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safe sex.wtf has happened to it???

October 27 2007

I posted a thread a few months ago about being vigilant in getting regular health checks for ourselves i.e. pap smears and prostate checks……this topic is along those same lines. Our sexual health. I’m prompted to write something in here after going to the recent saints and sinners ball in Melbourne. I know im gonna upset a few ppl..but I really don’t give a shit. I saw the biggest filth at that event. People had absolutely no regard for their own protection or that of others. I was disgusted and absolutely mortified!!! And I work in the sex industry, so not much really phases me usually!!! Of course there were free condoms there…and I spose some ppl did actually use them. However, the majority of men I witnessed having sex did not use any form of prophylactic. I saw one particular guy have sex with a number of women vaginally and anally and not once did he wear a condom. Who knows how many women then sucked his penis?? One lady had cum oozing from her pussy cos the guys she bonked weren’t wearing condoms and she didn’t bother checking!!! What on earth has happened to us? Have we forgotten about safe sex?? Chlamydia is surging through the community!!! Not to mention the herpes virus, warts, gonorrhoea, hep b, pubic lice, syphilis and Trichomonas steadily keeping the std clinic busy. Aids hasn’t disappeared u know?!!!!!! AND THERE IS NO CURE FOR AIDS!!!! For goodness sake people, use yr heads!!! Yes, sex is fun and should be enjoyed. But lets be safe about it. The Melbourne sexual health centre at 580 swanston street in the city can give u free condoms, lube and dental dams. All u gotta do is go there and ask them. Please ppl….. unless u know yr partner well and uve both had sti checks…..PRACTICE SAFE SEX FOR ALL FORMS OF SEX!!!! Anal, oral, vaginal!!!! And men, Chlamydia doesn’t show up in a blood test, u need a swab or urine test. Get yrselves checked. Most forms of sti’s can be managed. However, prevention is better than cure. Be safe, be happy. Xx Kissa

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18 years ago

Thanks Kissa for posting, this is such an important topic! I totally agree that people seem to have a lax attitude about this and also a lot of people seem really unimformed I actually had to explain to an adult male that you can catch STI's from anal sex, it hadn't occured to him that it was an issue. As for saints and sinners...........at least there were condoms there this time, the one and only time i went i never spied a condom the entires evening so even people who wished to practice safe sex didn't really have the option. The biggest thing that disturbs me is that there are people out there who don't care enough about themselves to believe there helath is not of as much importane as a bit of quick fun. People really need to consider what their self worth is and why they would let themselves be a dumping ground. Testing isn't scary and we all need to remeber to ask partners about it, if you are comfortable enough to be involved with someone sexually surely you can ask them about contraception and protection Enough from me but take care out there, you don't want the choices you make in your sex life today to effect the rest of your life Try x

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18 years ago

Exactly why I would not engage in sex with anyone who had EVER been to that event - unless they had an extensive health check first and could prove it! And why does it take an event such as this to compel girls to do it in that way and in public! Can someone please explain the psychology although I think I already know the reasons. Any guy who does this and in public is obviously desperate, but any girl that is confident, independent, intelligent and sexual by nature should be able to organise a group of like minded and trusted friends for a far more satisfying and health conscious group experience! Or are they afraid to ask? And during my extensive travels on every continent it is only in caucasian societies have I ever witnessed this happening (and I have attended some more bizarre events than S&S, which is not what I would call sophisticated by any means - so that begs the questions, are caucasions lower or higher up the food chain than apes?

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18 years ago

such an important topic gets hardly any comments..... where as if i were to write that i was on heat or wanted a guy to fuck me in public i'd get more response!!! KL

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18 years ago

if its not on its not on unlessu have been with the partner for a while or are close friends and know of each others movements and have regular blood tests.... i get them every 6 months no matter what..and you know everytime i go in i get told u only were tested 6 months ago and i said i would be tested evry 3 months if you didnt question me so much about why i need testing...........when i tell people i get tested often im frowned at as if im unsafe and with many partners, not the case its peace of mind, but i must say when i get the blood and urine test that there is a thought as to what have i got ,or do i realy wanna know if something shows up.....theres that gasp of breathe just as hes telling you your results................ also i have a question............. sometimes my right testicle is sore while having it played with should i get a check on that??? im not a shy guy but its something hard to bring up to the dr....what if i go hard when getting checked lol........ anyway hope i have made sense ciao

