is it a turn off

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  Horny4you

  8 years ago

  its not a turn off to me

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  It is because many guys are jealous. They may think something is goin on in the background. Plus it is because they might not want to share you with your guy house mate or any other guy.. I don't mind if you have a house mate. I can share😉 I am not a jealous type.

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  bearstogether

  8 years ago

  Personally I think its not so much a turn off as it is an insecurity issue, silly guys will think the girl will play up with a male housemate., a few drinks etc and it will happen, as far as the male thought goes anyway. If a guy is secure abiut Hus relationship and trusts the girl it won't be an issue, just my two cents worth - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  People with those insecurities who their jealous minds start to wonder and imagine what is not happening. If they do not trust you from the start best to not start anything with that person at all. Why should you explain to anyone if there is not a wrong doing at all. Contagious because lack of trust can make other people become insecure themselves. That guy or guys loss if they are insecure because of your house mate

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Unsure why it would matter to guys just because you live with a male, if they're jealous types, I guess you'd have to ask yourself if you'd be comfortable with that anyway? I've had guys who live with a female housemate, offer her as a third 😉 she was available upon request I wondered if she knew she was being offered in this way 😀

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  But it does. I have an older male housemate who lives in the back half of my house. Known him since I was 15. I've lived with him for couple years this time but have shared a house with him on and off through the years. Closest thing to family I have. No sex. But have had couple guys who have thought it was a good idea to make me choose between him and them. I no longer see them. Trust is an integral part of any relationship. Their jealousy was more their own insecurities shining through. My housemate is very respectful when it comes to my relationships and gives me plenty of room in my house plus with a door it can be divided in 2 so plenty of privacy. There was no reason for it at all. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yup there is a pattern of guys having insecurities. Friends and family first. History second. Sounds like your housemate has been support thru the years.

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