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my man doesnt think im attractive n e more

August 17 2006

sex

lately my mans been rejecting me...just simple no’s or hooonnneeeeyyy tv.Last night he said he was too tired but when offered a head job he greatfully accepted.I have put on a few extra kilos but nothing noticeable.sometimes it is slightly visible witha slight bump on my tummy.I havent done anything wrong,i havent been demanding,clingy nothing.He just doesnt want to have sex with me anymore.He doesnt return the favour when it comes to oral recently either.What should i do?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Hey hun have added you to msn to chat in private but trust me you are not alone, just one of the very few brave enough to say something about it xx Belle

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    well if you can’t comunicate than there is problem besides the extra kilos u gained..........US MEN WILL NEVER SAY NO TO HEADJOBS....NOT ME ATLEAST....lol I think you should talk to him.......none of us know anything about you guys so I dont think our advise will help.......I feel like DR PHIL today so I thought I would give u my 2cents worth of advise.......lol Good Luck!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I don’t know how your man could think that you are not attractive any more; my advice is that he might need an ophthalmologist .and if u looking for someone returns the favour when it comes to oral, I can tell u, am dame good in oral ,so if u interested let me know. Have a good time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Hey Double, If you need to talk let me know and i might even be able to help or put you in the right direction where you could ask for advice. Have a bit of experience in this area. Like to help. Regards Doc xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    He must be crazy .... we would love to catch up with u and have some futimes ...your very hot !! .... xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    hey babe, you man must be INSANE not to think your good looking... i look amazing... I wouldnt think anyone would turn you down if you offered sex to them... if you would like to chat about it i can add ya to msn if u like... or wink/message me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    All i can see is maybe he just is going through a stage where he just dont want to return as he just wants wat he wants. How can a man not like going donw i have no idea i would rather go down on a girl then get head sometimes. and with the poic that u got on ur profile hun u dont need to worry. i am a fitness trainer and i know that even with a little bit of a hump is still hot to me. I think u should be urself and be happy with wat ever u choose and dont worry cause there guys who will treat u like a princess and give u wat u want no matter wat. If u are looking maybe we could catch up not just to fuck maybe catch up and go from there or wat ever. but u look and sound fine hun dont dtress coming from a fitness instructor/body attack trainer. from raigy. xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    omg u kidding arent you. Just thinking back to the conversation u had with me a while ago calling me shallow etc due to yr age, and also for someone else catching you out in one of yr previous postings re you not hve been with a man and then contradicting yourself with another posting and now this one. Get real hun, people will start seeing thru you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    your man sounds just like my woman... lol we’re bothj screwed girl/...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Darlin I dont think your weight is an issue,,just take a look around at some of the bigger girls in this world,,,they arent doing without. I’d say he and maybe you as a couple needs to seek guidance. If perhaps he doesnt want sex at all and has no wish to discus it, it may be time to move on. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    First i would like to say that you men are funny lol... *shakes head at some of you* In any long term relationship there are lulls, i am quite sure sometimes this happens in other peoples from time to time. Lots of things can make us not want sex and it really has nothing to do with the way our partners look or a slight weight gain...surely not that shallow. He may have his mind on other things...feeling stressed or just in a place within himself where his libido is down... Communication is the essence of all relationships, talk about this and tell him you have a problem with it..maybe suggest some different sexual stimulation either physically or mentally. (porn, toys, horny goat weed).. he may have fantasies your not aware of etc. Before you beat yourself up about the way you look, i would be asking him to explain himself, if he is able and work it out together from there. Good luck.. niki

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    well from your profile even if you put on over 20kg you would still look attractive, he has got a problem and needs to wake up to him self, you are a very attractive girl that would have no trouble replacing him just remember that love is deeper than skin deep, and remind him that when you get older and have kids that you body will change if you you two hook up, but by no means put out if he does not put out first it is give and take in a relationship not just take and you have done nothing wrong, i would also question him if he has been playing up behind your back, even though you guys have had fun with others together, not seperate coz that aint ON in any relationship!!!! unless agread apon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Considering all your posts in the forum i dont think you are missing out at all double_the_fun. Where i work this is documented as "attention seeking behaviour" C&R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    first off shy girl lol all i can do is laugh at you cause u are a real fuckin character hey.You are just so clueless.Things change.I posted a couple of weeks ago.This is recent.stop contacting me cause im really sick of your bullshit,and i think everyone else has had enough of your childish posts everytime i have something to write in the forum.get mature. Thankyou to everyone else who contributed.you have all been great.I sat down and talked to him and you were right...there were things i didnt know,because he wasnt telling me.And it was partly a lack of confidence in himself too.I wasnt going to leave him...unless that is wat he wanted.But he wanted the complete opposite.He just wanted to have me...but...no sexually.he wants things to get on a steady pace with our relationship.We still have alot to learn and alot to learn about each other.i can only hope we have as much support if we ever need it in the future.Thanks guys your great people.