not sure, and we are, simple as that. All the same I now politely ask when we meet if what we assume is correct, or if no status is mentioned in profile I ask before further conversation. No one as yet has been offended by this, quite the opposite in fact. It is only when after the event one finds out people have disguised their experiences or status that we find unacceptable for good sexual relationships.
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RHP User
20 years ago
At least some tongues are wagging and opinions being throw around eh? LOL
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RHP User
20 years ago
i think you guys have hit the nail on the head .... you expect what you read / told to be the truth !! Unfortunatly it doesnt always happen, but the scene isnt huge and world spreads pretty quickly.... and i think things like this sort of forum helps those that are new or inexperienced
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RHP User
20 years ago
Yes very true, hopefully we all pick up on a few helpful suggestions, but please everyone let’s keep it nice!
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RHP User
20 years ago
Awesome... Thats a really good point...lol Will definately be having words to the other half when she gets home! We are relitively new to RHP but have(should be (had used Amm) for a fair while untill we became alot busier at work due to promotions etc.. not to mention there seems to be alot More Fakes there than RHP.. which really sealed the move from there to here. Cheers MR EA
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