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is it me or how I look in the pic

February 24 2015

I had been on here for a month now aand every flirt or the messege I sent was turned down or no reply. Now I have lost all the confidence in pursuing my fantasy to play with people from this site. What do you all think about this? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    11 years ago

    Have you not asked this before ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You posted a similar topic on the first of February...I am not sure what you are hoping to hear that is different to what people said then...but good luck xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...your expectations of this site may be a little unrealistic. Paying a membership for here is like buying all the tools, materials and instructions to build a table...but you still have to put in the effort to make the thing. If you want to buy a table already made, you might be in the wrong place. Don't let it upset you...just adjust your mindset...or start building. Patiently. : )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you look fine to me but check out the other Adonises you are competing with. Your pic is fine, could be sharper as it is a little blurry but you still get a good idea of what you look like which isn't hideous either. Your profile is littered with spelling errors and doesn't help you look intelligent (I realise you probably are intelligent enough, just some people assume you are dumb if you can't spell). I might also guess after reading your rather polite profile with lack of kinks and the check box that you are a gentle lover that you are a nice guy, and you know the saying about nice guys! They come last. As much as I hate to say this because as much as us women whinge and bitch about the arseholes, they are the ones who get laid because they ooze confidence and sex appeal. I am not saying be an arsehole but maybe you need to be a bit more forward. Get your sexy on and woo some women. There is no harm in being a bit cheeky and there is a fine line between that and being vulgar so try a few tactics and see what works for you. If you aren't getting any responses now then it can't get any worse. And for what it is worth, you aren't the only guy who complains they aren't getting any replies. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Spell check your fucking title its only got 5 words in it and 2 of them are spelt wrong. Plus since when is funful a word? It may as well say I am stupid, so that is not a good first impression......spell check is your friend not photoshop.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    it's how you look...... At the situation...... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Maybe because most women are looking for some strings not NSA which usually means blow and go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    when they join RHP ? To meet someone ? Ok that's a fair expectation, but like going down the pub for the night, there's no guarantees of a hello being said directly to you , let alone a hookup Do you think that just because you have paid for a membership, this gives you a entitlement ? no it doesn't , it gives you the ability, a tool via messaging to make direct contact with those that you feel may be a possible hookup or a budding friendship or someone just to chat with. That is all. The rest is purely up to you So if you are being constantly rejected, you have look at the reasons why and that starts with your profile Ok you have a pic up, so that's a good start, a bit blurry, but more than most guys have and its not another tedious cock shot. Your actual profile is full of spelling mistakes indicating to me that you are a person that cares little about how you portray yourself to the world, so this means to me (and this may just be me) that you are not a person who pays attention to details, so IMHO means that you will display the same lax attitude in bed - deal breaker for me. I'm happy to be wrong in this case but this is how I feel about sloppy profiles You say you consider yourself "good looking" - beauty is subjective and truly is in the eye of the beholder, so its probably a statement I would remove from the profile, but that's what I think and my opinion is but one Your profile though is ok, not overwhelming and not much different from the thousands and thousands of male profiles on here. Yes you have a ALOT of competition and yep for us women we have the upper hand here simply because there is not as many women as men , that's all. Now when your are flirting and messaging. Are you contacting people of which your profile fits their criteria ? If not then I can pretty much guarantee that you will receive zero replies. There is nothing more annoying (to me) than people contacting me that A) Haven't read my profile and B) contact me when they don't fit my search criteria. I used to reply to all messages but now I don't with those who don't match what I'm looking for - I've stated quite clearly what I would like . If you cant be bothered reading my profile, that's ok, appreciate you not contacting me and move on And then there's the message you send Is your message to people a template or do you read the profile and make a effort to address the profile ? Are you polite ? Do you put some effort into your message or do you message like "Hi how ya going ? Watchya doing, wanna play ?, I have a big cock ?" If you have honestly addressed all the issues that I can think of and you are happy that you are presenting a true representation of yourself, then my friend, all you can do now is be patient and quietly persistent, without being aggressive, or whiney that you aren't getting a response to your communications. Previous posters have mentioned your poor spelling and yet when I've checked your profile just now, you have not made corrections to it, so I really do wonder are you open to taking on peoples advice after you started a forum asking why you weren't getting contact ? Or are you just trolling ? You have 3 friends on your profile so you must have had some success in making contacts or are you a person who just contacts ladies with friends requests and they accept without them having had any contact with you ( I never understand that) So in closing again I say if you have created a profile that is a small and interesting snippet of who you are, then like the rest of us, you just have to wait it out. Build it and they will come

