M43
im not having any luck
November 16 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
So Teebass one thing you haven't told us hun is how you approach these women, or couples. I'm not saying you could be doing this, but I do chat to alot of guys, and the first thing I do hun, is say "Hi, how are you", and mate if I get a reply of *I'm horny* or something to that affect, then it is one of the major turnoff for me big time. I'm not sure if that is the case with any of other girls on here. I must admit there is time wasters and ego trippers but we're all not like that, So either try a different way of saying Hi, or change your style of people. Kate x
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RHP User
16 years ago
meh not another one...i really can't be f**ked atm, back to the Voddies and Rammstein! cheers on another fab monday night!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i posted something similar on girls ask...... as i was told this site is mainly for fb's
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Teebass Don't worry - I've been on here for years and it's always been that way. I've been ignored, been stood up, had time wasted - sometimes by members who seemed real enough and others who were obviously getting off on some sort of role-playing thing. But I have had some wonderful chats with some of those you'll probably come to know are real and have even met up with one - didn't go where I might have liked but I made more of a friend by just being there to chat through issues she was having over a coffee. I don't know - if I was more one-track-minded, self-focussed and mercenary I might have seen more 'action' but that's not me. Instead I've had a good time online, had some genuine experiences in just being there for others. I'm still here and staying hopeful of a bit more if it comes (and it probably will - lol). Maybe Out_goin is right - maybe girls have more likelihood at getting what they want out of us mere males - lol. Just be real - the rest will unfold as it will. Know
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't know what u expected mate, but i guess it's not all gonna happen instantly for u. Whilst im sure many blokes here wish u could just msg any girl here and have them meet up with u that day for the most amazing, mind-blowing sex of ur life.......the reality is that will very rarely happen. Just gotta be u, hang in there, give it some time........the thrill of the chase is all part of the fun i guess and getting to know someone better...finding out what makes them tick and all that. Side note - yeah there are obviously some time-wasters and fake accounts on here.....but the majority of people are legit.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I came here initially for casual sex in mind but I've actually made some e-friends who I enjoy speaking to more than the people I socialise with, lol. It's not because we talk about dirty stuff, because we don't, I guess it's because it's 'new' at the moment, and I enjoy getting to know people.
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RHP User
16 years ago
patience...be yourself...i forgot to check if u r a paid member, if not, ya probably won't have a huge amount of luck, unless ya count .00000000001% a huge amount...hehe...read people's profiles...yes, u can be norty and email gals not in ya age group...as long as u tell them that u read their profile but u wanted to say hello anyway...grinsya profile is a bit bare...maybe add some more in there...wot ya like ta do...r ya funny...interests...some gals love a guy if he has a motor bike...yanno what i mean...be honest...be respectful...date with expectation of friends...if it goes further...woohoo, then enjoy...ya have a nice face...show off some more of ya body...gals love having a perve at ya...well, hope that gives ya some ideas...check out other profiles and see what people say about themselves...and fa gawds sake...make sure ya spel korrektly in da forums, udderwise da forum speling kops willl get ya...lolcheers and if anything, have fun and be happyjose...not an ps...aww gees customer69...ya could have emailed me..., but good onya...have fun and enjoy
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah honey i have been told by many on here that it a girls playground which i guess from other posts its obvious that the men outweigh the girls on here ten fold which is probably y ur not having much luck. dont b discouraged - there are always a few time wasters / strange ones but there are legit people on here too wanting to hook up. remember girls may take things a little slower for fear of crazy stalkers! for me what u read in my profile is wot u get. if u match what i want & have taken the time to find out what i want then i would b more than happy to meet up - i dont wana sit on here for hours chatting, im after a physical connection not eveyrday conversation (so for u guys asking me how my day / weekend was & nothing else go ask someone else as i have friends for that) I would rather see if there is any chemistry than waste my time chatting to someone for days, weeks, months on end...A little bit of emailing / exchanging pics is ok tho - gota get the ball rolling somehow now the other thing is lets say a girl gets 100's of emails..well if she is clever she will pick out the ones she likes, add the hotties to the hot list & start working her way thru the meet ups until she finds what she is looking for. u may b the next man in waiting so have patience suga - take everyone else's advice too & READ THE PROFILES. When u email her tell give her something she hasnt had before, seduce her or excite her then maybe u will increase ur chances. Hope this helps x
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2more4fun
16 years ago
How serious are you about meeting ppl tho? You have a template profile that says sweet FA about the real you and three pics, two of which are the same. I understand that you're new to online dating/socialising but the only thing that's easier about it versus real world dating is that you can chat up people from the comfort of your own home while wearing trackie dacks. You still need to put the effort in to be charming and attractive.I reckon be patient and pimp up your profile!
