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single guys who want it RIGHT NOW!!!........
June 15 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey sensual, not all single guys are like that as you know from my message I sent last week. I do try to contact people and make my message stand out or relate to the person i'm contacting, but I did not meet your requirements due to age which is fine.There are more decent single guys out there, they just require time to find them. :) If you don't mind making new e-friends then feel free to drop me a message and we can still chat.P.S. Hi Trish!
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RHP User
16 years ago
u are the exception....i remember specifically thanking u in our reply for your ellaborate ,intelligent msg....yes unfortunately u weren't the guy we are after....but with manners and intelligence like yours i am sure there are plenty who's chasing u!!!!! good luck wish u all the best
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RHP User
16 years ago
if the brain is not captivated...then good ol' eric just doesn't wanna play...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Having read your profile, you are clear about what you want and how you want to go about it. So eventually a guy who reads through your whole profile will find you.I'm pretty sure if Casually_casual isn't for you then I won't fare much better. That and I live too far away for it all to be practical. Honestly though, I prefer the approach of meeting people, getting to know them in a non-sexual setting to see if there is some form of personal connection that would provide the right kind of comfort for everyone involved.All the best in your search guys, stay determined!Cheers,Z
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't be so sure 'Z', you don't know why I wasn't what they were looking for. ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have the same type of problems in that we much prefer to meet first in a social setting before any play will occur.For us it is about seeing if we are attracted to the person and they to us, plus seeing if there is a connection as for us at least there can be no ejoyment of any play without some level of connection.Sadly however for us a lot of the single guys expect us to meet and fuck immediately at their whim or beck and call - not all are like that but it does seem to be a number which really just makes us wonder why they don't ask their wives permission (sorry if that sounds judgemental).Mind you, it is not necessarily a phenomenon only for the males as we have had similar with a small number of couples as well, although far less so.But that said at least we will say that if these guys were to follow through it is an improvement on the multitudes that make dates/plans but never show or cancel at the last minute - lolShebagazz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Liked your question and it is so true. It seem's we must have the same people contacting us. We swung with a guy we met on line that night. Nice guy but my wife and I felt pressured into it. We have regretted it ever since and never will do it again. My wife say's she felt dirty and abused. So getting to know someone is wise. You get to find out what they like and don't like. And vise versa. Plus you have the oppertunity to know if you will find an attraction between you all. And not be all one sided. People are in to much of a hurry to get their rocks off and never keep in touch so keep looking. You will find the right person. And for the one liners and people in a hurry just block them as they are not interested in you as a person or couple, they have no respect for you let aloan them selfs. Not all young guy's are young in the mind some younger guy's are more mature than older guy's, keep that in mind. Any way, Good luck in your search and have fun.
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playfulminx
15 years ago
A polite, single guy who is willing to get to know you AND has the guts to meet and play is a real gem. They are out there but it can take time to find them. For me it's usually worth the effort :DHaving said that, I don't engage in endless chats either. If I get a good vibe from messages and profiles on RHP, I'll just have a brief chat on MSN then arrange a meet over drinks. You're never obligated to play so I wouldn't get too caught up with the chat thing anyway. Just pick a nice guy, go out and meet him socially and you can decide to play then or another time. I know where you're coming from but I can see why some guys find the whole chat thing annoying. It tends to go no where. In most cases, they'd rather take the chance and see if you're after a spontaneous encounter. They are horny & impatient so being asked to invest time in getting to know someone who really just wants to be serviced sexually may not really make sense to a lot of guys. I think you'll find that you may have more success hunting guys on your own rather than trying to choose from the pool of guys who write to you with a raging hard-on. If MFM is important to you, then you need to do the choosing and approaching sometimes. Let your lady read some profiles and pick a few guys that appeal to her.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can only speak from some of the experiences i have had with couples but I have found some couples prefer the wham bam thankyou mam experience, mainly this is as a one off though. I regularly play with a few couples and find that getting to form a friendship of sorts makes the rest of the experience a lot more enjoyable. Lets face it when you get to know each others wants/desires, turn ons/turn offs, thats when really great sex is possible, plus there is always roleplay!!!!. I have been to a few swinger parties in the past and judging from the calibre of single guys there I can totally understand where you are coming from, some of those blokes were lucky to be breathing with the IQ they posessed let alone hold conversation with a woman or a couple. I did however meet one or two guys that were regulars with couples and seemed like decent blokes, so dont despair they are good guys out there, I would just avoid profiles with naked photos or catch cries like '10inch wonder' etc etc hahahahahah. Besides you can always drop me a line heheheh
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some want to chat, others just want to get down to business... I'm one of those who is happy to chat and take things slowly. As 'comeandgetme' said, the brain needs to be captivated else it's just not that interesting. While physical attraction is important, there has to be a mental connection as well. Aids stimulation and makes everything so much nore fun. Sensual, I hope you can find what you're looking for. Enjoy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I see a guys profile and he looks the part and my man agrees I just like to invite him ova for a thresome have my fun and be done with it. They are simply toys that I have no interest in getting to know
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think you're asking too much at all. There must be a lot of ..... ignorant males in here? I will chat to you anytime at any level and however long, even if we don't meet. I may inspire you instead of frustrating you both as has been the pattern so far...
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RHP User
15 years ago
There are quality single guys out you just have to put in the effort required. Good hunting! Rob
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'darkraven73' If I see a guys profile and he looks the part and my man agrees I just like to invite him ova for a thresome have my fun and be done with it. They are simply toys that I have no interest in getting to know We agree with Darkraven, and play by the couples rules when, where and how. Poor guys get all confused !!!
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