RHP

RHP User

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i’m new to internet ’dating’...HELP!???

July 13 2006

So i’ve jus joined a red hot pie recently...and become slightly obsessed, i get so xcited when people check me out, and send me flirts... But i am slightly troubled at the thought of stalkers and men posing as women... i’m also interested in xpanding my horizons; and attending a ’swingers party’... any suggestions, tips or pointers on how to enjoy my red hot pie xpirience? (keep in mind, i’m only a ’guest’, not a member...yet)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    hahha read ur profile thats pretty funny ;) But an option is to go to the parties Raver ;) ....Oh & Yes do be aware for the men pretending 2be woman....lol......cheers!! Lil Miss Temptxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Ok, so 2 serious matters...did i mention posting a pic, ha ha ha. About guys posing as women, here is my tip: If ur talking to them & ur a little unsure, start asking them very intimate questions about periods & birth control etc, there response should give u a fair idea. U could insist on a pic (clothed etc), AFTER they have given u a description of themselves, so if they r full of shit, chances of them getting pic of someone who looks just like what they described will be a tough call. As for stalkers: Just b careful when talking to people that u dont give away info that can trace them to u, like who u work for, names of streets etc, and when u do meet, do it in public away from ur usually turf... Now tips: *When sending a flirt/message, READ the profile carefully, if ur not what they want, don’t waste each others time. *B polite, please & thanku r so simple, yet so many guys log on & think just because a girl/guy might like sex, that they can say or do anything *DONT LIE! If u get caught out, girls will talk..... *If ur chatting in th chatroom, dont use instant msg’s unless as ur asked too 1st, it is a pain in the ass on the receiving end...& dont ask 4 a girls msn in ur 1st sentence. *Be upfront about what ur after, most will appreciate the honesty & u may save urself lot of time. MOST IMPORTANT, do what ur comfortably with & have fun! I’m starting to get some info about swingers parties too, seems single men r not overly welcome.....will let u know if i learn more interestin stuff! Goodluck with it all, sweet_girl