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Mr. Azoz here offering my 2c worth as someone who will at some point pick a few guys for Mrs. Azoz. No, we do not want or acknowledge unsolicited flirts, messages etc for the usual reasons. Hopefully you heed those warnings on couple profiles if you peruse them. There ARE couples though who will allow it and respond, so if you haven't gone looking there, you may want to try that. Be prepared though to sift through a LOT, be rejected a LOT, and still ignored. You are unfortunately in a world where you are a commodity, and the lowest of the low on the pecking order. Just the nature of this world. My suggestions, take them or leave them folow: 1. Read Swingland. Written by a single male, aimed at educating single males about the swinging world. 2. Take previous advice from others and fix all your spelling. 3. Couple more well done pics. Be natural, but make sure they are flattering, clear, and tasteful. 4. STAND OUT! Maybe have a woman you trust and respect critique or help you write it. What makes you special or interesting? You're just one in an unending supply. 5. Try a club and see if you can win the respect of a couple or 2, even if you don't play. Get them to write you a validation. A lot of couples want a sincere, humble yet confident, RESPECTFUL, honest man of integrity who still values chivalry, to join them in the bedroom, or simply please the wife alone. BUT WE CANNOT ADVERTISE IT DUE TO THE TYPICAL BEHAVIOUR OF SINGLE MALES. 6. Did I mention STAND OUT? It's that important. Re-read #5. That is how you stand out... tricky part is conveying that, if in fact you are that man. 7. If you are after a relationship... I think you best look elsewhere. 8. Do your time. Even as a couple that feels attractive and worthy, its a numbers game. This is fantasy land. A lot of people THINK they know what they are after, and I'm sure enjoy the hunt. Then the reality of contact hits, and they vanish. That and life just gets in the way... this is an adjunct to life for all of us. We're busy professionals with lots happening, so this generally is the first thing to go when time gets tight. Thicken up the skin, don't let it get to you, and for heaven's sake DON'T go negative. Lot of guys have shot themselves by lashing out at the community and being negative in general in forums and profiles & such. May as well just whack it off if you're gonna do that. Nobody is gonna feel sorry for you and throw you a lay over it. As I said, take it or leave it, Mate. Good luck to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Spelling mistakes make people look stupid. It also says you're not willing to put much effort into things. Think about it -- if you're that lazy about checking for spelling, how lazy will you be elsewhere? The other thing is you might consider adding another picture or two. I rarely respond to profiles with only 1 picture. Lastly, maybe consider spending a bit more time in the forums and flirt with the ladies and their responses there. Almost everyone on this site enjoys tasteful, playful banter.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The poor guy has stated that he is losing confidence in here and then everyone just slams his spelling. Seriously give the poor guy a break, we are all guilty of hitting the wrong key every now and then. And since when does incorrect spelling every now and then determine the intelligence of a person.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    gross generalisation on the everyone slamming him, poor wording

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'funbuns43' The poor guy has stated that he is losing confidence in here and then everyone just slams his spelling. Seriously give the poor guy a break, we are all guilty of hitting the wrong key every now and then. And since when does incorrect spelling every now and then determine the intelligence of a person. I'm with you funbuns43... The guy asked for assistance and out come the spell police .. FFS.. if you have nothing positive to say, dont say anything at all.. grrrr..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Comments equating spelling mistakes with stupidity,well just make you look stoopid in my never humble opinion.Who doesn't make the odd typo or two....or even make the odd spelling mistake or two...being able to spell btw is not a sign of intelligence..conversely,not being able to spell isn't an indicator of lack of intelligence..,yes spellcheck can be our friend but not defiantly or definitely...and David I love that you have invented a new word...may your RHP journey defiantly be funful..XxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The spelling Natzi's raise their ugly heads again...yep we all make typo , some people just can't spell.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' Quoting 'funbuns43' The poor guy has stated that he is losing confidence in here and then everyone just slams his spelling. Seriously give the poor guy a break, we are all guilty of hitting the wrong key every now and then. And since when does incorrect spelling every now and then determine the intelligence of a person. I'm with you funbuns43... The guy asked for assistance and out come the spell police .. FFS.. if you have nothing positive to say, dont say anything at all.. grrrr.. What?We are only allowed to say positive things to his question? What world do you live in. Candy land?Perhaps we need to speak of the negatives to get the thing over the line as a positive?We don't all live at willy wonkas..............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' I'm with you funbuns43... The guy asked for assistance and out come the spell police .. FFS.. if you have nothing positive to say, dont say anything at all.. grrrr.. Computer says..... noooooo

