M44
i wanna know
September 14 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
yes i had to go and check out who you were and part of what couple hahaha but personally i wouldnt go near a married man....whether he had his wifes permission or not to me any man that has a woman sitting at home waiting is a deffinate no go zone sorry...but thats just me maybe your wife can also get on here and say your allowed...that might be worth something too but i have heard some woman prefer married men because of the NSA that goes with them good luck...you will find someone xx roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
..I dont mind married men but I do have a couple of issues with your profile if you are up for them that is.... 1. Male guest - many women will just delete the flirt because it gets boring playng flirt pingpong and will do this without having read your profile further 2. Your personal rules???? Ok I have ruled myself out now because I dont know what they are and why do I want to waste my time when it may not get that far. Only excahnge them in MSN??? Can we have some kind of hint please?? 3. Definately agree with MrsS though get your lovely wife to add a validation on your profile...I have a friend who did this for her husband and it definately helped out. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
so any suggestions on how to make my profile better?
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RHP User
15 years ago
No way! too Complicated! and what for? I like to be spontanous with my lover! call on phone anytime! if u married it cant work that way so there cant be that spark of two hot! bodies Indulging in free uncomplicated sex! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I just looked at your profile! Really do u expect any decent woman! when u have a wife, and then you have rules! lol as if a woman would want that! so what u looking for is a woman for a free fuck and give the rules! Wake up n smell the roses! I do give u credit for being honest! not like all the scum! Just for the record its not hard to work out the men that lie but are really married!
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok then jensta, if you have had a look at the profile how do u suggest i make my profile show im only looking for a friend with benefits and that my wife is ok with this as she too has already got a friend who she sees casually too?
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RHP User
15 years ago
and who says im not lying when i have already said in my profile that im married at least im honnest about it all. unlike some men we've met and found out that they're already got a partner or married and the partner didnt know (yes we have actually met them but no further than that) read big_cpl20s profile if u need the proof thanks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Please refer to my previous post... kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why u not getting any bites! I told u my opinion! Us woman have plenty to choose from so why would we choose a married guy when there a lots of hot single men, where it may go somewhere with the right person!
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RHP User
15 years ago
what did u mean by u asking for suggestions focus on ur previous statement?
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RHP User
15 years ago
The Rules??? Negative to start! If I had have looked at your profile prior to this thread I would have read it and gone NEXT! Would You be interest in a woman if in her profile was married and their was rules to be given Im sure u wouldnt like it! Im a Grown woman no mother fucker going to tell me what to do! especially when u have a wife! maybe its time to give her some rules! lol sounds like she running a muck! maybe leave your wife become single and then see how you go! ??? You say yous have a couples profile! so why not play together or join her with her playfriend! after all yous are married! share not separate! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
but referring to the fact that you are asking for suggestions and I had previously given you some... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok ive just registered for a 3 month subscription.
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I do have a question for you....if this is someone for you and you only to play with why does your wife have to meet her??? The way it is worded makes me think this is a sneaky way for the 2 of you to get another girl to join you BOTH not for you to play alone...and yes i realise you have a couples profile also but it still doesnt stop me from wondering.... Kisses Focus Oh and Jensta babe....I know a few couples on here who play to gether and play apart and some of them have singles and couples profiles...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Do whatever but dont complain! you got a wife lots of people dont have a partner so hopefully they find someone first im not into greedy!
