never know it could be this hard to find a nsa friend is it just me or are there othere people out there ij the same boat

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You're "picky"..... and offer little about yourself. Without significant and obvious detail, you cant afford to be picky as noone knows who you are or what you want. So you're not really making your RHP life any easier in here.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  the first couple of questions you should be asking yourself is why do you think it is so hard and could you be contributing to that ? My first observation is this: No photos, so how do you expect to stand out from the thousands of other guys on here all wanting exactly the same NSA. A photo says a thousand words (there's a forum thread going around about that at present, its good fun reading) so get snapping. Secondly, target your audience Your audience is very small btw, because as much as your after nsa, there are not too many women on here that are. Some yes but most no, so your target audience is somewhat minimal . Rewrite your profile and get a lady to help you Be realistic, you have to SELL yourself to a small market and you have to compete with like 546, 738 other men on here Change your attitude and mindset . IMHO

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  MsJonesy

  11 years ago

  Everyone is picky so there is no real point saying that. Everyone picks those who they find most attractive (and that includes more than their looks). Unless you define what you are after, women will be confused as to what you mean by picky. They are not going to try to guess whether they meet your standards/parameters/desires. And while you are in profile edit mode, add some details about yourself and why you are here, and what you like. At the moment, women will simply close your profile and move onto the next.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You write me "hi", I think "bye".

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Do you mean mine needs some work as I had men help me write it?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thank you all for the feed back guess I'm really out of touch after a along relationship - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  This hard? Pfffffft you're young single and got a friend with a very nice arse.It's not just you...not by a long shot...it's easier in RL to make a favourable impressionOn RHP it's easier to meet those who are harder to impress...much harder.It has been said that if you participate in the forums some of charm and wit may shine through...subtle humour doesn't work very well though.Being in the Eastern states must help...statistically at least.

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  totallygenuine

  11 years ago

  Trying to ask for help on here? Maybe being way too picky in your past life may have came to an end.. Welcome to RHP...hope it works out for you.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Yes Mforf, heed the warnings, the chicks run this show man, there's at least 100 men for each set of "beautiful" breasts on this site, I'd strongly suggest you take their advice, and don't get involved in "mudslinging" on forums, there is very deep network on here, my "blockings" rose by 50% for some comments I made. DDddooohhhh! Some of the ladies I'd never even viewed. FL, just viewed your profile, as Dr Phil would say "How's that workin' for ya'". All good man, sounds like you've got a "dry" SOH mixed with a perfect dose of "sarcasm". Cheers P.L.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  and typos...I doubt that you are recently out of a long relation...your profile is a tad patronising and boring OP..Some good advice here for you and good luck xxQ

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Depends...are you attracting the ladies that you want to attract...?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Yep!

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  NawtyNNice777

  11 years ago

  As others have said, your profile needs some work. One of the things I instantly pick up on in anything I read is grammar and punctuation. Describing yourself as picky and fresh out of a long term relationship says to me that you're needy, still groveling about the break up, and potentially a lot of hard work. Now I could be completely wrong, but what I'm saying is your profile doesn't describe you in a positive manner. Third point and then I'll shut up ;) is no photo. I completely understand privacy, however there are some fantastic pics on numerous profiles that don't show the person's face. Good luck :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  6exxy

  11 years ago

  At least post a face pic in your private gallery. Also write your story yes as you are selling yourself in person. The past is the past move on and talk about positive future things and good qualities you have. Good luck dude 😀

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