how did you discover your fetishes?

hi everyone just wondering about how you discovered your naughty little fetishes that you would go without anymore im just curious as id sexually like to try all kinds of new and exciting things but i dont really know what gets me going, i can watch bondage and all that but it doesnt get me any more horny etc. than just watching the girl. as i have never done anything really exciting or really have many fetishes (that i am aware of) i think it would be amazing to see into other peoples fetishes and see how they react to what really helps them just get so turned on they cant control themselves id like to know how other people realized within themselves the whole (hey i like getting fucked while dressing up as a bright pink bunny rabbit, or whatever your 'thing' is) and it was so much better than it would have been without also is it like one of those things that you do all the time or only on occasions where you feel you must put a bit more preparation into it