M33 F33
introducing others to the bedroom
January 13 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
You've put up a couples profile .... with bugger all information on it ..and yet you haven't spoken to the other half yet ?? Yeah good luck with that. !!!!! The key to wanting , requiring or desiring anything in a relationship is honesty and open communication Yep you have to talk to her but more importantly you have to listen, respect and be open to what she has to say in return !!! There's your starting point and you may want to hide your profile until you've had "the talk " otherwise your profile is somewhat misleading to others and I know if I was your lady I would be furious with you for being so presumptuous Good luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
to show her the profile that you have here...I assume she doesn't know.Then ask her if she thinks what you have already put in your profile is something she feels comfortable with and if not make any changes together.Make reference to your previous conversation about threesomes ,maybe she will be very open to it still. Finding a couple or single to play with first is probably not a good idea,it would be a bit confronting for her in my opinion.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you want your new playmate to respect your bedroom,get your partner to organize thier vintage vinyl and board game collections on the shelves properly ordered. Make sure the floor mat is the right way up and washing hamper is not overflowing. The model aeroplanes hanging from the ceiling should also be dusted.Oh... That's my bedroom ~smirks~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Show her the profile and go from there. You might be surprised ! The fact that she mentioned a 3 some before is a good start . She initially is going to be pissed at you for going behind her back to make the profile but just let her have her feelings and take your punishment and then she will come back intrigued to see what it has to offer!! Your girlfriend is twenty and has a lot to learn about herself . I was a confident 20 year old but now looking back I had so much learning and growing to do till I become the sexual being I am now . As women we sometimes has trouble really being honest about our sexual desires as we have be programmed that way through history . I also believe that each relationship has only has so much sexual energy and if you are the more sexual charge she may step back cause she feels she can't match your kinky sexual needs. Just a idea She might think its cause you want to sleep with another women , so maybe start with a threesome with a guy to show that you can let it be about her sexual needs and she can be the star of the show . Good luck with this issue , if your both on the same page you can have lots of fun and this could be the beginning of lots of adventures!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
1. If she remembers the conversation and 2. If she feels the same interest she felt before. Let her know you are also interested and work on your profile together. I'm the last person that should give advice about relationships but I think that openness and honesty and 'testing the waters together' is a good approach. LRE : my star wars Lego collection is always well presented. :-P
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playful4u
13 years ago
Like Quoting 'Cock_Suckers' Show her the profile and go from there. You might be surprised ! The fact that she mentioned a 3 some before is a good start . She initially is going to be pissed at you for going behind her back to make the profile but just let her have her feelings and take your punishment and then she will come back intrigued to see what it has to offer!! Your girlfriend is twenty and has a lot to learn about herself . I was a confident 20 year old but now looking back I had so much learning and growing to do till I become the sexual being I am now . As women we sometimes has trouble really being honest about our sexual desires as we have be programmed that way through history . I also believe that each relationship has only has so much sexual energy and if you are the more sexual charge she may step back cause she feels she can't match your kinky sexual needs. Just a idea She might think its cause you want to sleep with another women , so maybe start with a threesome with a guy to show that you can let it be about her sexual needs and she can be the star of the show . Good luck with this issue , if your both on the same page you can have lots of fun and this could be the beginning of lots of adventures!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You have to be a member to take a look, so you could let her know that you were thinking about the threesome she mentioned and thought you'd be proactive and take a look, in my eyes I would be giving you brownie points for making up a couples profile and not a singles one. I would be mentioning it ASAP though, it might look a little funny to mention it down the track, not that I think there is a mention anywhere of how long you have been a member, if there is it would be well hidden... also if she gets on here and finds this post... maybe you could make a kind request that they shut the thread down when you have all the info you require... as suggested by the others, being above board and honest is the key here if your intentions are true. Good luck.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do you really have model aeroplanes hanging from your bedroom ceiling?? I'm curious (aka nosey!) ... KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
...mow the front lawn just to make sure there were no Japanese soldiers hiding in the rather tall grass that didn't know the war was over, how awkward...to have one of them jump out and scare away my guests, first impressions can have a lasting effect. *grabs the Brasso and lemon oil*I would also probably tidy up the large brass lever entrance locks and the hardwood door that opens into my bedroom...fade to black.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do.. It's a precious gift that was given to me by a lady 20 years ago. In my house it hung in the computer room.. but in this house, being shared (sort of) it's in my bed room.Most people who've shared my bedroom with me are friends who know me. So it's fine. Though last April I was bringing someone home who barely knew me. Half way home, I thought about the model plane, the boardgames and all the vynil and thought shit how will I explain this? It turned out she thought it was all cool ~smiles~Quoting 'keepingkarma' Do you really have model aeroplanes hanging from your bedroom ceiling?? I'm curious (aka nosey!) ... KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would strongly advise talking to your partner. Choose a time when you're both relaxed, and when you're not about to have sex. You say she mentioned threesomes once before, was just casually? during sex? or was there genuine interest? I probably wouldn't show her the profile until I had gauged whether she'd actually be interested or not, then I would engage her with writing the profile, adding pics and searching. You really need to have a good idea and agreement of what you are both wanting before you get a profile going. Don't surprise her with it, unless you know it will be a good surprise. Couples who aren't on the same page are no fun at all and nobody wants to be dragged into any dramas because of a lack in communication.
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RHP User
13 years ago
before you write a profile ?Maybe delete it and start again, this time with her permissionIt doesn't say a lot anyway
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RHP User
13 years ago
dont....under any circumstance, show her the profile without first sounding her out on the idea....theres an issue of trust that you may well have already broken, just by coming here in the first place... show her a dvd, or a few even, see if they arouse her......add a conversation to sex play that includes others...ask what arouses her...talk about fantasies, experiences, whatever....if its all good and promising....ask if shes seen the ads on late night tv....show her the site perhaps....and go from there. dont make a profile without her being there and doing it with you....so delete anything you may have written......if its about the two of you....it has to be done together....every step of the way, or its going to feel, to her, that its all about you.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
... I should have messaged you personally (oops). Sorry op for going off topic. Bends over to receive punishment .... KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you watch porn then try watching some with group sex in it. See if the idea still appeals to her and discuss it openly if it does. Anything other than open honest discussion isn't going to work. Mark and vixen- Posted from rhpmobile
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