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here to vent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
November 17 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok. So it's a bit like tv... we have the remote control in our hands and it calls us, my precious. (using best Gollum accent). Plus, I don't know if you've noticed but in the chat room the cams are low resolution and to be frank..... girly bits are typically blurred... it's a bit like those tv shows where the good bits are obscured... now that's not your fault.. it's a limitation of the cams and the logistics of broadband... and the upshot is, cam surfing, even though we might be completely engaged in conversation with one person. When men cam, there's simply more genitalia for the cam to focus on so you ladies might not notice the limitations as we do. I hope this makes some sense... Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL. That's pretty crappy. Sorry to hear that. But on the bright side.... Lets cue the long list of guys ready to respond and offer their camming prowress to u... 3 2 1....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Got me buggered how anyone can look away from your cam fun :-p
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RHP User
16 years ago
so you think all us men are the same? LRE (wjo is relived all women are not the same)
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RHP User
16 years ago
funfunfun.....anyone that clicks off your cam doesnt deserve to watch you anyhow.I hope you blocked him so he would never be able to watch you again.The beauty of the block button...i say.Keep on having fun fun fun....Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im hearin ya.The fact that he ASKED you to cam...and that you were not only chatting in the chat room...but in msn as well...makes all the difference in my opinion. Oh...and lying and making out he was still watching?? What an asshole.Sure...if you were some random cam that he happened to click on for a second....I could understand that regular girls' viewpoint....but you werent....so I reckon she was wrong to say it.I agree with Leesa....block his ass....rude bastard...he doesnt deserve to get to watch you again.To paraphrase what a guy said in another post...picking up a keyboard doesnt mean you put down your manners.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have not been guilty of this offence (yet) but just the same, seems I'm the lone voice in support of that guy's actions... so I'm going tto voice my opinion in stronger tones..... (takes a deep breathe).... Man oh Man.. talk about a possessive bunch! Whatever happened to the group sex concept! I'm very surprised at you Leesa chiming in on this one..... of all people I would expect you to understand that sometimes one lover is not enough! Jeese. hehe Hugs Gaz<<<<< reflects on all the times he felt like cam surfing.... because sometimes one is not enough.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As the current world title holder for cam surfing I see where you're coming from Gaz, but I think the difference here is that he asked Fun for a cam...in my book that's just manners to stick with who you invite to the party... If you want to be a cam tart...mmmm tart....then go with who's on and have fun flicking...always saying hello of course!
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RHP User
16 years ago
actually Gaz... I was going to reply to this before I read your above post.... how about girls start to take a bit of responsability for their OWN actions, rather that it always being about the asshole of a guy?? so you cammed and he was a bit of a dick... so what? move on and take note... block if you will, but I agree with Gaz... I'm a "love many, love a lot" kinda girl too :P LOL I'm sorry but I really really don't see why he should have felt so lucky and honored and grateful... girls cam all the time! Thousands of them, probably.... why should he settle for one at a time if he can have many? P.S.... no double standards here... all of the above should go for girls too... and without them being called nasty names as well!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm not sure if this is the case or not, but if he is a platinum member he can dock cams. Maybe he was watching your cam and another at the same time? I think it's the same as chicks being able to juggle to or more conversations at the same time, we have the same skill, it's just evolutionally skewed to a different sense..... hehe Don't let it bug you kids......just keep having fun in the sandpit! xx mat sheen (it's overcast today)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Funfun was not "just camming"She turned her cam on because HE ASKED HER TOso they could cam TOGETHER.Are you people telling me that him just leaving without not only telling her...but acting like he was still there...is acceptable behaviour??I know its not a rule that we have to watch someones cam...but ffs...where's his manners???This lifestyle is all about maturity, honesty, respect and fun.I dont see any of those things in his (and many others) behaviour.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thank you to the positive comments...... as for this one "Whatever happened to the group sex concept! I'm very surprised at you Leesa chiming in on this one..... of all people I would expect you to understand that sometimes one lover is not enough! " that maybe be the case but why the heck would one pretend like they were watching when they indeed weren't..... OH and the bit about Leesa..... maybe she commented because she ACTUALLY read the whole post, instead of the part where i seem to be bad mouthing guys....... Which by the way I wasn't and no I dont think all guys are like that..... My bold statement was mearly a point i wanted to get accross to all guys... oh and i would say the exact same thing if it were a girl who had done it. as BJ said HE ASKED me to turn it on and HE was still pretending like he was watching when he wasn't ... if you think that its ok to be rude and without respect for others then so be it ... just don't do it to me... oh btw Leesa i told him to have a nice trip on the way to BLOCKSVILLE :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are few women in the main chat room who cam (understandably so with some of the assclowns in there) and even fewer that cam as hot and spectacularly as Ms Fun does! So play nice and even tho the blood flows somewhere else, watch your manners...