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' Quoting 'funbuns43' The poor guy has stated that he is losing confidence in here and then everyone just slams his spelling. Seriously give the poor guy a break, we are all guilty of hitting the wrong key every now and then. And since when does incorrect spelling every now and then determine the intelligence of a person. I'm with you funbuns43... The guy asked for assistance and out come the spell police .. FFS.. if you have nothing positive to say, dont say anything at all.. grrrr.. *shakes head at some of the comments posted in here* I'm sorry OP and I feel for you - you don't deserve some of the comments that have been posted. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'snowpatrol121' Spell check your fucking title its only got 5 words in it and 2 of them are spelt wrong. Plus since when is funful a word? It may as well say I am stupid, so that is not a good first impression......spell check is your friend not photoshop. I cant spell for shit. My gramma is furrking autrotious as well but i can hold a smart fucker like you down and wax your chest, if your no a good boy! And while i am doing it I will hold a spelling bee if you get it wrong, off comes another strip..... I can spell cunt, cause I am one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Lookin4FunPpl' Spelling mistakes make people look stupid. It also says you're not willing to put much effort into things. Think about it -- if you're that lazy about checking for spelling, how lazy will you be elsewhere? The other thing is you might consider adding another picture or two. I rarely respond to profiles with only 1 picture. Lastly, maybe consider spending a bit more time in the forums and flirt with the ladies and their responses there. Almost everyone on this site enjoys tasteful, playful banter. And like i said cannot spell but hey I have tits and arse and a nice pussy , Life is so unfair OP, I feel ya pain truth be told, most guys do not get a root here, but they can get a good laugh if they keep it in perspective.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Quoting 'Jay_me' Quoting 'funbuns43' The poor guy has stated that he is losing confidence in here and then everyone just slams his spelling. Seriously give the poor guy a break, we are all guilty of hitting the wrong key every now and then. And since when does incorrect spelling every now and then determine the intelligence of a person. I'm with you funbuns43... The guy asked for assistance and out come the spell police .. FFS.. if you have nothing positive to say, dont say anything at all.. grrrr.. *shakes head at some of the comments posted in here* I'm sorry OP and I feel for you - you don't deserve some of the comments that have been posted. Foxy I think ms Foxy you have made a few comments in the past about bad spelling? You have also made some undeserving actions/ comments to or about, others that may not have deserved it As have I and many others, so you will find no Saints on RHP And on comments on the forums. Everyone that puts up a post, gets a a hammering. That is the nature of debate, you can agree or not. Yes comments are unkind at times, and yes we should all stand up if we feel comments are wrong. If you have low self esteem this is not the place for you to be, nor to put yourself up on a forum when you often know the results before you post. The odds are well and truly against men on here. Women do not have it easy either, its not all beer and skittles on RHP but its a grown up place for grown up people who happen to have very big dummies Peach, delving through archives with a memory like an elephant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    like it or not, people will judge you if you can't spell. I personally don't think it equates to intelligence but others do and I think it is only fair to him to point that out. It is a bit like when you have shit stuck in your teeth, doesn't mean you don't know how to eat but people will stare and think you look like a fuckwit. I also tell people they have stuff stuck in their teeth so they don't look like an idiot just like I told the OP about his spelling.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    FFS. He asked. People answered with issues that might not be helping his cause. That's why he's here.........Doh! At least on his next crack, he will be grammatically correct. Might even get him a root with an English teacher. I think he'd say that will be a positive step up. I can't hand out chill pills people but Jay_me is handing out boiled lollies........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    With constructive criticism and yes comment that his spelling may not be helping his cause, but to imply he is stupid because he spelt a few words incorrectly is just downright ridiculous. We don't know this man personally so have no right to judge his intelligence.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Besides your grammar, you have put an age group of 18 - 40. Maybe expand your age group a bit. Seriously how many 18 yr olds do you think would be interested? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Over the three years that I have been here many people have put up posts only to be attacked for their spelling...particularly men...there are ways to make suggestions to people and then there is the just plain nasty...Recently a new poster who struggles with her literacy skills mistakenly thought people were attacking her,they weren't but never the less it is an issue she is sensitive about .I know that some people will never respond to a profile or message that is not perfect,and that is their prerogative..but this is not a spelling bee,nor is it about perfect grammar...we are having a conversation ...xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You've added another hot friend since the last post. Your doing something right. Please post again in another month. I want to see who is next on your list. :)

