sexual inhibition.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I’m suspecting you want answers from women But I’m going to answer from an objective position of any gender Context matters You don’t say ‘hi’ then launch into your detailed list of fetishes and urges Well, plenty do in this asylum, but the don’t get very far with it. You must have rapport, then interest, before more intimate topics of discussion become relevant

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Go for it..let it all hang out.Fill up your fetish list..leave nothing to the imagination. It will certainly help women with their filtering process..honesty of course is an attractive quality.:) Hugs Q

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  EarthQueen

  6 years ago

  Once a rapport has been built its an attractive quality. I don't mind if a guy has specific kinks/interests and wants to broach the subject because a. I might be into them as well. b. Its not my thing and we can quickly realise we aren't compatible.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  ...approach them with a feather first rather than trying to flog them with the whole chicken? Too, be prepared to encounter women here and throughout other forms of social media that may find what you consider as "totally uninhibited" be commonplace...leaving you wishing that you could phone home, E.T. Communication is everything regardless and once you've established a commonality of boundaries, exceed them. Remember that "no" is a good answer and maybe is not an immediate yes albeit perhaps a promissory note. I am sure you will know that the best time to fly is when the green light is on in the cabin! Best.......... ʗɱ

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  As ML has said....context gives birth to the difference between a guy escalating the interactions and just being a creepy Cunt...

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Can be brought up after an initial message. A first message of " I love bareback orgies" will not impress me. But in saying that, it may be someone elses jam. Honesty is a good thing if you are planning to meet and have established a rapport.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I like confident men, and I like to know what they're into BEFORE I meet them, or before I've spent an hour showering and preparing, about to walk out the door, then the text comes in instructing me what he wants me to wear according to his fetish ugh yep that happened once. I turned around and walked back in my house and stayed there

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  countrytouch82

  6 years ago

  I don't know if it is at all the reference to the interest list available here, in any case I've seen profiles that say "if you have x as an interest do not contact". So being upfront might lose you lots of potential matches (that will not even be interested in talking to you, like other possible listings such as your sexuality). And not being upfront you might not ever find suitable potential matches for that interest. Catch-22.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  You're right. I agree provided they're not deal breakers. Someone might favour certain things, but with the right person? Yep, I hear you there

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Tell me straight up what you like and don't like with confidence and without being an arrogant cock, that way I can and will decide for myself, if you fit with me and my lifestyle. I do not want head fuck games, just ones that fuck with my brains. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Just be true and not plan misleading deceit. Everyone says they are honest but it is how one behaves and acts on it is a whole another thing. Ms Foxy

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