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playing alone, have other men ruined it for my hubby?

September 13 2012

so, as a couple my hubby and i have figured out that playing together is really to hard and finding 4 people who get along well enough to get down and dirty is almost impossible.so we have decided that playing alone is probably easier, but do you think we can find a willing female participant?i have sent messages and hubby has, seems no one will reply.if you recieved a message asking you to play with someones hubby would you think its real?its not as if he is ugly, and he knows his way around a womans body.i sooo much want him to go out and experience other women, then tell me all about it.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Are you talking about one on one? Or are you discussing another female join you? If its one on one you have to remember youre competing with all the single guys out there who often dont have to juggle their sexual escapades with someone else. They dont have to seek permission or find a convenient time for all 3 (this includes you as when its convenient for both of you for him to play is a factor). Single guys are a lot easier to met than married men. Single guys have a lot more to offer in that you can call them up at 10:00pm if youre horny and after a booty call (if thats your thing) and its likely to happen - cant do that with a married man. You can be seen in public with a single guy - not with a married one (if youre seeking a FWB situation), while not all women are looking for their life long partner some are and thats only possible with a single guy. Then youre also competing with the concept that he is actually married and many women wont play with married guys regardless of their situation. Well they wont play with them one on one anyway. As far as many women are concerned thats cheating even if he does have your approval. And how do these women know that it is the female of the couple writing and not just some guy pretending to be part of a couple (yes that does happen)? If youre looking for a female to join you both - yeah goodluck with that - they arent nnicknamed unciorns for nothing. Hope Ive helped Kisses Focus

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RHP User

13 years ago

Spot on, all of it.Sorry but it's true, there's nothing wrong with your husband but single guys are just easier. xx Sarah

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Paradisepair

13 years ago

I think you just need to really trawl the profiles for them. They both go out on separate dates. So yes - ok you're still looking for that dynamic of hitting it off with a couple but there's got to be less pressure surely because we've found it's the couple themselves having the weird dynamic. Not sure if I've expressed this the right way (but I know what I mean).

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RHP User

13 years ago

I reckon Lost Focus has hit the nail on the head there as I am pretty sure most women would just be suspicious of the sort of messages they got from a "couple". Good luck anyway Mike

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RHP User

13 years ago

Go to a club and find someone to go off to a room with much easier Leesa

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hey Couplesint, We do enjoy the swingers clubs, but they are becoming sooo $$ to get in the door. If they were a little more affordable, then your idea is a good one.

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N4November

13 years ago

As a previous unicorn, if I received a message from a man who said he was allowed to play on his own - "next". I was never into married guys. Too complicated and frankly, found them to be selfish and deceptive by nature. As for contact with other women - it seemed that they always wanted their boyfriend to watch or play which defeated the purpose of exploring my sexuality with another women one-on-one. Alone. In a room. Together. So except for that one time that this girl blew me away with her ropes and toys (what were the chances of meeting the hottest dom mistress on the planet whose pure sexual energy that to this day makes me become stupefied in the memories.... ) I haven't found a girl genuine that I would like to go there again that I was so into mentally and physically :(My advice is to try out parties or a club. No pressure to play for either of you and if one (or 2) of you get lucky, the other gets the pleasure of watching the other playing. I absolutely love seeing my man giving and receiving pleasure. Its so HOTTTTTTT!If going to a party with him doesn't float your boat, I'm thinking that your man seeing a sex worker in a good establishment would be hot for him to tell you all about. No strings and always with a happy ending. Best of luck!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Luvnya69' Hey Couplesint, We do enjoy the swingers clubs, but they are becoming sooo $$ to get in the door. If they were a little more affordable, then your idea is a good one. Really, spending $25 each for a full night out expensive? you bring your own alcohol so nothing more to pay?Not sure what you mean if you are a club member you get in for $50 a couple .If you are not it is only $60 each for a whole night out ...so i disagree completely sorry.If you were to go out in the city i know that i would spend more than that, a drink of coke is $5.

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RHP User

13 years ago

FYI this Friday night is our $50 Friday so all couples are Just $50 a couple (thats $25 each!) and no memberships are required.So NOT a dear night that is for sure...at $25 bucks a head..and no need to buy alcohol as you bring your own!Leesa

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RHP User

13 years ago

Sounds well priced for a night out to me, can go to the pub and get rid of $100 no problems at all.Cheers Felonious

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RHP User

13 years ago

Carn't wait to get up ur way and try our ur club , gr8 price for a night out , and a bonus if one or both of us get lucky

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RHP User

13 years ago

Oh and might I say single ladies are usually free...so not sure how much cheaper it could be..lol

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RHP User

13 years ago

thanks for the advice,we are in a small country town, there are no parties here.and we have young kids with very little support around us to look after them so we find geting away together to be a real night mare. just so hard so many people have all these crazy rules, i thought the idea was stepping outside your little box and trying something new.its very off puttng reading aprofile that says i wont do this,we dont do that, wont talk if you dont blah blah blah.anyway, im sure we will find someone one day

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