living remote

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  From a female perspective, i'd say, well first, remote towns are always going to be a struggle, i would imagine a small pool of people up for this, glad i'm in the city, i won't lie. I have lived in the NW, though not doing this at the time. But i wonder if bi guys have more up against them? Personally, it turns me on the idea of being with bi guys, but fantasising and reality are two different things. Aids scares me, it's a real fear for me and increased risk in my mind from bi men. There may be no facts to support my fear, but it's there and i would imagine that concern would be there for other women as well. Not judging, not at all, god i'd be the last person to judge any sexual preferences but country or city, women who wish to engage with you might be a bit lean on. Men, you shouldn't have any problem, though again, limited numbers in a remote place. Just my thoughts, real and direct as always. I feel for you though, not much you can do except plan a few trips to the city when you can, good luck, hope it gets better for you - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I don't live in WA (Hervey Bay, QLD), so maybe not so remote, (although around 3.5 hrs drive from Brisbane). Anyway, only around 6x women in my immediate area that come up as looking for someone like me, only interested in 50% of those, messages sent; however no relies received. (That makes it zero in my area) There seems to be a lot more women in the main cities but appears not interested in travelling so far, or meeting someone so far away. You at least have an advantage with your age so good luck. You may also need to be prepared to travel, and attend a meet & greets.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Well yes and no... No because you control your own destiny, how you present yourself, act, profile on here etc. Yes because there's only a small percentage of the general population who are on RHP and actively looking. I don't know what the percentage is but I'd be guessing 1 in a thousand, or 1 in 10,000, quite likely less. So if you are stuck in a town with a population of 3000 and the actual number for RHP members is 1 in 10 or 100 thousand, then you'd have to be pushing shit up hill to find someone here in your location, and even then a lesser chance that you might be who they are wanting to meet. As suggested above, you need to advertise in a larger population area and be willing to travel to find a partner in crime.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Personally, it turns me on the idea of being with bi guys, but fantasising and reality are two different things. Aids scares me, it's a real fear for me and increased risk in my mind from bi men. There may be no facts to support my fear, but it's there and i would imagine that concern would be there for other women as well. Not judging, not at all, god i'd be the last person to judge any sexual preferences but country or city, women who wish to engage with you might be a bit lean on. Just a question if you don't mind me asking. I notice that you have mentioned in a few of your comments that you have done randoms at the beach and probably other places. Of course nude beaches are known gay beats and I seriously doubt that a lot of the single guys there are 100% straight, even if they might tell you they are. So, do you ask the randoms then if they are bi or straight? And if you don't it seems to be like you are discriminating against bi men and associating AIDS with them but you probably been with numerous bi men who you have picked up randomly on a beach.Just seems a bit weird.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Have hot butt, should travel.........Im sure a trip to Perth would be worthwhile if you had a date lined up, there must be some lovely ladies here who would like to show you around for the weekend? I used to live in a tiny village in the UK, everyone knew everyone, it was almost a case of arranged marriages between local families. As the years went on, the local kids would take off to the big cities. Youre young, spread your wings sometimes.....

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