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playing with mate's ex wife that i used to meet through swinging.

April 10 2016

hello everyone..I met a really sexy couple on a swingers club a couple of years ago. We had a bit of fun, but did not have " full" fun We became friends and I had coffee at their place a couple of times. I used to keep in contact with couple and exchange messages in a regular basis. The couple have split up around 12 months ago...and now the wife..is asking me to have some fun with her in 1 on 1 basis. She asked me to not tell the ex husband. What would you do?

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    By your description, you weren't classic close friends. I mean around to their place for coffee a couple of times.... If you dont hang around him now after their split, then you have very limited obligation for the so called "bro code". I say "go get your dick wet"........

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    10 years ago

    However if you did socialize, I would hope the ex hubby is not a jealous type as he might think you had been fucking his wife all along.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But I would be wondering why she didn't want ex hubby to know..........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Your name Gary Lyons? Dude, Billy's gonna be crushed 😉

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    Arrange for a coffee catchup in an open public place first and feel it for myself if she was genuinely split from her ex husband! If she disagreed with the coffee meeting, then I would say no to her invitation for having some fun, IF I were you, happyboy2016. Perhaps, I am thinking from a woman's perspective, happyboy2016, as I concern nothing more than my own safety when it comes to hooking up with someone who is still legally married (well, you said they have only split 12 months ago, and you used the term "ex husband" instead of "partner", so I can only assume the couple were married couple). - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If the fellow were truly a 'mate' under the definition of the word used by the Aussies...you wouldn't even ask this question. If collectively the three of you involved were nothing more than casual acquaintances that met for sex, you need permission from no one to pursue the former spouse and probably well advised to avoid any contact or situation that might incur the jealousy or contempt of anyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    i was not a close firends with the couple at all...we meet in swingers club....had a bit of superficial fun..i went to their place a couple of times just to have a drink and discuss the idea of full fun....but never did anything...i never felt ok...with the idea of playing with the couple...now...the ex wife want to pursue the 1 on 1 idea.... based on the comments, below..it seems to be ok... let me know your thoughts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Go have fun. So... she doesnt want her ex to know. He's her ex. Theres PLENTY of people in here who don't want their current partner to know.... or their ex... or anyone lee for that matter.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would honour her offer anyway...EVEN if they were still together...OF COURSE.... I WOULD keep one hand free.. just to defend myself.. OR swat him annoyingly away IF He suddenly bursts into the room....BUT hell... THAT possibility is what makes the sex "Hotter"Honestly... I Have only ever ONCE knocked a woman back on the fact of WHO She was partnered with.. and that would NOT have happened, had I NOT been so fckn sick that night.. and that was the one time my best mate's woman came to my bedroom..I had another bedwarmer there .. and the two women got chatty.. I Was busted up from a bullride that went bad.. so I kicked them both out.. THEN told my mate next day that his bride came hunting the night before..

  • clarky1976

    clarky1976

    10 years ago

    If you don't give her what she wants some other guy will go for it and enjoy life