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RHP User
16 years ago
That was an awful joke Trish, lol.Teebas, what's the problem you have? Is it getting people to respond to your messages, or is it that you start chatting to someone and then they're unwilling to take it further (which they are totally within their rights to do so).Because I've had a couple of people who didn't even have the fucking decency to send a message back after receiving a couple of messages that weren't rude, or sleazy, or anything along those lines, and that is my number one gripe on here. It's common decency and politeness to respond, whether it's a message that took a while to type out or 'not interested sry', hardly a chore.Screw them anyway, obviously not worth my time because I don't want to be with someone who is rude and ignorant!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Teebas unfortunately you will find a hundred other posts asking the same question if you tried. As has been mentioned it is a womans playground. They come and pick out whatever they want leaving the rest to wonder why they aren't being noticed. However the point mentioned before of having 2 pics the same, whats the deal with that. I'm hoping it was a mistake otherwise it makes you look a bit stupid. You have a couple of nice girls listed as friends that have been online recently. Maybe you are talking with them, maybe not. In any case they obviously noticed you to some degree.So really what are we all trying to say here. No it isn't your fault. No you aren't doing too much wrong, but not too much right either. Will you meet someone ...maybe but there are no guarantees. There are plenty of guys on this site that have been here for years and only met 1 or 2 females. Thats not to say there is anything wrong with them either. Just that supply is far outweighed by demand and supply is very thin.All I can suggest is try as you will and expect nothing in return so when/if you do get something it will be a pleasent surprise
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RHP User
16 years ago
Teebas, i am only new to rhp and was very suspicius of the site as far as meeting anyone goes. I have since met a lady on here that is gorgeous, sexy and we will be mates for life. Its not all about sex, friendship goes a hell of a long way, if ur only after a one nite stand it may take u a long while to meet someone, probably easier going to a nite club, take it easy man and u will find someone, i have met a friend for life and couldnt be happier.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mizzjane09, There are rules gir and put up a pic like that one?!! Thats just playing ruthless! Do you really excpect a sensible answer( no offence feminists + 'alien species' ) to anything you say? Anyway, its good to see that some girls go by emotions. You have made made my day. Thx.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey there friends are hard to find specially when you need some one to talk to but over the last few days i have found a guy who needed my help not in sex wise but just as some one who he can chat wiv about things we are best of mates .. its even like my house mate we are best mates and i met him on here its really cool also fwb isnt bad to have ......they say you cant pick your family but you sure can pick mates
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RHP User
16 years ago
mate it,s not like a pizza you aint going to get it at ya door i guess the best you will get is a introduction about your self then you have to put the hard yards in it,s still people you are getting to know just like at work it take,s a bit of time and people skills you are a social guy, or not if not no site will really be able to help you unless you have 6 pac of abs 10 inch ,s over 6 f, great looks, and a killer personalit,y just like me, then you might have a few woman hitting you up lol i wish that,s not me, at all or 96 percent of all guy,s the rest of us have one comon thred we don,t give up, you don,t work it out you just get better at it it,s called work , work on your self then you will find dateing easy like look at all those woman i want to sleep with them all well not all of them hehe, but the truth is heap,s of them hot or not just are not for me as i,m not for them the same with you but if you want a gangbang it still won,t come knocking on ya doorthe more you fail the more you try harder to get something right thats how people at the top get their it,s drive mate don,t think about sex think about the person sex come,s if you show thought well i,m fucken dr phil now overnout
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey, I'm near twice your age and pretty dusty above the shoulders but have met many sensational women here and currently with the woman of my dreams... You have to remember that some of these ladies get over 100 messages a week. One lady that I spent a lot of quality time with showed me her RHP in box after I told her that I had 9 women contact me in a week . She had over a thousand randy blokes look at her profile in a f*#king month. Mate be real, Be honest, Be a man.Forget the bad boy crap.. A real woman can pick the differnce between a D/H and a genuine bloke in a sentance. Look at what out_goin has to say.. absolutely spot on. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi mate....I'm new on here let alone any dating sitesI have a mate who's a pro(and not in the sense that he works the streets although that would be funny)....anyways, he's on about 4-5 dating sites and has probably met a lot of women through(that I can safely vouch for)....whether they be fat, old, young and are head turners, he's met, done and dusted....well I guess he does have the looks to back him up and what his photos show on his profile is the real deal which I guess women who like eye-candy like the next bloke, would go forfunny thing is when we hit the bars, the guys left his balls in his laptop so he's quiet and plays the shy guy(very weird)so moral to my little story is, if you have what women are looking for then flaunt it and don't like sales, don't be afraid of the rejection....it's 50/50 as long as you don't act like a dickas for myself, I'm here chasing the white rabbit whenever my boss is out of the office...if i catch a bit of tail then hey its a bonus, but my life ain't going to be depending on it....
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RHP User
16 years ago
act the oppisate to how ur acting now see if that works...plz dont say ur first message to chicks is "hey how are ya?" or "read ur profile..check mine out" cause BANKRUPT!!! be original
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RHP User
16 years ago
We're a couple with single female playmates/friends who on accassion, sometimes have room for a single guy & i've sent a flirt (if i send a message would you reply?) to single guy's (& yes i did read their profiles & they were looking for couples/groups) on 2 different occassions & didn't even receive a response. We always respond, no ifs' buts' or maybe's its only courteous. So it happens to us too!
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RHP User
16 years ago
hello people, i'm wondering about the women on this site and the messages they post on there profiles, they range from-- looking for well hung guys for no strings attached sex, bi-female wanted for single/married couple, just wanting to be f@#@%d by horny guys, really want somebody to take me and give me my first anal and so on and so on, but, and here's the but, when you message or instant chat these woman you don't recieve any sort of reply, my question is this, do woman get off on writing the sort of things they would like to be doing and that's satisfaction enough for them, i would really like to meet the woman who really means what she writes, we are all here i thought for the same things and age looks shape and size really shouldn't make any difference as mostly we are looking for sexual relief from people we find who have the same tastes as eachother, ( hence the adverts for preferences ) let me know what you think
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