how does sharing your partener really make you feel?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Has not worked for me. But everyone is different so there is no standard I would think

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  MissBishere

  11 years ago

  there is no one size fits all or a "right way"

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It all depends on the "attitudes" and "views" of the two people in the relationship as to whether "sharing" will work. It also depends on how "selfish" or "unselfish" each partner is. Another factor to consider is the "strength" of the "bond" in the original relationship. My husband and I were in a "traditional monogamous relationship" for the majority of our married life. Now we both share. We feel neither jealously or hatred of the other parties involved. We still love each other deeply and there is honesty, trust and openness in our marriage. Sharing has enriched our own "sex" life and we love each other more because of it. We do what we feel is right and to hell with what other people think !!!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  There is no right or wrong...we all march to a different beat I have had partners where even the thought of sharing them made me nauseous but then one of my current partners its a different story.... I love sharing .....to see him do to other women what he does to me is such a turn on......and best of all is knowing that I am the one that gets to take him home and wake uo next to him

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I love the thought of watching my wife with another guy , I love watching her enjoy herself I think part of it is the fact that to the vanilla world she is so innocent but behind closed doors she is well not so innocent I'm not sure why but it turns me on to no end , even if I'm not there and have dropped her off at someone's place knowing while I am at work that she is having sex turns me on as well - Posted from rhpmobile

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  QLDtwo4fun

  11 years ago

  I enjoy knowing my partner is having a good time. Sometimes I like to be part of things, sometime I enjoy just knowing she is with someone else. As long as they look after her and she enjoys it, I enjoy it. I believe she feels the same way. It enhances our sexlife together, it strengthens our relationship, and there is nothing we can't share. And as JayJay said, I know at the end of the night I get to take her home.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  How many monoganous marriages/relationships end up in divorce. I have seen some stats say that a very high percentage of people cheat on their partners. Maybe we are br meant to be monogamous and most of us are not meant to be one partner for our whole lives either. I mean you look for different qualities in a partner when you are thinking about starting a family to when you are wanting to find a master to spank your bottom fit example. :P

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  That should say " maybe we are not meant to be monogamous "

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Sexuality is such a broad and varied thing, who can really say what is and isnt normal? I like what you like what i like. As long as those people are happy and not hurting anyone then they are fine by me :)

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  JohnAnn2227

  11 years ago

  It is some extra excitement for us and also another way that we show our love and trust for each other. We could stop tomorrow and our marriage would still be great. But we do love extra sexual partners and while we can we will continue with this lifestyle.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  How does sharing out partner really make you feel? = euphoric Is it 'normal'...define normal Can it be sustained?......only with honest communication, commitment & trust Is the so called 'traditional' monogamous relationship the right way?....if thats what the couple want the of course it is

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