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parties?

September 17 2009

do many people go to the swingers parties and are they good? im curious about them but worried it will just be a bunch of beautiful people and i will feel inadequate.can anyone suggest the best one for beginners?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Charly, I have recently started to attend some....dont worry at all..there are all types there.... Mostly its just fun meeting new likeminded people..... IF U WANT TO MESSAGE ME I CAN SUGGEST SOME..MIGHT EVEN MEET U AT ONE....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Been to heaps. Depends on who is there on the day/night as to whether or not they are any good. Like anything in life really, like any sort of party, depends on the people. As for numbers, then that can vary too, depending on circumstances. Some people I know hold regular parties but if there was suddenly a snowstorm that night, then maybe some would be reluctant to venture out. It is all relative really.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We have been to a few in Perth and still have some to check out.  They have all been great for different reasons.  Definitely recommend heading to one, we have never been made to feel uncomfortable or pressured.    Also a firm believer in you get out of it what you put in.  Venture out and enjoy :)   If you are ever coming to Perth feel free to message us and we can point you in the direction of our fav.   K.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You needn't worry. You are a beautiful person, Charly. Just attend, use condoms and lube and enjoy yourselves. I really enjoy them, but obviously some parties are more fun than others. Choose a party with an experienced host cause they have a proven knack of getting it right. The best of nights is when you get home, finally get to bed all shagged out and wake up with an erection thinking about what happened.. hehe. Fun? That's an understatement.   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We go to them often... our favourite way to swing. It is causal like a normal party but with fun extras if you are lucky! We have often found that the attractiveness of the couple hosting it is often an indication of how attractive the crowd will be. Look for groups in your area and often they will host these sorts of events.Good Luck if you are ever brisbane we are more then happy to suggest a few good parties mrs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I was a bit insecure too when I first started to go to parties & clubs but my partner at the time.. who had more experience than I did.. really reassured me that to most people in this lifestyle it isn't important how beautiful you are or how perfect your body is... the most important thing is to love who you are, let your hair down, your inhibitions go, be as sexy and fun as you can possibly be.. and everyone will love you! :-)   (well... actually.. to be honest... his exact words, while we were sitting in the car outside my first party and I was freaking out, were "nobody is going to care about your tummy, all they care about is how much of a hot, little, dirty slut you are" but I know that's what he meant... yeah.. some guys are just very.. um.. what's the word I'm looking for? ... concise.. yeah that's it... concise.... hahaha :P)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    thanks guys,im looking forward to going to one now. and still somewhat scared.bad thing is we have to travel to melbourne to go to one, but good reason for a night away from kids.thanks again for all ur comments and stuff.charly (its weird coz charly is my dogs name, hehe but i like it)