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RHP User
15 years ago
focus. the only reason why she wants to meet the girl first is so she can get to know her as well and like our couples profile says she's curious to know what its like to see what its like being with a chick. and also she would like to meet her to hopefully be friends with her too (if that makes any sense)
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RHP User
15 years ago
IF i did married men id feel like i was being interviewed for the job im kinda with Jensta...im not getting the whole meet the wife and lets discuss my rules thing do you spend time with her root??? (sorry dont know what else to call him) have you met him??? had beers with him??? what type of a friendship does your wife want with your root??? way too many questions for me just to have some casual sex with a bloke sorry roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your post states: "my wife and i have a issue to sort out, as my wife has a friend with benifit she wants me to have one too". What's wrong with that sentence? You, dear Andrew have to want it for yourself. But I sense you are doing it for her. Goodluck :) Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I want it for me
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RHP User
15 years ago
WHICH i am not .. Id be running from this post ..the relationship .... it all sounds way tooo confusing ...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Me and wife have talked to though and we are both comfortable with how our marriage is and that's why we both are looking for playmates. I don't know what else to say or say on my profile to prove that either
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Andrew--dont get to upset as we are out there and its just a matter of time befor you find yourself a play friend.I myself prefer married guys as it causes less problems for us, as long as your a happly married man and i get to meet ya wife first, so chin up
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RHP User
15 years ago
We both have talked and are comfortable with our marriage to warrant both having a fwb hense we have a cpl and my profile on here. And I do want a fwb too not for the sake of pleasing my wife
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RHP User
15 years ago
We both have talked and are comfortable with our marriage to warrant both having a fwb hense we have a cpl and my profile on here. And I do want a fwb too not for the sake of pleasing my wife hense me putting up my own profile
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RHP User
15 years ago
what ive learnt for myself sassyme is that i want this for myself and not to please any1 (except for the woman im fucking) except me. the only thing i was making sure first was to make sure me and my wife were both happy with me playing and she is (check big_cpl20s profile (my wife and mine cpl profile). she is happy for me to play alone
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's good to hear that there are good lines of communication between you and your wife. So many people think that they 'know' the other person well enough to make assumptions...which kinda causes trouble down the track. So now, all you need to do is be friendly and patient and be open to finding that fwb. There is someone out there who is looking for the same as you ;P Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
hope so brightstar.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Had a read and there is nothing wrong with it at the moment. Dont beat yourself up over the women on here who have had a dig at you. Do what you and your wife want to do. Perhaps talk to some couples on the site? im sure they would like that too!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i know u guys aint having a dig. :) i thank everyone for their feed back.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TheRuffles'Had a read and there is nothing wrong with it at the moment. Dont beat yourself up over the women on here who have had a dig at you. Do what you and your wife want to do. Perhaps talk to some couples on the site? im sure they would like that too! like GT said we werent having a dig....we want a man that in the end will become ours if we want him too...that isnt being nasty, thats being upfront and honest and to be totally honest if Andrew was a single man looking id have my hand up...he seems sweet enough and he is a cutie maybe you read more into our responses than there was roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
GirlTuesday no you are not but some people think it is alright to be a bit more blunt than they should to be honest. I am single, and well it is easier for me to meet single girls as i have experienced the whole attached thing. One woman i was seeing was married and he knew about it but then all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and ditched me for another guy. both me and her hubby were baffled as we got on but it just got plain awkward and complicated.
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RHP User
15 years ago
how did i miss this little pearler. breakin out the popcorn and plonk after readin 4 posts fuck i love this place man........... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha i don't even drink plonk.......... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do a lot of messaging between linking up and suspect that a lot of single men do as well. Granted, I'm ambitious in who I choose to message and perhaps not what everyone would regard as "a catch", but I think you'll need to get used to this being a different game to what you've found as a couple, and far different to the experience that single women have. We men do the chasing and the women tend to take their pick - it's a numbers game, and they're stacked against you.I'm still here though - patience and diligence does pay off, no matter how depressing it is seeing floods of messages go unread, let alone answered. Your profile looks fine to me - I assume you've changed it based on earlier comments?
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ArtsyLusttty
15 years ago
State yourself "Open relationship" in the relationship status.Other than that, your profile is fine... it is only a matter of time and patience to find a friend with benefit ;)*been there and done that*s3d :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cheating isnt about SEX... Cheating is about LIES... I dont lie to my other half and he doesnt lie to me.. I never worry about where he is what hes doing because I know its just sex.. and its just sex for me with other guys to... Weve made a few ground rules in our situation but that works for us.. Doesnt mean every couple would survive with the rules we have... Every person and every couple is different! Im not saying there isnt a connection where sex is concerned... I never "fuck" for the sake of it.. But if both parties know the situation and are both consenting who is anyone else to judge what they do... Ive been cheated on in a marriage.. And Ive also been with a couple of married men... The only reason I left my ex husband was because he lied to me not because he had sex with the other woman.. If he had come to me and said he wanted to then I would have been GREAT and gone after my own "bit on the side" but... he lied about it.. THATS cheating... As for the profile Andrew... Nothing wrong with it... DG