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RHP User
16 years ago
if he invited u to play on cam then he should have been watching u. and if he did decide to change came he should have at least had the manners not to lie to u about it. look at how ever many cams u like when ur just there but if u invited someone watch their untill they have finished ffs. mrs Bal
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Mr Sheen has a point... with normal membership you can only watch one person at a time... maybe he was a platinum member and can watch several people at the same time by docking their cams! Whoa.... and listen to you all cruxifying him for potentially doing no wrong! lmfao.. wont you be embarrassed then huh? :p Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
not sure of his staus .... but we can see if a person is watching us by the little blue arrows..... ohhh and guess what the little blue arrow was not on..... Do u think i would write a post if i didn't know what i was talking about and had all the facts.... I'm not a moron like u may think ....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Even if he was docking and watching multiple cams....one of them being funfun's....then the blue arrow would have been next to his name. It wasnt. So he was lying by acting like he was still watching her.FFS....she's not retarded...she knows how to tell if someone is watching her cam or not...sheesh.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gaz.....you have still missed the point......how many cams he was watching isn't the issue.....he asked funfun to cam up for him....was having a one on one convo with her....then the rude prick........switches her cam off AND PRETENDS to still be watching it( so is a lying prick as well)...also bear in mind she has talked to this guy before.....the least he could've done was told her he wasn't watching her cam anymore........derrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....IT"S CALLED HAVING MANNERS....
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
Hey funfun, It used to happen to me ALL the time...I tried to let it not worry me, but now I only turn my cam on if I WANT TO. I wont do cam to cam for fear guys will do it again. The moment i let my guard down i get hurt again in that kinda way. Yeah, sure its a sex site, sure we can watch cams, but when someone specifically asks to cam with u then yes, u expect them to be "with u" all the way. My pet hate is camming on msn with someone from rhp, only to find out they r in the chatroom whispering other women on cam as well. I guess the bottom line is we put ourselves in this position as well and some guys just use us as wank material. I can handle that if im in the mood, but i choose these days to leave my cam off more and more. Its not worth the mental frustration. Oh...and then u got the guys who wanna play the women off against each other...eg...why dont u do what ******* is doing on cam.....Yep...like i said...I CAM WHEN I WANT WHICH ISNT VERY OFTEN THESE DAYS.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok... Here's my thoughts in earnest, and noting that I'm simy being the devils advocate... Not siding with this unknown man. The guy sure seems like an arsehole but we've only got one side of the story. I don't think anyone is an idiot. Far from it. And I know about the blue indicator that signals you if that person is watching your cam. Now here's why I stll offer him the benefit of the doubt.... I am not a platinum member so I do not know whether everyone he is watching knows that he is still watching or whether, by reason that he has docked your cam, the blue indicator only shows up on the last person he added. Since I just have the low level account that only allows one cam, I don't know if every person being watched by a high level account gets a blue indicator. Technology is fallable and he is innocent until proven guilty And he has the right to be heard before being judged a total arsehole. In his absence the burden of proof still rests with his accuser, no doubt a delightful person either way by reason, for starters, that she has enough class not to name him. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
If that's the worst thing that happened to you today then you really don't have much to complain about.
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RHP User
16 years ago
happens.....players for ya......sad but true. .....sure as hell put me off doing the cam thing.....too many liars...think we stupid.. ...thankfully there are nice people to chat to still... seems morals and manners go out the window for many people in sex chat eventually ......just makes it harder on the nice guys... where ever they may be yoohoooo are you there??? lol...
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's all about having decency and proper manners...if ya ask a girl to do something, then ya gotta pay attention...very simple rule...i think ya have every right ta be pissed off funfunfun...and i feel really sorry for the next guy who asks u to turn your cam on...from a purely personal point of view...i can only do one thing at a time...so, it would be just too difficult for me to cam with more than one woman and also chat to someone as well...does that mean i have a one track mind?...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow, I've never heard anything but praise and compliments and sexy jibes for Gaz. Are there cracks in his armoury ? I see Gaz's Point ....But, the guy basically admitted he was in the wrong by replying "just chill" to funfun. Gaz we still loves ya, but I think i'm siding with funfun on this one. Are you just playing devils advocate to get a butt spanking ? Trev
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol Trev, I've been in a destructive mood I guess... I mean, do you ever have days where you just dont feel like being a Libra any more? hehe. Meah, It's the voices in my head, Trev. They tell me that the guy absent mindedly went cam surfing while the action was.... a little repetitive. Dont get me wrong here, I don't mind cam to cam, but it's not the most exciting sexual activity to indulge in. Oops.... am I getting myself in more trouble? hehe. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Only the depth varies when you in trouble...I am having a special on shovels and front end loaders you interested in purchasing one..As you might need to dig a bigger hole hahaha TIT
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RHP User
16 years ago
