i change my mind.....

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  All sounds pretty lame, i guess thats the risk with 1st time couples, I think the lesson here is if your Bi and want to play Bi, give the straights and bi Curious people a miss. As for same room same partner, i couldn't call that swinging, more like exhibitionism! Keep at it the real deal peple are out there!

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  It could have been that while you were corresponding via RHP and msn, that couple found it easier to fantasise what they would like to do, but wehn reality struck they may have realised that they just couldn;t go there, which of course is an absolute pain for you, cos you would have rathered known that from the start. I have found if i have ever done the couple thing is just to go to a club,and if one lot doesn't work out then you just move onto another lot. cheers

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  playfulminx

  17 years ago

  Yep. We have been there. People with some strict ground rules that get broken in the heat of the moment (no kissing, saving orgasm with own partner etc. etc.)... Then they go all weird because they broke their own rules! lol I don't however think there's anything wrong with a woman being passively bi in that she doesn't mind receiving attention from women but isn't quite bi enough to actively reciprocate. Just so long as all that is discussed before meeting/playing. I enjoy men and women equally so if the lady of the other couple isn't into eating pussy then I'll leave that up to others to enjoy :) I would have more of a problem with meeting a women for one-on-one play if she wasn't into reciprocating tho.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  Isn't that what the lifestyle is about. Choices. We all have rules as couples and at any time throughout our play as a couple sometimes the rules change. You can be in the middle of play and then find that you are not enjoying something and you and your partner just dont feel comfortable, no one should ever do something they are not comfortable. Playing with others is simply not that important, it is you as the couple that are important and should always be number one in your mind. There are sometimes when we feel that it was right to start, but something didnt seem right when the time comes. That is our choice as a couple and it should never have to be explained. Remember and never loose focus on yourselves as a couple and remember rules change all the time. There is never one set of rules, after 17 years of playing on the scene we still find new ones sometimes and our rules change sometimes with different people etc.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  I find there are a lot of dreamers on the sight, people who fancy themselves as sexual giants, but in reality are more comfortable hiding in the shadows.

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