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RHP User
15 years ago
very interesting reading .... hell where do you start... it is difficult being a single guy with all the gorgeous ladies living miles away.. I have been messaged by a few who messaged and posted and carried on for ages only to eventually have them admit they were still married or living with their boyfriends and just having a rough patch so they get on the site and carry on as if single, only they are neva going to meet you and you are basically just a boost to their waining ego..... Hell if its that bad get out ...Life is to short... and I can hear you all saying yes the blokes are the same ... all I want to say is it happens on both sides of the fence and, well as long as people are just up front and honest Why waste peoples time emotions and feelings..... they seem to forget that there are people and souls behind each profile.. We all just want to be loved for who we are ...so the less layers you put on the easier it is to know the real person.. Heck its hard enuff to find a good kisser let alone a great lover/ partner/ friend/ dance buddy and adventure seeker all in one... so go for it.. but be real to who you are and if you are lucky enuff to find the one ...hang on with both hands coz its a rare find ... I am single and available and willing to travel down to newcastle or sydney.... hell I would drive to queensland for that matter to meet with a nice lady... so apart from listing on datefinder which has come to zip I am thinking that its worth it just for the read ...and if by some amazing lineup in the stars were to occur and allow me to find the above great.. Love makes the world go around and its the people we love that we hold close to our hearts that we remember always.. Good luck to all of you ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Bfirm4U' very interesting reading .... hell where do you start... it is difficult being a single guy with all the gorgeous ladies living miles away.. I have been messaged by a few who messaged and posted and carried on for ages only to eventually have them admit they were still married or living with their boyfriends and just having a rough patch so they get on the site and carry on as if single, only they are neva going to meet you and you are basically just a boost to their waining ego..... Hell if its that bad get out ...Life is to short... and I can hear you all saying yes the blokes are the same ... all I want to say is it happens on both sides of the fence and, well as long as people are just up front and honest Why waste peoples time emotions and feelings..... they seem to forget that there are people and souls behind each profile.. We all just want to be loved for who we are ...so the less layers you put on the easier it is to know the real person.. Heck its hard enuff to find a good kisser let alone a great lover/ partner/ friend/ dance buddy and adventure seeker all in one... so go for it.. but be real to who you are and if you are lucky enuff to find the one ...hang on with both hands coz its a rare find ... I am single and available and willing to travel down to newcastle or sydney.... hell I would drive to queensland for that matter to meet with a nice lady... so apart from listing on datefinder which has come to zip I am thinking that its worth it just for the read ...and if by some amazing lineup in the stars were to occur and allow me to find the above great.. Love makes the world go around and its the people we love that we hold close to our hearts that we remember always.. Good luck to all of you .. Hi Bfirm4U, great reply to this post! Andrew28 it's hard, I am trying to understand your situation although I am confused as to who is pleasing who. Not digressing from this thread, fyi Bfirm4U, Your number cannot be seen by other guests. xxx xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
was thinkin it was in datefinder for those cleva enuff to find it .. thanks blackstilettoes xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm with Black stillettoes on that but just to make the point, not getting on my soap box or anything but if you genuinly love and care for your wife then why arent you looking to each other for that satisfaction and vice versa.... why lóok outside your marriage???? sorry I might be old fashioned but why not think of ways you can spice things up between the two of u instead of looking outside the marriagefor third and fourth parties, speaking for myself if and this is a long bow to draw but you put a single guy and a married guy in front of me ( and no I'm not looking at the moment) single would win any time.... Hope you find what is your looking for I'm just putting my opinion in the mix'.... Hope I dont get shot for saying this but free speech and all....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'phoenixlady64'I'm with Black stillettoes on that but just to make the point, not getting on my soap box or anything but if you genuinly love and care for your wife then why arent you looking to each other for that satisfaction and vice versa.... why lóok outside your marriage???? sorry I might be old fashioned but why not think of ways you can spice things up between the two of u instead of looking outside the marriagefor third and fourth parties, speaking for myself if and this is a long bow to draw but you put a single guy and a married guy in front of me ( and no I'm not looking at the moment) single would win any time.... Hope you find what is your looking for I'm just putting my opinion in the mix'.... Hope I dont get shot for saying this but free speech and all.... well said roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'phoenixlady64'I'm with Black stillettoes on that but just to make the point, not getting on my soap box or anything but if you genuinly love and care for your wife then why arent you looking to each other for that satisfaction and vice versa.... why lóok outside your marriage???? sorry I might be old fashioned but why not think of ways you can spice things up between the two of u instead of looking outside the marriagefor third and fourth parties, speaking for myself if and this is a long bow to draw but you put a single guy and a married guy in front of me ( and no I'm not looking at the moment) single would win any time.... Hope you find what is your looking for I'm just putting my opinion in the mix'.... Hope I dont get shot for saying this but free speech and all.... well said roxxy Hell yeah soap box bring it on, go girls. Again not digressing, no idea how to utilise datefunder lol...have msgd help no response...I am no dumb ass xxx
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