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    I see both views and the correct position would be somewhere in the middle. And as usual there are extremes at both ends. Agree that some of the posts are close to or over the linewhich could be insulting to the Op. But also the other end to suggest that the spelling is irrelevant is not helpful either. We should be able to get points across without being insulting to the Op. He is at a point of giving up which is sad. Everyone has a right to success. Perhaps others are a bit taken back by another attempt for him to improve himself. I haven't looked at his previous thread to see if he took on board suggestions at that time. I havnt commented directly to him on this one but commented on a suggestion that we should be only posting positive comments. One has to highlight negatives unless we go down the path we have in schools where no one gets negative comments on their school reports, everyone gets positive reports, sugarcoated and we end up with a generation of candy suckers. Annie xx

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Your post elsewhere about illiteracy. Can see your view for sure. I certainly admire your work in helping. Can I suggest that the point I raise in constantly positively praising the young can reinforce mediocrity? Not just in spelling but all life issues. Gawd, what will they do next? Stop us from smacking the little monsters......

  • AsingleguySEQ

    AsingleguySEQ

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'AZOZCouple' Mr. Azoz here offering my 2c worth as someone who will at some point pick a few guys for Mrs. Azoz. No, we do not want or acknowledge unsolicited flirts, messages etc for the usual reasons .... ...As I said, take it or leave it, Mate. Good luck to you. Some very good and simple advice in that post ... we have not bothered re-posting it all as it can be read by you if you choose. We are the same and agree with the points posted! Also a little thought - spelling shows that care has been taken. "Smelling Pisstakes" can be made (some times called "typos" ... but it takes just a few seconds to check! And if there are such errors it just suggests a lackadaisical attitude to life ... so why should we bother? Anyway that's our 2c's worth!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Verify your profile and put your real age.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well aren't you a strange package.. and full of your own self righteousness ... If you want a shot at the title , bring it on.... I'm over you self appointed grammar queens... and you think the OP has a problem, ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Jay Jay Jay...... Only yesterday you said if you had noting noise to say..... etc etc. Ummmm..... Leading by example?!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    N.I.C.E. How about that Preview function, Mods?!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Can you do my backside at the same time please? Its almost as hairy. What can I say I was having one of those days! Sorry, I was way more positive the first time the OP asked for advice I think. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Who think its right to judge a person by their grammer.. ? Hands Up ? How many inarticulate people in this world went on to become roaring success stories ? Bill Gates , Sir Richard Branson , Lindsay Fox , just to name a few... So who in this forum allows themself the right to criticise those who may not be blessed with the same literacy skills... ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't think the OP would consider himself a roaring success story in terms of rhp. He was asking for advice and improving the appearance of his profile, in terms of spelling and grammar is one such area some of us advised on. I have agreed I phrased it particularly badly but we all have shit days. That was one of mine and I didn't engage brain first. However I would still have told him the same thing just phrased much better. Does it make me more superior? Than who...the OP?! Obviously not as everyone has different strengths. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In the case of young people who have learning disabilities what they constantly experience is failure..not constant praising..For a child to be open to learning,the first thing they need to get over is fear,...xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Haha. That was funny. I can probably count on one hand the amount of posts I have made over the past 5 years that don't have a spelling mistake or grammatical error.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' Who think its right to judge a person by their grammer.. ? Hands Up ? How many inarticulate people in this world went on to become roaring success stories ? Bill Gates , Sir Richard Branson , Lindsay Fox , just to name a few... Im not looking for a business mentor.I didn't join RHP to look for a life coach. And Im not scanning the members listings to find a financial advisor. IF I choose to use someones spelling, grammar and overall written presentation .... as well as their visual images to make my decision on overall appeal...... I will. These are my preferences.... just as most in here will have specific visual preferences before deciding to open a profile and read further. So, I guess then..... this is as close to a hands-up as RHP has. