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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Maybe, just maybe, he might be in some ways not exactly sure about how everything really works. Or maybe, he been so used to this "sneakiness" that he doesn't know how to handle you being so open about it. Nor really "clicked" in his head, that you wouldn't give a damn so long he don't hurt anyone in the process etc etc or maybe, just maybe, this guy's intelligence isn't cracked up to be... If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't care less and cut that "bond" so to speak. If one cannot be trusted, why keep trusting? Put it this way, If a person is hiding something from another, then he has a hidden agenda. If a person sneaks around behind someone's back, he also have a hidden agenda. Personally, I do not want to know what it was, nor be around as a victim. whatever it was.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Hi thelmalouise, If he was a true friend he would have told you about it or even asked if he had half a chance. Maybe he likes you too. Who knows. I understand your friend not going out with him. She feels betrayed as well. If you stay friends and he doesnt go out with her it will be very uncomfortable for a while till everyone gets over it. Maybe try all sitting down together and talking it out. Hope this helps. perthguy3470.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  You could certainly read a lot into that, but I'm not going to. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt. He obviously finds your friend attractive, sexy etc. etc. Dont beat yourself up about it, just come out and ask him, - so you found (insert name here) sexy? Let him respond. Good luck guys.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Sorry but you are being childish. If you really are like brother and sister, then who he sees and what he does really is none of our business. He probably knew how you would react and therefore asked your friend to keep hush. Me thinks you feel a LOT more about this fellow than you are admitting, otherwise why would you even be posting this.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  You fail to say if he is a friend with benefits or just seen as a plain everyday/longlife friend. Sure if he is one with benefits well then everyone looks after their own interests and taste. If not well how much more should/would he say. Does he tell you everything? Ultimately I am sure he is allowed to have some interesting factors in his life where he does not need to tell you everything that happens. Or is it that you are reading into this friendship too seriously and wanting more than just friendship out of it! After all you introduced them to one another!

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  i can understand how you'd feel a bit hurt.. but the comments above hold true a bit too. you would not be the 1st person in the world to have a best mate of the oposite sex want to shag them but not get involved past freindship.. and there fore say nothing about the atraction to you. or if you do shagg him already.. worry that if he dated your freind you'd feel jellouse, so keep it hush. remember, if seeing your freind goes to shit.. he can walk away more easily than if it was you. who (and i'm guessing here) he values.. remeber... sneekyness and lies are driven by fear. so he's scared of somthing. maybe it's hurting you, maybe somthing else.. you need to think about that. LRE (.....)

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  17 years ago

  thank you for you input to answer your questions yes i have had sex with this man yes i have feeling for him yes he knows he made me a promise to me the night he met my girlfriend and he broke it i think in the end thats what realt hurts but hey guys thanks life gose on just putting my girlfriend in a spot she didnt want to be in ate least she had enough guts to tell me

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