newbies!!!

hellloooo everyone,my partner and I are new to all this and to be honest I haven't been on this site in a looooong time. anyway, long story short, we want to have some fun, but we're shy and for me personally it's daunting. I'm looking more to make some friends and go from there. What clubs do you guys go to? we're thinking of trying somewhere in Sydney. Hope to hear from you soon x