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    quoting snowpatrol121 "Dude! Spell check your fucking title its only got 5 words in it and 2 of them are spelt wrong. Plus since when is funful a word? It may as well say I am stupid, so that is not a good first impression......spell check is your friend not photoshop." While spelling can be unattractive for some.....so is your aggression. People converse day to day using the correct words without seeing the way they've spelt them. While good spelling may look really good on paper; there's much more to people than that. Yes I prefer to converse with people that can spell; it's not that hard usually to decipher the intended spelling. Much like some people find it hard to verbalise how they feel; yet they can write it all down on paper..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Go to your options section and tick the box that says 'do not allow profiles to see I have viewed them' Its worded along those lines Now go view both male and female profiles, you can view straight male profiles without them wondering why youre looking at them.....!!! You will soon see the ones that read well and have that certain sexual overtone your own profile may need . You can then base yours on those that you view and like. Apart from anything else it will be an insight as to how others present themselves . Suggest you learn patience and as others have said, use spell check ! Bon Chance !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I always thought that a grammar checker is a nurse in an old peoples' home....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Seriously guys??? :) Hahahahaha damn you're good. Totally needed that laugh! Ok OP, what exactly is the problem here?? Not enough attention? Uh huh...I hear you....but...nothing changes if nothing changes! If you need an ego boost (as we all do every now and then) then maybe it might be better if you asked YOURSELF what you need to change. Maybe own your own insecurities instead of projecting them onto those who don't respond to your flirts and messages and then expecting others to fix things. As it's been previously noted, this is not the first time you have asked for help in this regard. Insanity...repeating the same mistakes and expecting different results. Please be gentle with the spelling guys :) xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...anger, hate, frustrations, etc ... in this thread :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    David ignore the spelling bee's and listen to the positive posts regarding the make up of your profile. But you just can't get past the numbers. You are just one of the thousands of single straight males looking to hook up with the maybe 100 or so women who use this site to hook up. A simple search of people within 10 km of me yields maybe 5 paid up women and 50 paid up males.. You will get a better response from RSVP but watch out they are crazy biatches over there, never have I had so much hate mail from being a day late with message response than with those ladies... For a site that is about relationships they mostly are looking for a booty call. And on here where it's all suppose to be about booty calls the ladies are looking for more ?? Oh the irony..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Firstly, I think you like fine. The biggest problem for guys on here, in my opinion, is the ratio of females to males. I am in Brisbane and think all the major cities would be the same. I know it usually runs at a 5:1 ratio. That means a lot of competition. So do what all good salesmen do, check out the competition and look at what and how they are selling their wares. You must have something unique to offer to stay in the game. I will chat to people I would never normally consider, just because the made me laugh or smile in their initial contact. Adaptation ensures survival in any jungle. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No reply to those harbouring issues.. a promise made to rhp ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    G,day mate.i have not been a member as long as you have and can understand your frustrations up to a point.i think there are a number of things that you have to accept when you come here to avoid those feelings.those points have been described above quite specifically re the spelling and ratio of men to women but I think myself the biggest one is not to have any expectations.i think sometimes it's expected that once you've paid your going to get lucky and that simply is not the case.paying is,as pointed out above,simply another tool,along with your profile and pic,to help your chances.ive had one very kind lady contact me last week for no other reason then to help me spell check my profile.there are lots of good people here and the advice they give is all excellent.once you heed that advice and then accept that every woman here has different tastes and ideals when it comes to men you'll know you've given it your best shot and whatever happens.i sincerely wish you well in your search. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Not getting me in. Seen you in action. Squealing to the mods. Bet you were that one school. Haha Sweet kisses for you sweetie. Annie xxxxxxxx