well...it is but it isnt.He did ask funfun to cam with him and should have at least stuck around til the finish...(lord...how many times have us gals done that to avoid hurting the feelings of a guy??)BUT THE FUCKER LIED AND MADE LIKE HE WAS STILL WATCHING HER!!!Then had the audacity to say "chill out" like she had no right to be upset!!Im not a fan of chicks chucking wobblies coz a guy watches them then moves on...but this case is different in that he instigated the camming. I think funfun has every right to be upset...and I hope that guy reads this and hangs his head in shame. I hope he has the decency to apologise to her too.And yes...Gaz...I dont know what's going on with you lately honey....but can we please have the happy, funny, cheeky Gaz back that we all know and love?? I dont know that Im liking this version that much.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
FUNFUN.....honey you are a hottie, dont let this get to you.The guys loss and he will never watch you again.....good girlKeep on having funfunfun babe, and remember next time he is in the room he cant see shit..lolDont you love the block button....I think what he did was down right rude...and honey you have every right to be very annoyed...KissesLeesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
My feelings go with funfunfun...... Think a few of you no why. She HAS every right to get mad! I know a cpl guys who have been caught out with a group of girls who do msn and chat..even have 2-3 windows open!...ppft..And they brush it off..And say things like ..*Just chill* ?????????? huh???? I am a plat member and I make no secret that I can dock.. what happened to the being able to dock 3 cams.I specifically paid for that privilage ( remember that Leesa and coast..lol) ..hahhaha..then we suddenly get knocked back to 2 cams..with no replies from admin on why.. anyways back to the topic..lol.. Ladies and gents.....If you ask someone to cam then do the polite thing and watch till the cumin end..lol.. As MissBJ said....How many times have us girls done that to aviod hurting a guys feelings...I have done this..WHY?? Cause it is bloody manners!!!! So Ladies and germs.lol....Play nicely in the sandpit....Think about those you started to play with then completly ignore!!...It is just plain rude!! Would you like that done to you if the heat was there between you both....Think about it!.. I had my sandpit shovel taken off me recently..Cause I made a stupid move...and buried myself..all because I stupidly got mad at a guy for getting the heat on with me and then he was off to another girl...I have deeply apologised to that lady...Sadly that story got twisted..anyways.. My again deepest and sincere apologize to the lady who did nothin wrong..Hope she will accept my apology again.. Funfunfun.....I hope your forum makes those out there who don't play fair get an understanding of how we girls feel..Guys show some respect..Understand that we girls do have feelings .we are not your 2 bit whores! We have lives and feelings.We are women who wish to explore. Don't come in here with your Double standards!! If you think you can play and are a stud and we are cheep..WAKE UP!! Cause guess what..You only lose the chance for making friends with some awesome women.. All the best to you Sweetpetite41xoxooxoxox I think I have said enough now......lol..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I still lub ya Gazza!*hugs*
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RHP User
16 years ago
good points and thanks for giving me something to think about. what you both post makes sense. none of this ever occurred to me since the last time i looked at someone on a web cam he was loading pairs of animals in to a large boat in the rain.LRE (checking the weather)
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's sucky and a bit of a shock when that happens. For me, I usually start with the assumption (not criticism) that most men (not all) are there to get as much 'action' as possible - cam time, perving time, dirty talking time etc, with as many people as possible. That's part of the allure of RHP. So when I start with that assumption I'm almost never troubled by anything a man does - including when he moves on - but am often pleasantly surprised when someone with manners and real decency comes along.Hugs for a shitty experience though fun :(xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Girls, but I'm as guilty as the next guy for cam surfing, what Gaz said was spot on. But then I've never asked a girl to cam just for me, so you girls have a valid point, if I ask you to cam I should stay focused you. But his response "ohh just chil" haha, what a tipical guy thing to say, I'm just as guilty og that too, lolRHG
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL this is hilarious seems like somone needs to get a life
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RHP User
16 years ago
sexykitten good to see you locked your profile gutless i say... well seeing as i cant send u a rude private message ill just do it here............ I have a life one of which i love ... you know nothing about me so get F&%KED the topic obviously caught your eye because you had stayed on to read it and even made comment at the end.. wak up to your self and dont come on here telling me i need to get a life when you don't know the first thing about me. sorry to those who read this but i wont sit back and be slagged by someone who has never met me....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm with funfunfun09, Why would you make such a comment. If someone has said something rude or offensive i reckon they are fair game, but this post is not rude or obnoxious in anyway. This is a valid post and funfunfun has a right to be pissed off or whatver. You know what I think? I think you had nothing meaningful to contribute so you just used the bitchy line cos you like the sound of your own touch type. Keep your nasty to yourself next time. lovebittenxoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
don't bite the kitten (or cat, as it seems). surely you both responded the way the cat wanted? the cat knows what it is, you don't need to point it out to us either as we can all see it to.save your energy for good. and don't be bothered by cattyness.LRE (knows how to ignore those that deserve it)
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RHP User
16 years ago
was he not watching what? the cam? or the screen?if his cam is remote....as ours is.... maybe you cant look at it and see the screen.....if its on the screen then its obviously different....
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