M38
met up with a couple but they video recorded and took photos too
March 12 2020
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justforthefun44
6 years ago
No way they should have asked for permission. That's not on.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Absolutely no way if they hadn't asked first! It'd be pants on and deleting everything if someone pulled that stunt on us. Taking pics with consent, not including faces etc... not a problem! Go through them together at the end and delete any you don't care for. Just hope that phone photos don't go to the cloud and you can't delete them.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not ok, ever. If you met via RHP possibly worth considering to report their profile?
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newyboy70
6 years ago
It's a prerequisite we sort out well and truly beforehand.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
That's just not cool. I know of a few incidents (secret recordings of females), of this happening without consent. First time being a male. I would report this. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Impressive to see a guy so new to the site getting so much interest when we so often hear different about profile with no photos etc. Sorry to hear it was such an awful experience. In answer to your questions, I have allowed someone to take pics, they were very clear about giving me choice to use my camera or theirs. I still have my copies of the photos and because of what I know of them, I trust they will be responsible with them as they said they would be. It's a crap shoot out there isn't it because we never really know do we? Peachy
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MrKentia
6 years ago
What was your reaction OP, during the action and afterward? Have you spoken to them? I'd reckon you can open the discussion about this.
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RHP User
6 years ago
haven't spoken to them but feeling pretty down
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RHP User
6 years ago
Im a bit concerned that (as your post reads) you didnt speak up about what made you uncomfortable! And that there was another person there that you didnt consent to being there.... also tells me that you just accepted their agenda without voicing your own You know what happened isnt normal, thats why your inner self is uneasy and youre compelled to ask the forums for opinions So I'm wondering..... What aren't we being told??
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zzzyyyxxx
6 years ago
similar happened to us, a person had set mbl phone up on a wall mount pointed at action etc. We didnt realise till after when we left, when we confronted them it was denied (of course), but was all extremely suss. we ended it right there. be very careful out there.
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RHP User
6 years ago
As soon as something happens that was never discussed that required my consent, play would’ve stopped until I was happy to have continued or I left in protest. And I would expect the same in return. Mr Dragon
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
We don't all possess the experience, confidence and communication skills to respond immediately to such situations. Consider sending a text message to the couple. Start out polite and requests that any photographs containg you are deleted, as you did not consent to partaking in this activity. Keep this text message and any further response/s, incase you need to take further action. It definately is good topic to discuss on the intial meeting. X
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
Just thinking if you want to know how this couple generally use sexual photographs, ask them casually and they may provide you with information on where to look for such photographs. You could ask for all photographs to be sent to you, so you can do a reverse image search. I would obtain this information before proceeding with the message regarding all photographs of you be deleted.
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Sawadee
6 years ago
... but we dont know this for sure , so it must be discussed first up. Mrs S wanted some pics on her first hotwife experience , so l discussed this with the guy and he was fine as long as there was no faces visible. We all agreed, so we took about a dozen.. Later they both enjoyed seeing the pic's and only deleted about 3.. Like all photos ' and without faces ' they become just another pic these days.. Just remember to get approval and discuss the boundrys before anything...
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
The OP is OK? Ms Foxy
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Ragdata
6 years ago
Looks like he closed his profile Ms. Foxy. I do hope he's OK
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RHP User
6 years ago
I participated in an organised gang bang at a north perth hotel quite a few years ago (maybe 9 years~) It was super organised, the couplehad a list of rules and regulations that we all had to agree too before we even met her. The guy was super friendly and she was a busty, sexy, hot biarch! I mean, I wasnt expecting it! I dont know what I was expecting, but just to be able to fuck someone so hot, with all these other guys, I guess I was a bit naive, or expectong someone less "model like" Anyway, I was a bit nervous after meeting her, so I loitered in the bar for 5 mins and got some takeaways. When I got up to the room, theyd just started. I had a shower, then a beer and watched as the other 7 guys started with some foreplay. I wasnt even getting hard and so i went and got between her legs and ate her pussy for about 10 mins. That did the trick and the rest, as they say, is history 👌🏼😁 I'm just glad I got in early, as she took most of thoses cocks that night. After the first of many cigarette breaks (where we all got dressed and went downstairs in the elevator, through the foyer and outside together as a group of 9 guys and 1 increasingly disheveled looking hornbag), the guy asked if anyone minded being in some photos. I said I'd prefer to be in photos, I WANT to be in photos, please, take my photo! But I'd like to see them afterwards. That's all A couple of other guys agreed. But we never did see them. The point though, apart from me reminiscing, is that the couple asked first. A few of us agreed enthusiasticly, consent was given, the others stood aside for a few minutes, pics were taken, filthy dp and other positions posed. Love to be in some more pics actually, if anyone's into group fun...
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RHP User
6 years ago
While playing with couple happened once I just request them no face please and they agree on that . In your situation they should ask your permission.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
I wouldn't like to be in that situation. Don't blame him. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
He was for real. 🍑
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DonnaBrett
6 years ago
They should have asked first. There was once years ago where a couple set a video camera on a dresser aimed at the bed where several of us were playing, they weren't being sneaky but didn't ask. A piece of clothing thrown over it soon took care of that LOL. We have often taken photos or have been at parties where the hosts took photos but always with everyone's consent then after the party everyone present gets sent copies of the photos, it's only fair.
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D_Light
6 years ago
All unambiguously must be consentual and trust issues with ownership never arrived back in the future. I personally have and happy to exhibit and all who have me in it are free to do what they wish as I have done the communication process and trust them. I'm happy with who I am to and nothing they could do would make an issue for me. I won't let it and proud to share. Their pics I have are vaulted or shared as ea individual encounter is unique to the next even if it's same peeps.. Hope you have been in contact with the person's involved op and get results for the anxiety. X
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you're in them, it's perfectly acceptable to ask to have copies for yourself. If it was me and they said no, then I'd be requesting they delete them. They probably assumed you were ok with it if you didn't say something at the time. But you can say something now....
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