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    My comments are not directed to those with learning disabilities. They are a special case. I was generalizing about the average human being. Yes, generalising..........theres that spelling thing.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just one tip from me: Read profiles and make sure you meet someone's requirements before sending those flirts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think to get off the writing side of things, getting out to events might be better. People wil get the chance to see you as a person rather then a 'profile'. . The chat room, I don't spend a lot of time in there, is more considerate of typos etc I'd imagine, maybe head in there even.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Could be the s.n.a.g at the top of the article.... just saying - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quite frankly, you look like a dick. You need to sell yourself, perhaps leave a little mystery or get women to friend you so they can get at your dick pics... Lots of women here would be surfing cock shots, let's be honest. If you want an ego boost via making friends then you need to show some decorum and perhaps get the ladies to be curious THEN show your cock shots. It's marketing, you leave nothing to the imagination at all. Your whole profile reeks of wham bam and the types of ladies you are seeking are totally turned off by that. Remember; it's really not hard for a woman to get wham bam sex. You need to make them earn that cock shot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'zysis' Quite frankly, you look like a dick.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You went from a grainy face shot that looked like it was taken from a kilometre away to a close up cock shot!? Hate to burst your bubble, but that's really not going to improve your success rate. Zysis is spot on. Read what he wrote and take it on board.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I happened upon the pics changes as they happened today David. Nice pic you have up now, imo. . Earlier, I thought about commenting upon relying on spellcheck because sometimes it can put across a different impression than you mean to. . While I'm sure you have a soft heart, I'm sure you mean mellow, rather than mallow in your profile. . Part of why I think it's best to put yourself across, your way. . Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Referring to the new profile pic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'zysis' Quite frankly, you look like a dick. You need to sell yourself, perhaps leave a little mystery or get women to friend you so they can get at your dick pics... Lots of women here would be surfing cock shots, let's be honest. If you want an ego boost via making friends then you need to show some decorum and perhaps get the ladies to be curious THEN show your cock shots. It's marketing, you leave nothing to the imagination at all. Your whole profile reeks of wham bam and the types of ladies you are seeking are totally turned off by that. Remember; it's really not hard for a woman to get wham bam sex. You need to make them earn that cock shot! No offense dude, but your profile shows that you just after a wham bam yourself so not so sure why you are so down on a fellow comrade for the same thing. Eh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' your profile shows that you just after a wham bam yourself so not so sure why you are so down on a fellow comrade for the same thing. Eh? I read in zysis' profile: I'm looking for A playmate to build trust with, to explore and giggle. Doesn't sound like wham bam to me? p.s. The dick comment read better when the OP replaced his face pic with a cock shot, before changing it a again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Didn't get that far. The first two paragraphs are all about sex and that is all. So he is after a fuck buddy fair enough.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Didn't get that far. The first two paragraphs are all about sex and that is all. So he is after a fuck buddy fair enough. (Almost) every profile in here makes reference to: - * looking for NSA* Im discrete/discreet* I love giving pleasure* I am clean/disease free (why do people put that? All you think of after reading that is the word disease)* im respectful (does anyone say they're disrespectful??) ... and when everyone says it.... surely, you don't stand out from the crowd... UNLESS... your photos are exceptionally interesting. Most guys in here need to help themselves a bit more by objectively viewing their profile from the mind of their target market. OP..... have you tried that method? DG

  • TemptingTroubRHP

    TemptingTroubRHP

    11 years ago

    Wow, what a lot of comments to scroll through! It seems a pretty standard profile: Standard blurb, standard blokey spelling, standard blokey blurry photo.... Something I skip right past all the time. Has any of the advice been taken, I'm curious to see a sexy new re-vamp :) Also the friends being added, does that mean sexy chat or sexy meets? Or are they random adds, similar to what I often get sent..... Good luck on your sexy hunt! - Posted from rhpmobile