RHP

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how to get replies

December 03 2014

as a newbie i know this is probably a simple question but it doesn't matter how much different messages i send to people they still read it and don't reply i was just wondering if there is a better way to get reply maybe more pictures ? try something different i don't know some help would be nice though :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Are you making sure you are in the persons preferred age range, and other requests? It may just take perseverance - you look and sound great!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    but a few tweaks I would make if I were you is to change your main pic to the black and white closer face image because the one you are using is a little blurry and you have a lovely smile. It sounds like you are a very genuine person but you say... like everyone you are here to have 'fun', and then back it up with the dreaded line of 'I'm looking for no-strings attached fun with people who seek the same.'As a woman I read that as just another guy looking for a quick fuck. (Unless that is what you are really looking for) Like pleasure_her said, make sure your target is someone who wants your attention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your black and white pics are great. You just need to improve your profile a bit. There was some good advice in the other thread you posted as well. I'm sure you'll find people, you're very cute and if - as your profile name indicates - you are Scottish and hence have the accent that is a definite panty-dropper...ahem bonus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Och aye. Nup, didn't work. Begorrah? :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    change your name to Scottishman39. And you seek women to bust your rectum with strapons !! They will be lining up to deliver you everything you cant take!! 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The guys respond to the OP's twin forum and the gals to this one. I can't see your profile as it's under review, but welcome!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Most ladies receive tens of messages a day so it has to stand out. Try a catchy title followed by some humour in text. A few lines wont do it either. Send less messages but put some thought into what she wants to here. You have heard the saying the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. The way to a womans bits is through her brain! Failing that msg some guys! Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Listen to the ladies comments here. Profile pic ...black and white ones great and you look good (in a manly sort of way ha ha). Make main pic Do you really want a full face picture in your public section. Why not try a cool muscle angle, tattoo one looks good. You could put your face pics in profile one and any rudies in profile 2. Good to have some intrigue remaining. Don`t put cock pics, or you shagging someone else in the pics you release on first message. It won`t impress anyone ...except may the Rockingham Cougars and we will never see you again! Change your profile name, it may put some people off and its something you can tell them later. What about a nickname you had or exciting sport you play...nothing rude or dirty tho. Do you want your name and history in your profile. You are clearly motivated and intelligent else you wouldnt have asked here....so put it in there. Tell them how hot your smile is, as a nice lady here did! Don`t ask for their pictures....ever. Charm them make them laugh and before you know it you will be pleasantly surprised. Don`t ask to meet in first message. I am no expert though and they can be fickle things these women! Before you know it the woman of WA will be banging your door down.....literally

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...from a fellow Scot. I agree, your black and white photos are very striking, and as for message content, a wee bit of respect and also humour go a long way. You should have a look in the chat room, get acquainted with a lot of the Perth ladies who frequent there. Good luck, but you'll be fine!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's just the nature of the beast here is all... Single man regardless of age will always struggle! Sure you younger guys will have more contacts but at the end of the day it can be harsh in the sand pit :)) stick with the person you are and the words in your messages as nothing is better then the real person in a profile...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    "Aye there lassy. Grounds keeper Willy here. Now I may look appear to be that alpha male that you're chasing....but let's be honest aye...I'm very choosy who gets to dine on my haggis!! But if all goes well I'll be burying my quarter pounder into you as if it were the caber toss..... PS. Nice profile, you made my blood sausage fatter!!" Disclaimer: I take no responsibility for the response you MAY receive which very well be fatal....but if you do send it, and it works, ask her if she's got a sister for me?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Under no circumstances should you use a boilerplate message. Tailor it to the person you are messaging. Think of it like a covering letter you would send with a CV where you personalize it to the job you are applying for. Do not call a woman babe in the first message. Do not send a message which just asks how they are. I get heaps of these they do nothing to inspire a reply. Do not send a message which brags about how good you are in bed. Even if you are awesome. Creativity and humour always go a long way. Good luck :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You all tried reading that in a Scottish accent too eh?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No trying hard for me....Och, aye, laddie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    casual racism is so 1950's and so not acceptable to toffee noses !!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I totally agree with snowpatrol121, he is right on the money from my perspective. A catchy subject always leads me to opening the message. A polite yet interesting message will get me to try. To be honest, guys with usernames like hung21 or pussylicker69 just put me off!!! Be original whilst still being decent. I wish you the very best of luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    *A polite yet interesting message will get me to reply. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Nice try mate ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Oie ow bout a bit a slap n tickle lov ? Assume you're seeking females? If no, exchange "lov" for "dude" I know it sounds a bit direct but works every time - just ask rated No 2 Aussie pick up line! Good luck mate.

  • NewHorizons6376

    NewHorizons6376

    11 years ago

    I read Rockingham WA hasn't changed. :/ - Posted from rhpmobile