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18 years ago

Sheesh all you had to do was tell me I had a stranglehold on your right hand side "Crown Jewel"....................I would have been more gentle!!!!! Pmsl!!!! Seriously....go visit your Doctor, drop your trousers n get examined NOW!!!! Peace of mind is a wonderful thing!!! Let me assure you that you will not get a hard on!!!!! Probably something minor BUT stop being a wuss!!!!! Congrats on being health conscious every 6 months!!! You set a wonderful example by your behaviour!!! Mwahs Respectfully, Dom xoxox

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18 years ago

hey hun of course u should get this checked out!! anything at all that seems a bit irregular should be seen to. for goodness sake dont be embarrased about it!! what would be worse...10 minutes of 'awkwardness' or a lifetime of medical procedures, pills, surgery...etc etc..(depending on what u may have)?? they are professionals..theyve seen it all. dont stress. if it really is worrying u to see yr gp..then i suggest u go to the melbourne sexual health clinic 580 swantston st carlton. get there early as there can be quite a wait..(sex workers take priority), but they are used to seeing anything and everything and would not bat an eyelid. good luck, i hope its nothing serious. XX KL

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18 years ago

Kiss et all. Yes good subject..here is my 2 bobs worth. STDs are a mega worry. Saints...Venus and I go to every Saints and dont get up to any of the gross stuff you talked about. Anal to pussy to mouth...yuk! Sure a lot of people play at Saints but dont tar us all with the same brush. Sure we have been tempted many times. So far we are clean and we intend to stay that way. We are very careful and even more so of late. Both of us want to meet a like minded bi couple or safe bi group and when we all of us are STD checked and all make a pact that we wont play around with others who are not tested. This will leave the 4 or more of us STD free and thus we can all play without a worry...and better still no damn Condoms or Dams. I shoot blanks and the only other worry is guys who dont shoot blanks...they will have to wear a condom of course. Probity...where are you? Mars

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18 years ago

Hi Mars Yes I do have something to add to this aside from all the good advice which people need to stick to. I think there are some issue that should be mentioned more in regards to STD's and the effects of catching something. Not from experience, fortunately Ive had the good sense to practice safe sex and not had any "presents", not hard having spent most of my life in long term relationships. From a medical perspective, and something my brother the physician mentioned to me. Ive always seen Herpes as an STD that has some uncomfortable symptoms but nothing more. I never put it in the same category as Aids. About a month ago I spoke to someone I had not seen for years who was telling me about everyone from ye olde days, who was still alive and who was doing what. One of my old mates got some rare brain virus and ended up paralysed from it, has had some years in rehab to learn to walk again they tell me. So I am telling my brother about it last week, he is a neurologist physician I did not even complete the last sentence and he nods like a doctor and says to me "Herpes Simplex, it can cause brain damage, actually quite common." "The reason you dont hear of it much is because it is STD related and the reason given for the brain damage to others who then become aware of an illness, is some other reason." Well there you go. So now I know Herpes simplex as an STD is not just a sore or whatever, but might result in permanent crippling brain damage. So what is worse Aids and death, or Herpes and serious brain damage. Both sound as bad as each other to me. I do not beleive people treat STD's seriously enough in that they rate STD's on a scale of perceived threat to their long term health. But it is a dangerous comfortable assumption. Something that can be fixed with a bit of penicilin, may also have some other far more lethal symptom of it that appears in some people like russian roulette. We are not all doctors. So treat all STD's as serious trouble to avoid at all costs. Just think of all the sex you'll miss out on if you get an STD and croak it or cant share your toys anymore. Live long and Prosper. Cheers

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17 years ago

im bumping this thread as i attended the recent saint and sinners night. good to see that STILL no one really cares about safe sex practises. hate to think ppl mite have actually grown a brain or something drastic like that!! k..i shouldnt generalise...perhaps some ppl had connies on. but very, very, very few cos i certainly didnt see any on the ppl i was perving at.

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17 years ago

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